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How do I stop talking like a girl

Guys, this is serious. I've noticed it a little bit in the past few years through videos but now, my friends keep saying I always talk like a girl. My voice is deep and stuff but... idk. They keep saying I talk like a girl. It's probably because I'm always with girls, ie. most of my cousins are girls, most of my friends are girls and I'm a lot closer to girls. I find it hard to socialise with most guys my age. Every time I move schools (about 4 times so far) I always end up becoming close friends with a group of 2-4 girls and only about 1-2 guy friends. AND MOSTLY GIRLS LIKE MY STATUS/PHOTOS ON FB...

And how do I stop talking so femininely? ...

April 26, 2012

13 Comments • Newest first

mechibi

etheir stop saying like a lot and moving ur hands around a lot
or embrace it

Reply April 29, 2012
DuskRaven

[quote=Orcbum]Well, if you notice your hands gesticulating wildly while talking, you should put a halt to that.
Even though a voice is deep, you can still raise it an octave (or two). Try lowering your voice to its natural level.
And talk in monosyllabic grunts to be more ape-ish and manly.[/quote]

I don't know 'bout you, but in my book apelike and manly aren't connected. If someone called me an ape (although scientifically humans are apes) I wouldn't see it as a compliment, quite the opposite, whereas manly I'd take as a compliment, or perhaps a neutral comment.

OT: Just be yourself, it doesn't really matter what other people think of you. If naturally you speak in a more feminine manner, so be it. I honestly think it has no implications towards your sexuality, or anything else really for that matter (I'm assuming that is what's bothering you about it).

Reply April 27, 2012
AvalonBlue

Just say words like yo, bro, sup, swag, dayum, chick, sex, laid, boobs all the time

Reply April 27, 2012 - edited
MeshMage

[quote=lipperman123]stop saying omg[/quote]

I rarely say omg in real life. I think.

Edit: Guys, I'm not gay. I don't say 'awh' at all and I rarely say 'oh my god'. It's the way I talk and the people I hang out with. And I've heard my voice through videos...

@Fiercerain You're cool ^^
@gtmftw You're funny but I'll pass on that.
@evilcookie33 I'll try that

Reply April 27, 2012 - edited
Evilcookie33

-Does not believe it because of your character-

Er, try not saying things as ,like, "omg", Awwwh, or those others things I hear girls do at my class. Also, don't talk with your tongue attached to your incisors/cheek when you start or end a sentence/word. Try talking about something with your tongue just not doing anything and then compare when you talk with your tongue pressed on your bottom incisors for the whole time. I think those are the main problems of what people do to sound all.. er...

Reply April 26, 2012 - edited
Fiercerain

@gtmftw: You're gross. ._.
You do realize that 'female' hormones are also present in males, right?

Reply April 26, 2012 - edited
Fiercerain

[quote=gtmftw]It is a well known fact that semen has a pivotal role in testosterone production. Man seed is loaded with many hormones, testosterone being the main one. When you "take care of yourself" you unload not just the protein riddled semen, but also the testosterone loaded seminal fluid. Now obviously what you do is either lean back and aim into your mouth or unload into a cup. This is very helpful in ensuring you have adequate free testosterone levels, but [b]it is not enough[/b]. Your body is used to your own semen and therefore you must also obtain the semen of other males. The suggested amount is to swallow anywhere from 2 to 10 loads from different races and age groups [b]every day[/b]. This will ensure you get many different semen strains which will put your body into semenosis. Very soon you will be more manly than all your friends with your near-steroid level testosterone. So good luck and getasuckin'![/quote]

You do realize that females and males have testosterone right? I know you're trying to be 'funny' with this post... I hope you are..

Reply April 26, 2012 - edited
Fiercerain

You and I are in the same boat TS. But embrace it. Androgynous people rule. <3

Reply April 26, 2012 - edited
Pichu6125

Did you know that you hear your voice differently then others? :O

Reply April 26, 2012 - edited
lipperman123

stop saying omg

Reply April 26, 2012 - edited
MeshMage

[quote=Supraman]Sever your bonds with all girls immediately.[/quote]

I can't do that.

@Orcbum My voice is normal though. I don't know what its natural level is, though.
Should I talk with a deeper voice then?

@SoggyToast Lemme find an audio thing of me. Or make one.

Edit: I hear my voice and it's gross.

Reply April 26, 2012 - edited
SoggyToast

can you show us? maybe on vocaroo or something?

because deep voices usually sound masculine anyways, even if they have the stereotypical "gay lisp".

Reply April 26, 2012 - edited