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I don't really know how to explain this, but I'll try my best explaining and asking the question.
So, I don't know if some of you in basil watch movies/dramas and mostly Korean dramas, but there is usually one character (who isn't the main) who also loves the main woman in the movie passionately. For example, in korean drama, my love from the star, Park Hye-jin, he constantly texts the main woman character, and often bother her in a sense, but takes care of her all the time. However, the woman doesn't seem bothered and she also shows some love towards him.
My question is, in real life, if a guy constantly messages his crush and takes care of her and sit beside her in classes in highschool, would the woman be interested in him if she was not interested in him for the past 3 months? Would her perception towards him differ from the past?
Currently, I do like someone and we are friends. However, we haven't been texting due to summer break. And, I regret not showing all my feelings towards her last semester. So, maybe starting next starting school year, I might start wheeling at her and show some of my differences in personality over the summer.
Also, when would be an ideal time for asking prom? How should I start talking about it?

July 2, 2015

8 Comments • Newest first

RitoPls

[quote=Ecarina]You... realize that not all girls have the same personality right?[/quote]

"These hoes the same, all that change is the outfit." - J. Cole

Reply July 2, 2015
LeeKwangSoo

That neega is the frigin son of chebol his daddys got a billion dollaz in his bank account like srsly. Plus they've known each other since ages ago. Crazy beach prolly thought of him as a family member or a ghost by now. But still a better option than a frigin alien.

But I guess if you really wanna try that hard, then you should spend that time to find out how she would like you more. But the thing is, it sounds like she's never said she doesn't have any feelings for you. Or did she?

Ignore the others when they say it's creepy. Life is creepy. She's probably creepy, too. You probably find yourself creepy, too. But will you be happy in the end? And how can you be happy? Think about what's important to you.

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ILikeAnime

She'll probably make use of you.

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Tranquil

Erm it'll get creepy if you're too pushy. Especially if they haven't shown much interest in you

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Omegathorion

[quote=Ecarina]You... realize that not all girls have the same personality right?[/quote]
Wait, what? Seriously? Dang, I was so close to cracking the "how to get girls" formula.

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Radiqal

Your personality changes would only be beneficial (in this case) if those changes reflect what she's currently looking for in a guy.
Don't just make mental changes, make physical changes as well. Every girl likes a muscular guy.
The best time to talk about prom would be prom season.

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Ecarina

You... realize that not all girls have the same personality right?

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tiesandbowties

girls like gusto
dont be a pansy and if you're at least a 7, you can score just about any girl.

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