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Does she like me?

So its been a while. And you can say that she's one of the most popular girls in the school. She's been acting strange around me. I feel as she is hitting on me. Lately she's been giving my hugs everyday which she never used to. Starts to talk to me more. holds my hand and she's been acting closer to me then before and differently more kindly. She refers to me as her bestie* lately and we barely talk to each other then the usual 1 time a week short conversation before this happened. some times we get into long conversations.

Well since all of you basilers are relationship/love experts what do you think?

October 10, 2012

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Collateral

The only person that knows is her so ask her?

Reply October 14, 2012
Laker1294

[quote=zoneflare2]@Laker1294: no rule says that you have to. some men and women go through life with nothing but rejection or just find people around them so distasteful that they would rather be alone. I mean for me I find the women of Arizona to be unhygienic, tattoo filled, rags. I havnt found one attractive woman here since ive moved here even after 6 month.[/quote]

Aww well you don't have to live in Arizona forever though. Don't worry there's still hope.

Reply October 12, 2012
Laker1294

[quote=zoneflare2]@Laker1294: ive heard stories of some never having one.[/quote]

I guess not everyone finds someone lol.

Reply October 11, 2012
KitKatILY

@cool123ter: -.- i wanna stab u
I don't like hugs so if she hugs you idk if she calls u her bestie you slightly friendzoned but still got a chance
She wants some peanut butter in her jelly

Reply October 11, 2012 - edited
cool123ter

@KitKatILY: oh ye. Well thats rude. I was just saying yo! women can be so harsh.

Reply October 11, 2012 - edited
KitKatILY

[quote=cool123ter]why do i remember that ign hmmm[/quote]
you called me rude to not answering you lame joke.
it went like this:
I was talking to my friend and you came and was like Yo, Nessa and i was like what? and your like you dont answer how rude

Reply October 11, 2012 - edited
cool123ter

[quote=KitKatILY]^
this guy has got it[/quote]
why do i remember that ign hmmm

Reply October 11, 2012 - edited
KitKatILY

[quote=FlamingPotatoes]She wants the D[/quote]
^ this guy has got it

Reply October 11, 2012 - edited
tree720

friend-zoned :L LOLOLOL idk wtf... why dont' you man up and ask her?

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
Laker1294

[quote=zoneflare2]well everyone experiences it one way of another. cant really imagine a life where everything goes a person's way [/quote]

I've heard stories of people only having one BF/GF though..

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
hessamgol

Lol guys thanks for the help and all.

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
HastyHeist

Why are you asking us? noob

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
Juxos

Teasing you or friendzoning you

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
Oyster

@Laker1294: Nahh..biology more. Chemistry and physics- if you have a good lecturer, the only time you'll open the textbook is when you're doing hwk.

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
Laker1294

[quote=outfoxed]everyone gets rejected o.o. just be confident![/quote]

Rejection is a part of life. Almost everyone experiences it.

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
outfoxed

[quote=hessamgol]Well I just wanted opinions. Because what if i did and she rejected me i would make a fool out of myself.[/quote]
everyone gets rejected o.o. just be confident!

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
WhaleKisses

Nah, she just a gold digger.

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
Laker1294

[quote=Oyster]@Laker1294: Haha, the main reason why I don't want to be a biology major is all that [i]reading[/i]. Memorizing isn't a problem for me, if someone reads it to me.
Hmm..well maybe there are audio books, haha.[/quote]

Don't you have to read a lot for all majors? I heard that you have to buy thick books in college..and read a lot..my aunt told me..she's a math major though.

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
fun2killu

[quote=FlamingPotatoes]She wants the D[/quote]

You give her that D, cuz that's were you was born and raised.

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
Oyster

@Laker1294: Haha, the main reason why I don't want to be a biology major is all that [i]reading[/i]. Memorizing isn't a problem for me, if someone reads it to me.
Hmm..well maybe there are audio books, haha.

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
Laker1294

[quote=Oyster]@Laker1294: o.o The only time when I've cut open an animal was a fish when I prepare dinner.. You get to wear gloves right? I feel like when I'm wearing gloves, I'm invincible and can touch anything. [/quote]

Of course but it doesn't prevent the room from smelling horrible. o.o I'm sure breathing in the chemicals used to preserve the animal isn't healthy..(main reason why I don't want to be a biology major).

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
Oyster

@Laker1294: o.o The only time when I've cut open an animal was a fish when I prepare dinner.. You get to wear gloves right? I feel like when I'm wearing gloves, I'm invincible and can touch anything.

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
Laker1294

[quote=Oyster]@Laker1294: Yeah, one of my senior friends is taking a "college now" course in HS and they had to dissect a sheep's brain.[/quote]

Oh wow. I dissected a frog, owl pellet, squid, rat..in life science (junior high) and biology honors.. My biology honors teacher showed us a sheep's heart once; it wasn't smelly though because it was in a plastic bag.

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
CherryTigers

showing mixed feelings. she's trying to get into your head and play with you (in a positive way)
don't jump right in either. love is fun, play with her too. one day, surprise her with chocolates or something too. it's exciting.

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
Oyster

@Laker1294: Yeah, one of my senior friends is taking a "college now" course in HS and they had to dissect a sheep's brain.

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
Laker1294

[quote=Oyster]@Laker1294: Oh I see, are you thinking of maybe going for nursing? I know right now, nurses are pretty high on demands.[/quote]

Nope.. I can't really stand the smell of hospitals..or dissections in general... I know that you have to do lots of dissections as a biology major..

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
Oyster

@Laker1294: Oh I see, are you thinking of maybe going for nursing? I know right now, nurses are pretty high on demands.

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
Laker1294

[quote=Oyster]@Laker1294: Oh I see. So you are thinking of going to a uni for grad school, and CC for undergrad? That isn't bad. I don't know what your major is, from what I know, if you are planning to get a Ph.D. in the science fields, they provide you with free money. Depending on your uni and grants, they pay all your tuition and you get to keep around 30-40k in your pockets (annually). I believe it's only true for the sciences? I don't know about the other fields.[/quote]

I want to major in nutrition..going for my bachelors.. Maybe masters in the future but I'm not sure.. I'm definitely moving out after I get my bachelors..hopefully I can find a job..

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
Xreniya

I found the last sentence of your post funny

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
Oyster

@Laker1294: Oh I see. So you are thinking of going to a uni for grad school, and CC for undergrad? That isn't bad. I don't know what your major is, from what I know, if you are planning to get a Ph.D. in the science fields, they provide you with free money. Depending on your uni and grants, they pay all your tuition and you get to keep around 30-40k in your pockets (annually). I believe it's only true for the sciences? I don't know about the other fields.

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
sasori5

She craves your rod

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
Laker1294

@Oyster I'm not going to a university first though.. A CC then transfer since it's cheaper (less loans).. I didn't know that they exist. I wouldn't be able to apply to them if they're cheer, band, or athlete scholarships though.

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
Oyster

@Laker1294: Aren't there scholarships that doesn't require a GPA limit, or some with 2.0 and above (that's what I heard from my brother). It's free to apply for scholarships.
@hessamgol: What's wrong with secretly dating, just don't do anything out of bound

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
ValorEye

@hessamgol I agree with you, but don't dis on jack sparrow, im his child.

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
Laker1294

[quote=Oyster]Does your college accept financial aid, I know you can apply for them if your parent's income doesn't exceed 60k annually (both parents), or apply for scholarships. I know how that is, my brother is in his first year of uni and his tuition costs around 57k per year, he has some scholarships but we don't qualify for financial aid .

OT: How old are you? Are you still in HS and your parents don't allow you to date. Maybe you should let her know and you guys can wait till college.[/quote]

My parents combined income is more than 60k. I'm not academically smart (don't have the best grades or GPA)..or have any special talent so I don't think I could apply..for a schloarship

Also she might not wait that long.. My former crush told me that he would wait for me but he never did.

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
Oyster

[quote=Laker1294]Mhmm..unfortunately.. I'm a senior in high school now though. I'm too poor to afford a dorm..and my dad is paying for part of my college tuition.[/quote] Does your college accept financial aid, I know you can apply for them if your parent's income doesn't exceed 60k annually (both parents), or apply for scholarships. I know how that is, my brother is in his first year of uni and his tuition costs around 57k per year, he has some scholarships but we don't qualify for financial aid .

OT: How old are you? Are you still in HS and your parents don't allow you to date. Maybe you should let her know and you guys can wait till college. Hvmm..I don't think my parents have any issues with me or my brother dating, idk, they always seem to believe I'm the picky type anyways and wouldn't find "the one" yet while I'm still in HS

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
Laker1294

[quote=Phong128992]you staying with them until college is done? ouch. I'm staying with them until I'm done with grad/ college too so I know how you feel. I have to commute back to this crappy home every day after class >.>[/quote]

Mhmm..unfortunately.. I'm a senior in high school now though. I'm too poor to afford a dorm..and my dad is paying for part of my college tuition.

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
hessamgol

[quote=Herosgate]Do something before she friendzone's you. By the looks of it, it could be too late since she's calling you her bestie.[/quote]

She started calling me that the time she started getting "closer" to me

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
Phong128992

[quote=Laker1294]I'm not allowed to date either but I have it worse than you.. My parents won't let me go to my friends' houses.. And my mom won't let me spend time with friends (I'm 17). Can't wait to move out (5 more years).[/quote]

you staying with them until college is done? ouch. I'm staying with them until I'm done with grad/ college too so I know how you feel. I have to commute back to this crappy home every day after class >.>

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
DarkWeirdo27

[quote=hessamgol]That would be great but we dont have any classes together and my parents wouldn't be open to me bringing home a girl.[/quote]

Oh god that sucks, I guess you should spend more time with her in school then I guess, sorry couldnt help you more, it wouldbe nice if you two dated. Plus she seems like the sweet type of girl.

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
kurandox99

She wanteth in thy pantaloons.

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
Laker1294

[quote=hessamgol]Im not allowed to date. And I have those parents who wont let me go places without knowing all details and if i were to lie and they find out. its the end of the world for me. She i cant really take her anywhere. even if i were to date her secretly.[/quote]

I'm not allowed to date either but I have it worse than you.. My parents won't let me go to my friends' houses.. And my mom won't let me spend time with friends (I'm 17). Can't wait to move out (5 more years).

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
GuardianCreator

well my friends do that with me too, but we're not hitting on each other...then again, different situations everywhere.
Is she "holding" your HAND, or is she putting her arm around yours or her hand on your arm? Don't make it sound bigger than it really is
...She knows you're not gay right? I mean, if you are, good for you, but she probably sees you as a girl then.

Reply October 10, 2012 - edited
Herosgate

Do something before she friendzone's you. By the looks of it, it could be too late since she's calling you her bestie.

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