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Understanding True Intention

Hello everyone,
I'd like to ask for an interpretation.

To start with, there's a girl I like. And, we're both in the same grade, school, and one class together.
I've known her since two years ago, but we didn't know eachother too well. However, by having a class together, we got to know each other, and we became somewhat close friends one and a half month ago until now. We used to text a lot, and she did text me first couple of times too. However, according to my other friend (Who also knows her well), she does not like to have a boyfriend at all, and she likes me only as a friend. Of course, she does not know, I know about it because that friend promised her not to tell anyone about it.
Anyway, I think starting then, she seemed to avoid me, and I felt pretty distant from her emotionally. So, It gave me a thought, she doesn't want to be my friend anymore as she kind of realized my true feelings towards her. (I guess it kind of burdened her a little). Anyway, between last week and yesterday, we didn't text at all and we didn't really talk during classes. (It seemed like she was annoyed by me as I started the conversation most of the time while she was working hard on Exam Review).
So, I thought I would just give up everything, and I worked on my assignment all class today without talking to her. (She might think I'm mad at her (maybe) as I'm really enthusiastic most of the time during classes)
And, now, she just texted me first. I felt like she was avoiding me all the time, but
Why did she really text me in your opinion?

June 16, 2015

13 Comments • Newest first

fradddd

Lel you're still in school.

Just straight up ask her out. Ask her to dinner or lunch or a movie or something. Out of the blue. See what happens.

Reply June 16, 2015
rld81

LMFAO wHo cAREAS HAHA Xd

Reply June 16, 2015
FlushPhantom

Talk more to her about it instead of her friend, who may be pulling all the strings behind this

Reply June 16, 2015
achyif

Dude why are you going to basil for advice?
Pretty much everyone on the first page is trolling you.
Safe bet is to go as if nothing has happened

Reply June 16, 2015
Xenoner

Yes! I think She did notice I didn't talk to her and felt a difference.
So, should I reply to her message just like nothing has happened?

Reply June 16, 2015
RitoPls

Just because she doesn't like having a boyfriend doesn't mean she'll be that way forever.

You could be the one who breaks that mentality for her!

Go for it!

Reply June 16, 2015
tiesandbowties

[url=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lS2BpORASX0]do i have to ?[/url]

Reply June 16, 2015
sighanide

maybe she really just wants to be friends.

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tiesandbowties

deep breathing is key. dont forget this
make it seem like you put in a lot of effort
girls love effort. putting in effort is key.

Reply June 16, 2015 - edited
Collee

Depends on how old you are

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tiesandbowties

bro GIVE HER WHAT SHE REALLY WANTS

Reply June 16, 2015 - edited
Kiryuin

maybe the "other friends" like her too?

it could've been a ploy to make you think she doesn't like you so that they could end up with her instead

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tiesandbowties

she just wants you to chase after her in the pouring rain, grab her by the hand, tell her you love her and then passionately kiss her. cmon dude, it's what she wants. give it to her

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