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I like this girl and I've liked her for 8 years. For year one and two, we talked a lot and were great friends. For year three and four we were seperated for a bit and we didn't talk as much. For year five we were together almost every day, talking a lot and getting along. At this time, she admitted that she used to like me. Year six and seven we were apart again and I was thinking about her. Now at year eight we are together again but she isn't talking to me as much. She talks to me like once every two weeks. I really, really like her and I'm way too scared to tell her my feelings about her. A lot of my friends like her too. I'm way too embarrassed to even show my face after being rejected, if I am.

February 26, 2014

10 Comments • Newest first

TrueAtheist

You've liked her for 8 years and you haven't made a move yet..? Your loss.

Reply February 28, 2014
dopeazn

You damn beta just ask her out. what do you have to lose, you obviously don't have any dignity

Reply February 27, 2014
thief4vaal54

Man up mang I liked my gf for a few weeks before I asked her out took like a month for her to say yes tho
@pashmimi
And Truong is just like there.
@leadin still love you tho(nohomo)

Reply February 27, 2014
GoldenBow

Man up and do it. If you get rejected, you've already said you only talk to her like once every two weeks right? And some years you don't even talk. Sounds like you don't have to worry too much about caring if she rejects you as it is. Girls like confidence, *nike endorsement* just do it.

Reply February 27, 2014
iDrinkOJ

you're 7 years late.

Reply February 27, 2014
cutiepix647

You said you've liked this girl for 8 years and during the fifth year she admitted she used to like you. So how did you respond then? o.o Seems to me that if she told you this, and you had some kind of feelings for her at that point, you should have [i]done something[/i]. But it's not too late-- she's back in your life now, and sure, you guys might not talk as often as you would like, but now's the chance to tell her everything. Of course it's scary to think about the 'what ifs' and how hurt/embarrassed you'll be if she rejects you, but you have to take a risk if you want to take the first step into becoming something more with her. Plus, don't think about the other guys who like her, just think about you, her, and the 8 years you guys have spent together. There's a pretty good chance those years meant something to her too~

Reply February 27, 2014
DaGhettoBoy

Here's some basic truth sounds like you've been friendzoned! I mean 8 years? come on cuh
But I can help you out with this
Step 1: Show her you have confidence
Step 2: Instead of having her starting the conversation, you start it and ask her for hang outs
Step 3: Ask her to be your Girlfriend and if she rejects you just move on (You need to show her you're the boss and you're not the type who sulks in rejection)
Step 4: But if she says yes... Profit?

Reply February 27, 2014
SuberKieran

[quote=trashed]If someone admits to liking you in the past, chances are they still actually like you otherwise they wouldn't have said anything.[/quote]

That actually explains so much o.o

Reply February 27, 2014
trashed

If someone admits to liking you in the past, chances are they still actually like you otherwise they wouldn't have said anything.

Reply February 26, 2014
JeIIal

Don't focus on girls.
Just focus on school, girls will make u drop out.
I should know, it never happened to me.

OP go NC with her

Reply February 26, 2014