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my brother is gay?

Hey Basil, do any of you have homosex relatives? I don't know how to deal with finding out my older brother might be gay I walked in on him and his bestfriend of a few years making out, I didn't let them know I could see them but they were really going at it so I left, it was too much for just friends experimenting.. another thing is that he has had four girlfriends and i havent had ANY im a VIRGIN. I don't plan on confronting him about because he is a good bro and its his choice but I should talk to him about this right? something should be done yes? i feel sick honestly and im not a gay hater

March 30, 2015

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Carbyken

@oakmontowls: Well... I tend to hang out with him and my little cousin the most. (They're usually together a lot in a brother/sister relationship) Plus he's also the most down to earth compared to everyone else in this house, but that might be me going insane deep down from everyone else's mishaps.

Reply March 31, 2015
oakmontowls

[quote=Carbyken]@rixworkwix: Well what I wrote here pretty much explains how it all began essentially, but if people really want I guess I can make a new thread copy/paste this if they want to to discuss it in more detail? Also it's not just him, but everyone in my house has a ridiculous story that I was involved with, good or bad it depends on who really.[/quote]

So can we assume from the way you are telling us about this, is that you now have 0 attraction to him and he doesn't get it still?

Reply March 31, 2015
Carbyken

@rixworkwix: Well what I wrote here pretty much explains how it all began essentially, but if people really want I guess I can make a new thread copy/paste this if they want to to discuss it in more detail? Also it's not just him, but everyone in my house has a ridiculous story that I was involved with, good or bad it depends on who really.

Reply March 31, 2015
rixworkwix

[quote=Carbyken]@MateoCl: Yea that pretty much sums up the whole thing really.[/quote]

can you make a thread with that story please. its really amazing. and they just ditched him? like "here you go, you broke him you keep him" (not srs)

Reply March 31, 2015
TheseNips

[quote=oakmontowls]but if he continues with how hes been he is going to be discovered[/quote]
maybe next time ill try to make him aware im close by?

Reply March 31, 2015
TheKingslayer

Sorry about ur situation.. if I found out my bro was gay i wouldnt know how to deal with it. Id definately be sick to my stomach too.

Reply March 31, 2015
oakmontowls

[quote=TheseNips]yeah dads a real psycho, ill just let this secret die with me[/quote]

but if he continues with how hes been he is going to be discovered

Reply March 31, 2015
TheseNips

[quote=oakmontowls]if you truly want to look out for him then you should talk to him about either coming out or concealing it a little better if what you say about your father is true

oh and -insert obligatory threesome joke-[/quote]
yeah dads a real psycho, ill just let this secret die with me

Reply March 31, 2015
oakmontowls

if you truly want to look out for him then you should talk to him about either coming out or concealing it a little better if what you say about your father is true

oh and -insert obligatory threesome joke-

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Carbyken

@MateoCl: Yea that pretty much sums up the whole thing really.

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Xiscis

If i had a gay brother i would be happy.
very happy, because i can mess with him even more not because he is gay.
Now i can joke around with him with girls since he is not attracted to them, EVEN MORE

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MateoCl

@carbyken so I need clarification: your cousin is a trap?

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Carbyken

@TheseNips: It's a physique thing which I don't understand really. He has the body and voice of a girl, but down there it's entirely different...

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TheseNips

[quote=Carbyken]Right at 12:00 turned I turned over gave her a big smooch in the lips as New Years came in. Her mother came out, and saw us yelling "NOOOOOOOO!". Everyone else came out to see what happened, I looked over and stupidly said "What happened? O_O" The mother yapped "THAT'S MY SON! YOU CRAZY BOY!" And my mom yelled "And your cousin of all things?" I just turned blank in the face, but HE jumped on me, and started to cuddle me with kisses and face rubs. My sister and friend just laughed at the sight of all this. He then whispered to my ear, "I love you too!~ ^_^" A month afterwards his parents showed up with him, and asked us if he can stay with us for awhile. My mom was a little reluctant, but she agreed. However this was the last time we ever heard from them, so now he basically lives with us. Forever and ever.... and ever....[/quote]

Your cousin who you thought was a girl is actually a pretty guy? wow that must be a confusing boner.. im lucky im not in ur situation i wouldnt be able to hold back and Im not even gay

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Carbyken

@TheseNips: It's a bit of a story, but around New Year's for 2002 me, my sister, and a lot of other family members were at my grandma's for the celebration. There wasn't many kids to really hang around with, it was just me, again my sister, and my best friend who tagged along because he didn't want to celebrate with his parents. Eventually another set of parents brought along their daughter. I didn't knew who they were at first I just assume they were some family friends or something, but I actually created a childish crush on her. We started to talk, and hang out for awhile. Around 11:45 or so we decided to go outside and watch the fireworks. I started to get a little panicky due to my fiery passion becoming a "Wow~!" sort of thing. We chit chat some minor things, she kinda complained about her parents probably flipping out if they saw us like this. I don't know why, I just assume her parents were overprotective really. 11:58 was counting, and I thought to make my New Year start with a bang... so I tried to stall for the next minute. Right at 12:00 turned I turned over gave her a big smooch in the lips as New Years came in. Her mother came out, and saw us yelling "NOOOOOOOO!". Everyone else came out to see what happened, I looked over and stupidly said "What happened? O_O" The mother yapped "THAT'S MY SON! YOU CRAZY BOY!" And my mom yelled "And your cousin of all things?" I just turned blank in the face, but HE jumped on me, and started to cuddle me with kisses and face rubs. My sister and friend just laughed at the sight of all this. He then whispered to my ear, "I love you too!~ ^_^" A month afterwards his parents showed up with him, and asked us if he can stay with us for awhile. My mom was a little reluctant, but she agreed. However this was the last time we ever heard from them, so now he basically lives with us. Forever and ever.... and ever....

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TheseNips

[quote=Carbyken]My cousin has the hots for me. Although I can only blame myself for why he loves me so much...[/quote]
wtf did u do?

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Carbyken

My cousin has the hots for me. Although I can only blame myself for why he loves me so much...

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Chema

[quote=TheseNips]why would I ask my brother who lives with me what brand of toothpaste he wears >.<[/quote]

For the same reason you would ask him where he likes to put his penbasilmarket.com/funcis

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TheseNips

[quote=Chema]You should also talk to him about the brand of toothpaste he uses while you are at it[/quote]
why would I ask my brother who lives with me what brand of toothpaste he wears >.<

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Chema

You should also talk to him about the brand of toothpaste he uses while you are at it

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TheseNips

[quote=iDrinkOJ]i don't have any gay relatives[/quote]
you dont know that u really dont know that

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iDrinkOJ

i don't have any gay relatives

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zigen

but did they say no homo? its not gay if they said no homo before they did it

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TheseNips

[quote=SoulBlade]Why would your brother be any different now that he is gay? He should still be the same person, only he dates guys.[/quote]
ur right. the thing is that our father is a drunk from the south that was abused until he ran away at the age of 16, it wont go over well for my brother if he finds out. my brother didnt do a very good job of hiding his boyfriend they were in the living room where just about anybody can look into without u knowing. its just a surprise and our mom wud be okay with it she is a kind woman, i think i might suggest that he moves to her place before dad cathes him

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SoulBlade

Why would your brother be any different now that he is gay? He should still be the same person, only he dates guys.

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TheseNips

[quote=Defaulty]lol homosex
OT:You should find out a bit more about him until you ask[/quote]
ty and lol i didnt notice im isuch a hurry to type this out

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Defaulty

nvm
inb4ban

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