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[quote=hosrack]@zoneflare2 what do you mean by that it will happen again? theres only 2.5 month of schools left LOL.[/quote]
then don't even worry about it, unless you guys are doing post-hs things in the same area it's probably not worth the trouble.

@zoneflare2 what do you mean by that it will happen again? theres only 2.5 month of schools left LOL.

Date another girl, and flirt infront of the girl

Give her the D

@zoneflare2 well its the first time that I am in this kind of "mess" so I really dont know..whats what.

Apparently she said she saw me today and I seemed depressed, and she couldnt "handle" it, so she called it off with the other guy, who became kindve pissed i think.

oh god. She just called me and she was like..crying on the phone I think. Apparently she told the other guy that she wanted to stop dating him because she treasured our friendship and wanted to still be friends with me.. uh... what do i do?

@Oyster thanks for that! haha I am 18 I mean, im doing well in school, I am already accepted to Georgia Tech, currently waiting to hear back from 10 schools, harvard, stanford, etc, to emory lol. And I am glad youre doing well after your heartbreaks, I hope I can reach the same

Anyways, yea, basically what you said. when i kindve first confessed my feelings, she was kind of on the reluctant side, and nowww she tells me she likes me. However, the thing is, now she keeps trying to say hi to me in school, keeps texting me, keeps calling me asking if i am okay, if we want to talk, etc. I really dont know what to do. And what i dont get is.. if she actually liked me, and if another guy asked her out, shouldnt she reject him and accept my feelings? idk. I confronted her about why she said she didnt like me earlier, and she was like.."I didnt know..yea.." And shes blaming me for not being assertive? Its whatever.

@hosrack: First of all, if she truly respects you as a friend, she shouldn't let you know that she has any feelings for you other than friendship. Because that will make things more complicated. I am a little confused..so back then when you confessed your feelings she said she doesn't like you, now that she's in a relationship she says she had feelings for you.. o.o Honestly I really feel you deserve someone better. You can just hang out with friends and still attempt to do well in school even though you are a senior.

Don't worry I've had a few heartbreaks before and I've moved on from them. I just accepted the fact that well..maybe we're just not meant to be. I've had 2 crushes on guys and it didn't work out in the past. Now I'm recently dating someone and I feel like, wow if my past crushes never rejected me I would have never found my current boyfriend and I love the situation we are in now. Don't worry too much about it, you are still very young (actually I'm a little bit young to be dating too but ).

[quote=Ubuntu]Well, to put it bluntly, you essentially have to turn into a d-bag towards her. Not the easiest thing to do.
You're supposed to fool her. Make her think that you don't give a damn about her, but you're really thinking of her all the time. Try to be as articulate, engaging, and funny to other females while around her. This will make her get jealous.[/quote]

That doesn't work. Well, at least it didn't for me...

@archzach @sodiumOH True. I showed her signs that I liked her, but she thought "i was just kidding." I bought her flowers for valentines day and later she was like "I didnt even want u to buy flowers for me." Also, she asked me if i liked her once, and I lied by saying no, and she was like "I am sooo relieved" and whatever..

@ubuntu @Oyster yeah I should just move on, and I am trying and want to, but she is like..just there. For example, we were suppose to hang out this friday, but after all this, I was like..maybe we shouldnt, it would be awkward and stuff, but she was like..noo! I want to, it wont, blah blah.

So what should i do to leave her?

Next time she's with her bf, tell him to drop his pants and compare your dong sizes. If yours is bigger you're in luck

This also sounds like she may have not even wanted to go out with you in the first place, no offense. If this is how the whole story is, then I believe you may be fighting a lost cause. If she didn't tell you that she liked you until you had no chance of getting her, she may have done that on purpose.

Uhm..

Your Friend: "Hi, I just want you to know that I'm dating somebody but I like like you, just letting you know. You like like me too? Well you should have been more assertive buddy, tough luck. I still want to be really good friends though, we can still hang out a lot, but with my bf, it won't be awkward at all."

Seems like a b---ch to me.

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Tell her that you feel awkward right now and need time. You can still be friends, why not?

Tell her you can't just be friends and ignore her for a week. See where that leads.
You really should have been more assertive though.

Go watch The Perks of Being a Wallflower. This will answer your problems directly.

If she's dating someone else, why let you know now that she likes you..You should move on. There are plenty of fishes in the sea. If she liked you that much in the first place she wouldn't have dated some other guy- unless it's to get your attention and make you jealous so you can step it up and ask her out, then she'll dump the guy she's dating now. Even if she does do that, what about that other guy; if she can do it to one guy, she can do the same to you in the future. Since both of you guys are seniors, chances are you'll both have your own paths in the future when you start university. Don't worry too much about it for now.

You lost your chance bud