Never had a relationship
Hey guys, so I am almost going to be 20 soon; my teenage years will be past me, and yet I am still single. I have never had a relationship whatsoever. Its slowly making me depressed. I just want to have someone out there who loves me for me and will be there for me, but I don't think that would ever happen. I dont think know what kissing is like. Almost no girls had expressed interests in me whatsoever, and I am just sooo awkward with all of them. There had been some girls that were interested in me, however, they were all mostly asian girls. Unfortunately, I mostly only find white girls attractive. I am asian myself, I feel like white girls would never like an asian guy like me. I dont know.. i dont think i am that ugly, maybe I am idk. I am 6'0", 180lb. Works out a lot, in great physique. I tend to think I am a pretty funny person.. But i dont like to drink or party and that stuff, is that why no white girls like me? Sighh I go to a top 10 business school in the nation, so intellectually I am far above average i would think. Am I bound to live a single life void of love forever?
Also, if i get rich in the future, would i be able to find a loving wife? I am already on my way towards millionaire status, probs by 25. Would money buy me happiness in terms of relationship?
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If you're in college, why don't you have a Tinder? lol
What school do you go to btw?
As for getting a relationship, who cares, fool around and live your life.
A relationship will come naturally.
@BoredAF Well first, I am very VERY fearful of rejection. Second, I am not a very confident guy and I am not that bravery per say. Also, the girls I see are all from my school campus. What if they reject me and I run into them again? Awkwardness? What if they spread rumors about me across campus for being the guy that gets rejected?
How can I overcome these?
@Updated of course i look for personalities! But looks matter too.
@BoredAF but the thing is.. I am bad at approaching girls. It takes awhile for me to open up to a girl, likes months. And by then I probs just get friend. And i just dont like the girls that approach me. that are all weird in a way
To people saying this is a troll thread, its not. I honestly think I am going to die alone. Sometimes I feel like God robbed me off my rights to happiness.
jst b urself m8
I mean, you should look for personality too...unless you're just looking to "hook up". You said you wanted a girl to love you for you and to be there for you, does she have to be white? If you're desperate, just give anyone (decent looking or whatever) that's into you a chance.
[quote=tiesandbowties]lol best troll thread this week
Nice.
EDIT: haha at least you got those 2 posters above me[/quote]
How is posting a believable story "trolling"? Even if it isn't true, it's just wasting people's times, not trolling.
Its not big deal bro, you dont need to drink or party just be confident with your decisions and who you are.
I dont know if its always been this way but the media pressures young people to smoke, drink, and have sex at a younger age.
Also its presumptuous to call yourself smart, dont do that. Be humble
you just need more confidence. It'll happen when it happens, don't worry about it and please don't turn into Elliot Rodgers
lol best troll thread this week
Nice.
EDIT: haha at least you got those 2 posters above me