Girl Help. O
Ok, so let's start from the beginning.
I'm in 8th Grade, and I'm a "nice guy"
I am pretty good in school, and pretty good at music and stuff.
I'm not a lonely kid, but I have enough friends, and I'm more of a "upper middle" class when it comes to popularity.
I like this girl, and we've been sorta friends. I'm friends with her friends, and one of my friends are dating her friends. One day her friends teased me into saying "she's pretty" and they assumed I liked her. I didn't like her, but then as we talked, I fell for her more and more. I started to like her more than a friend. Then it's been getting awkward talking to her, and now she gets nervous around me. We talk on Facebook a lot about other people, or just homework. And since all our friends play this thing called "omgpop" (the website) We've been playing games on it. BUUT nowadays she's been sorta playing a lot with other people. Like the other day on OMGPOP, she said something like "Play with me "
I usually don't let this get to me, because she's pretty nice, but now I feel like she doesn't like me and stuff. I'm just feeling paranoid, is it.
She's not allowed to date till highschool, and I can wait. But now I don't understand if she likes me or not, because I'm afraid of rejection. How do I approach her, and talk to her.
TLDR Version: I like a girl, I'm unsure she likes me back. We are friends and all and we get nervous around each other, but it seems she likes other guys, by what she says, and I'm paranoid about it. I'm asking for ANY [b]ADVICE[/b]. Thanks
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Wait till high school bro you don't have a job (save your money for productive things), besides high school is only like 5 months away I've been waiting longer than that for an opportunity for the girl I'm trying for (I'm in grade 10 by the way).
[quote=jiggoha]omg please don't. you'll hate her for the rest of eternity if she rejects you after your one year of waiting.[/quote]
She already told one of her friends, that she would date me in high school, if i waited for her. Then she asked would I wait for her? I said probably.
She was pretty upset when i said probably, because it wasn't a "definitely"
[quote=NebulaSyndicate]Explain your reasoning. I do not understand.[/quote]
As far as I can tell, she has no interest in you more than she does other guys. Your plan is currently to just wait until high school to ask her out. It is very likely, that if she does not like you in that way now, whoever she has those feelings for at the moment has much higher priority than you do. xD
[quote=orangeking11]She doesn't like you in that way. Inb4 she dates someone else. xD[/quote]
Explain your reasoning. I do not understand.
She doesn't like you in that way. Inb4 she dates someone else. xD
[quote=BlastBUM]LOL This was exactly what I was thinking.[/quote]
:3 I'm a paranoooid boii.
[quote=CoIorIess]You got jealous of her playing with other people on OmgPOP?[/quote]
LOL This was exactly what I was thinking.
[quote=CoIorIess]You got jealous of her playing with other people on OmgPOP?[/quote]
When she asks other people to play with her. She tries to sound cute. Even her friends think that she has a crush or something.
And @above I don't want to ask her, until HighSchool. I just want to be good friends with her now.
Try asking one of her friends if they know anything, also don't be afraid it's what messes you up; be confident and you she will see. That meaning smile and have a confident voice.
[quote=NebulaSyndicate]Oh My...
Well, I'm very paranoid about this. Can anyone offer me good advice?[/quote]
Just make a move. Rejection isn't the end of the world.
Just talk to her like you always have. Be casual and try not to stutter. Get to know her better and hang out time to time. You can go with a group of friends to make the mood lively. If the two of you are going to awkward around each other, then being around with friends will help a lot. Unless you have those annoying friends that tends to ruin the mood and make things awkward.
But seriously, just be yourself. Don't try to pretend who you're not.
[quote=sl159]I think he meant, Wear nothing.[/quote]
Oh My...
Well, I'm very paranoid about this. Can anyone offer me good advice?
[quote=NebulaSyndicate]What is considered "revealing"[/quote]
I think he meant, Wear nothing.
[quote=LazyLazyLazy]Wear revealing clothing[/quote]
What is considered "revealing"
Wear revealing clothing