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I came across this yesterday. You don't have to watch it if you don't want to but I think it'll at least provide SOME perspective on what makes a girl feel attracted to a guy. Type in on youtube/click on first link "How To Get Any Woman You Want Using 7 Simple Scientific Tricks"

@thezigen well nobody ever corrected me so what the hell am I supposed to do

@shoutbox: i dont even live in america lol

@juxos: not if u live in america just get a mail bride

@dragon11: kk nvm i think im just gonna b single for the rest of my life thanks bye

First impression is everything. A girl decides whether she likes you or not right after meeting you. If you weren't at your best at the time via looking good, dressing well, feeling confident; sorry, bub, there's no winning her now.

Also, a girl like her probably have other guys crushing on her too. To get her attention, you have to stand out from the bunch. Other guys text her? You call her! Other guys ask her to just hang out? You ask her to be your running body!

Get her to feel needed by you. Unless she's a total B. ignoring you; chances are, she will spare some time out of her busy schedule to do whatever thing with you that requires her assistance.

@yunioracosta: But if she doesnt text me and i dont text her then she will forget about me and i dont really want that >.>

I would not text her until she text me first. If you start texting her non stop you're only hurting your self. Be a man about it, show interest but don't be desperate dude because if you end up getting let down in the end you're gonna get hurt so just be smart.

@samygxz85: thats an idea i hadnt thought of, ill see if I can work with this, maybe mention it next time we hang idk
@blackwingblade: Yeah I kinda wanna know her a bit better first, so ill see what happens i guess lol ^^

well if u wanna make it obvious its a date and u say ur not seeing her till the 24th, chances are the next time u'll see her next is mid february, and u know u can just ask her out for valentines and she'll know its an obvious date.

and if u like her, dont tell her, unless u know she likes you as well, if not its likely she'll feel uncomfortable and ignore u, or if ure lucky she might still be friends with u but things will still be awkward.

just my little piece of advice.

@thezigen if he follows this advise and she rejects him, then what. For all we know she could be one of those girls that don't like guys until she's known him for a while.

@juxos unless you get the vibe that she actually likes you enough for a real relationship it would probably be a bad idea to say "date". Maybe just find something interesting that you think she'd enjoy doing and ask her if she'd like to join you. Or maybe just say "hey was wondering if you'd like to hang out sometime again." If she agrees then tell her "I'll get back to you later to see if we're still on." *7 days before the day* And say "hey, we still on for the same day." Then say "Still looking forward to it." You should probably try to find out when her downtime is so you can at least avoid texting/talking to her when she's busy. (The amount of texts you send her would depend on the type of girl she is or how much she likes you/how close you are to her.) My advise isn't precise and probably sucks, not saying you have to but if you really don't know how to get her more interested in you, you should probably search for a system/guide lol.

@juxos: If you're already going to hang out, ask her then. Just be like "hey I have a lot of fun with you and I like you, I was thinking maybe next time we could go out on a date" etc

@juxos: thanks bb

@shoutbox: Ill hit you up if this doesnt work out dw

im still up for it if u want me to blow ur weiner

@juxos: have you tried dating men?

@windowlegs:
@thezigen:
These two suggestions seem to be contradicting lol. I guess my ultimate question is how should i ask her on a date, we dont see each other daily so do i ask by text? And how should i say it? idk, anyway thanks.

@juxos: you've already hung out with her once and if you talk often and know each other then there's no real reason to not ask her on a date ? ? Just say that you enjoy hanging out and you like her and you'd like to invite her on a date. Personally I don't think I'd be into it if a guy asked me to hang out 2-3 times with what I'd assume was 'as friends' and then decided to ask me on a date. I'd already have it in my mind he's not into me so I'd have moved on by then....

@fradddd all of it

@juxos never ask to go on a date. just simply alter what you are doing when hanging out with her. asking her on a date will only put more pressure on you (which you clearly cannot handle) when it doesnt need to be. hang out with her in the evening if you wish for it to be a little more intimate. but for sure dont feel like you have to call it a "date".

have you ever considered talking to men? you seem to be completely lost and confused when speaking to females. try finding a nice little man and see how it goes from there. maybe you have just been chasing the wrong booty this whole time.

@thezigen: Oh ok. But I've only hung out with her once before and I feel like asking her on a date is too sudden. I also dont really know how I would go about doing that :c
Fk this, im so confused >.>

@thezigen which part?

@fradddd: this is y you never got to bang her
@op if you like her then talk to her dude. After reading your threads I would also say to make sure you specify it's a date, otherwise you're gonna be "hanging out" with this girl till she gets a boyfriend who's not you lmao

Dude this is turning out freakin almost exactly like me and my crush. This same stuff was happening literally a year ago for me.

So, save the conversation for hanging out, unless she texts you first.

i think guys who worry about getting friendzoned are the guys who end up getting friendzoned anyways. getting "friendzoned" is always a real possibility you have to keep in the back of you mind but when you first start talking to a girl, she's always going to be judgemental about WHATEVER you do so just act yourself man. if she doesn't like you, being friends with her isn't necessarily a bad thing unless you're a really delusional guy who thinks every girl should fall in love with them. some of my best and closest female friends are exactly the girls i've crushed on in as a freshman in college but they were either already in a relationship at the time or weren't looking for a relationship in general.

tl;dr: my advice is to not worry so much, especially when you've only started talking with her; it won't matter if you worry or don't. her assessment of you will come either way if she's the type of girl who knows what she's looking for.

Nah def text her everyday or every-other-day. But not too much, unless she reciprocates.
I agree with you. If you dont keep in touch with her, it'll get kinda weird and also if she was interested- she will think you lost interest. By texting her, it'll show you are interest. But just don't do it excessively.

People can definitely leave the friendzone, so don't be worried.