Was I just rejected? Is he leading me on? Im not sure o.o
So, I asked this guy out to dinner and he said yes. I already confessed to this guy that I liked him before, but he did not show any signs whether he likes me back. So after dinner, I asked this guy friend of mine if he likes me back. His reply was "uhm, I don't know.What you said was not a question, but a statement. I'm kind of busy right now, so I have to go ." To be honest, I was kind of stumped at the question so I said, "uh, ok."
I thought his reply was a rejection , but I asked him out to dinner 2 week later and he still said yes. I make no mention of what happened during the 1st dinner, and ever since then we still go out and hang out. I thought he wasn't interested in me, but every now and then he will initiate a conversation in person (but never online or texting). I'm so confused right now about this guy. Did he reject me during that dinner? If he did, is he leading me on right now, knowing full well what he is doing is hurting me inside?
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say, "Boi, I'm sick and tired of all this beating around da bush bull s. Now you either tell me naow how you feel about me or I'm going ta get angry."
[quote=redunicorn]I already did ask him upfront , that's the point [/quote]
you asked him if he liked you to which he never gave an answer to the question. You need to sit him down and have an honest talk with him. Just lay all your cards on the table and if you dont get the answer you want then you will know whether its time to call it quits or keep at it.
[quote=BigHero6]Get him wasted and take him to your place after.
But seriously, just ask him out, He wanted a question, not a statement! Haha! If he's still hitting you up after you've told him you liked him, it probably means he's interested but he doesn't know how to initiate. So after your next dinner RIP HIS CLOTHES OFF, THROW HIM ON YOUR BED, AND DO YOUR SEXY DANCE! <3[/quote]
Hahaha, this is kind of a sudden! But i think i will try again after we hang out more.
Get him wasted and take him to your place after.
But seriously, just ask him out, He wanted a question, not a statement! Haha! If he's still hitting you up after you've told him you liked him, it probably means he's interested but he doesn't know how to initiate. So after your next dinner RIP HIS CLOTHES OFF, THROW HIM ON YOUR BED, AND DO YOUR SEXY DANCE! <3
If you guys are still hanging out then this will make it a lot easier to know. Just ask [i]him[/i] what you guys should do next (ie. movies or zoo etc etc). He might be interested in you, but form your text it appears that you're forcing him a little too much. If he gives a honest suggestion of something that he wants to do, then life's great; if not, then it's clear he's not interested in this relationship.
BUT IDK, IM NO DR PHIL!
he dum
Forget the dude.
He might've rejected you in a odd way. Later on, he'll probably regret.
I think he did reject you in a weird and rude kind of way.
I already did ask him upfront , that's the point
Omg just ask him instead of wanting us to try and figure out what is going on in his head