How to be more social?
I'm not a loner and actually have friends at school and I'm in sports, but when I look on people's Twitters and Instagrams, everyones going to bonfires and hanging out on Fridays and the weekend while I stay home all day. I have a crappy 3g sliding phone with no access to WiFi, apps, or even a texting plan (I'm stuck with a minute plan). Summer's coming up, and I want to be invited to social gatherings such as the ones mentioned above. How can I do this
June 8, 2014
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@xdeltanator: Text them or like comment on their ig, or like tweet?
"Hey you wanna go smoke or something cool like that?"
[quote=xdeltanator]I try to do this, but it's painful when they make plans in front of me or talk about how much they had fun another day.[/quote]
Sometimes when that happens I guilt trip them by saying, "thanks for the invite guys!" Then it'll be awkward for them and they'll invite you next time something pops up. Just start by organizing plans. Try going paintballing/bowling/poker night or something.
YOU'RE supposed to invite people as opposed to waiting for someone to invite you. YOU should be making the plans. Trust me, you'll be much more social.
[quote=Joiry]Make plans with you friends or just ask them if you can tag along.
No one will really like include you in unless they're a really good friend of yours. So stop being shy and
just dive in girl! [/quote]
The thing is, how would I be able to do this during the summer when school's out?
kill them and bring their bodies to your gathering.. they can never say no after that.
[quote=xdeltanator]I try to do this, but it's painful when they make plans in front of me or talk about how much they had fun another day.[/quote]
that is the worst. I feel your pain
Make plans with you friends or just ask them if you can tag along.
No one will really like include you in unless they're a really good friend of yours. So stop being shy and
just dive in girl!
[quote=JekutoNightra]Hang out with a friend who does get invited to lots of social gatherings and he'll soon invite you..?[/quote]
I try to do this, but it's painful when they make plans in front of me or talk about how much they had fun another day.
>2014
>no texting plan
my sides are in different galaxies
Hang out with a friend who does get invited to lots of social gatherings and he'll soon invite you..?
Host your own party.