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How to approach my girl

Hey guys its me again.

A question ; How would you react if you get a love letter through ur mailbox and read it ( IRL )
Would you find it creepy or cute?

Or anybody else have an idea of approaching a girl?
Her internet is a no go.
perhaps through her sister but thats all.

Thanks again for the replies!

( If you dont know what im taling about read : http://www.basilmarket.com/forum/2632256 )

April 5, 2013

16 Comments • Newest first

evyxx

Dude, no means no.

Reply April 5, 2013
jorrik

[quote=Andwoos][*][b]You haven't talked to her (or, so you make it seem in the other thread).[/b]
You should have started with getting to know her face-to-face instead.
[*][b]She didn't only deny you on Facebook, she [b]blocked[/b] you.[/b]
Again, get to know her in real life instead of being another Facebook creeper with no mutual friends trying to add her.
[*][b]You're not 17 yet, meanwhile she's 18 or 19 (according to you).[/b]
Assuming she's at least 18 (off of what you've said), she has college to look forward to, and a larger selection of guys that have more to offer than you probably do. Why date some underage kid when she has a lot of other appetizing options?
[*][b]You've actually brought up the idea of using her sister to get to her.[/b]
Just... no. If that's the only way you can interact with the girl in any way, you should just stop then since it appears she doesn't want you.

You want real help, we're not gonna lie to you. People have called you a creeper and told you to quit pursuing her in both of your threads... by both guys [b]and[/b] girls. Take the hints, move on, and find someone else.[/quote]

Hmm ok thanks for this and she wont do college , cause we follow a special school project, 4 days work 1 day at school each week.
for 3 years . and the 4the year is picking another study and follow it to get ur diploma.

But ok I get it now. I will speak to her in the barber store next time I go.
Or try to look for her at a party or somthing.

Therefore I thank you

Reply April 5, 2013
ZombieOverlord

OP, I suggest you read the story of the Denko-stalker.
http://www.platinumhearts.net/t6115-2ch-love-story-op-and-denko

Reply April 5, 2013 - edited
Andwoos

[quote=jorrik]Guys I dont get it at ALL.

She blocked me on facebook because I had no common friends -.-
And I will talk to her soon!
I hoped I would get some real help.
but hey this is freaking crap game site how can I expect good help here![/quote]

[*][b]You haven't talked to her (or, so you make it seem in the other thread).[/b]
You should have started with getting to know her face-to-face instead.
[*][b]She didn't only deny you on Facebook, she [b]blocked[/b] you.[/b]
Again, get to know her in real life instead of being another Facebook creeper with no mutual friends trying to add her.
[*][b]You're not 17 yet, meanwhile she's 18 or 19 (according to you).[/b]
Assuming she's at least 18 (off of what you've said), she has college to look forward to, and a larger selection of guys that have more to offer than you probably do. Why date some underage kid when she has a lot of other appetizing options?
[*][b]You've actually brought up the idea of using her sister to get to her.[/b]
Just... no. If that's the only way you can interact with the girl in any way, you should just stop then since it appears she doesn't want you.

You want real help, we're not gonna lie to you. People have called you a creeper and told you to quit pursuing her in both of your threads... by both guys [b]and[/b] girls. Take the hints, move on, and find someone else.

Reply April 5, 2013 - edited
jorrik

Guys I dont get it at ALL.

She blocked me on facebook because I had no common friends -.-
And I will talk to her soon!
I hoped I would get some real help.
but hey this is freaking crap game site how can I expect good help here!

Reply April 5, 2013 - edited
P3pp3rF1sh

I should just quote myself from the thread because this just got way more creepy.

Reply April 5, 2013 - edited
Fiction

You shouldn't stalk her.

Reply April 5, 2013 - edited
demonko33

Are two strangers or what? :o You should just go talk to her.

Reply April 5, 2013 - edited
Zlyphor

Give up man. There really is no more hope. Please, just stop..

Reply April 5, 2013 - edited
Juxos

Honestly if you really want to pursue her talk to her face to face. If you don't anything else will just seem creepy.

Reply April 5, 2013 - edited
Rattata

If I knew where you lived, I would call the popo on you for stalking.

Reply April 5, 2013 - edited
Thupie

she blocked you
stay away from her

Reply April 5, 2013 - edited
Denial

I've received a few love letters before & even flowers...it was very sweet of those men but at the same time I honestly did not like it because I didn't know them. O_O
It differs between all girls I suppose, maybe that's how some relationships start for them. But then again, I am asexual so I can't really relate.

She doesn't seem into you, I'm sorry to say.

Reply April 5, 2013 - edited
Andwoos

She blocked you on Facebook, and you're still trying to pursue her. And, you're suggesting using her sister to get to her?

Stop before she sends you a letter saying she wants a long distance relationship... via a restraining order.

Reply April 5, 2013 - edited
Blackest

That's seriously creepy as heck.
I'd say just talk to her. You don't have to necessarily ask, "Will you be my girlfriend/go out with me?"
You need to hang out and see if she likes you. My friend got his most recent girlfriend by just hanging out with her in the library. There came a moment and they started making out. After, he held her hand and walked her to class. From that day on, they were a couple.

Reply April 5, 2013 - edited