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what do i say in my apology though? i didnt do anything wrong, i was just voicing my opinion, and it was their fault they found out about it because they were being nosy

NO! Apologize! Stop acting like a baby and man up. A respectful person wouldn't gossip and then claim that they're "entitled to their opinion"
If you want anyone to like you, you need to grow up and learn to be nice.

so should i just try and wait till this dies down?

apologizing will do not do anything because you spoke your opinion candidly. even if you did apologize, it will not change how you think about them and they will always remember what you think of them regardless of how you may cover it up. if you were deliberately attempting to insult them with the intention of offending them, then I would see a reason to apologize; however, they invaded a person's private conversation and were offended by something not written towards them. we make our judgments every day about people (particularly about celebrities) but nobody will criticize you for saying Justin Bieber is a trashy person despite the fact the what you know is only from media and his social media presence.

[quote=albertrock]the formal's coming up soon and i need someone to ask ;(. The girls in the group that i insulted i really dont care about, but if they spread it to the rest of their grade, im kinda screwed. Also, if i were to apologise, how do i do it? i mean like i didnt think i said anything wrong[/quote]

Just hire an escort!

Dude just apologize and be nice to ugly girls even if they're ugly! Like who knows what if an ugly girl is friends with a girl you like in the future then BOOM vouch my man

the formal's coming up soon and i need someone to ask ;(. The girls in the group that i insulted i really dont care about, but if they spread it to the rest of their grade, im kinda screwed. Also, if i were to apologise, how do i do it? i mean like i didnt think i said anything wrong

depends on whether you care about you being entitled to your opinion more, or the girls' opinion of you

yo f*ck that women always need something to cry n b*tch over. they literally ALWAYS need something to b*tch over
if u feel entitled to your own opinion, and really dont give a single f*ck about what they think then dont apologize.
If someone's being a b*tch then you go up to them and say "hey you're being a b*tch"
in your case you were a d*ck (which I see no problem in, cause really, who gives a f*ck) and you're being told you're a d*ck by your friends/classmates

TLDR; f*ck them, people come and go, they're ugly and you decided to point it out deal with it, you are still a dumbass for assuming a girl can "keep a secret" and thinking "they broke into her phone"

Stay alpha my brother, women are women. But remember, the real man can convincingly apologize to end drama. It's an acquired skill

Well you can never take your words back. The conversation should have been secretive since you were expecting your opinions to be kept secret. If I was in this situation, they can't possibly bother me enough to change my opinion and the people telling me to apologize don't understand that you were expressing a sensitive opinion in what was supposed to be a very private situation with one other person and you shouldn't have to withdraw your opinion.

I probably sound like a jag but these people just need to understand that this is what people will think of you. You can't expect to change it just by saying "OMG that's so mean! You have to apologize right now or else you're isolated for giving your opinion." It's called an opinion for a reason. Especially in a private conversation.

Edit: Just before anyone flames me, I do not pass judgement to people I barely know.

Clearly you have no idea how girls work. But that's ok, because I don't really either; they are a mysterious species. But I will say this. You can talk crap about a guy and have them forgive you. But if you still want to be friends with those girls, you HAVE to apologize. Yes, you can have an opinion, but putting it out there is a very dangerous thing to do, cause if it gets out, everyone sees you as a jerk. From now on, if you have a negative thing to say ( ESPECIALLY about a girl), just keep it to yourself. But yea, you can try and convince them you are entitled to your opinion, but at the end of the day, you just gotta to do what a man has to do and apologize. Even if you're right or think you're right, you still gotta apologize to a women. Why? Because that's how our culture works.

just appologize, u do have ur own opinion but its not right to let it out if u know it will hurt someone even just a little

Here is my honest opinion:

F*CK you.
Why would you disrespect people you barely know by judging them on information you get from a chat or whatever you've seen?
I don't judge somebody on their appearance.

Seriously, just burn and stay strong and stay entitled to your opinion.
I don't even feel bad for you.

Whenever I make fun of people I hate, then I'm already beyond a point of giving a --------- about them.

if they cant forget cant they forgive ;(

thanks guys but right now im trying to solve this problem. any ideas?

That is why you must be careful when messaging a girl. The information will get out one way or another...

You are entitled to your opinion but not when it is personal xD

[url=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3hmlPtRu1SQ]Men: We know how to be Friends[/url]

[quote=albertrock]am i not entitled to my own opinion though? i didnt say it to their face, it was their fault for being nosy and reading the pm. i cant be responsible for your emotional instability[/quote]

You are, but if it is a negative thing you should keep it to yourself. It's not a secret once it's been told.

who cares they all probably ratchet ass hoes anyway

[quote=LostMyJob]Apologise.
You are a dumbass and i am entitled to say that because it is my own "opinion"
hurr durr.
If you don't have anything nice to say don't say it at all.[/quote]

am i not entitled to my own opinion though? i didnt say it to their face, it was their fault for being nosy and reading the pm. i cant be responsible for your emotional instability

Apologise.
You are a dumbass and i am entitled to say that because it is my own "opinion"
hurr durr.
If you don't have anything nice to say don't say it at all.