What to do?
a while ago, an online guy friend of mine stopped talking to me with no reason behind it.
he blocked me on social-networking sites etc and started ignoring me with no reason
behind it... we both don't have feelings for each other, but he was a good friend and i miss him
i tried to send him messages saying i'm sorry for whatever i did and even asked him his reason
behind this and had no reply back. what should i do? should i move on?
May 25, 2014
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I honestly did this to all my Tumblr friends. Don't take it too personally, he probably just decided to move on
[quote=Twerkable]wut no, it's about somebody else
you don't know them [/quote]
Seems a bit out of character for you to care so much about one single person like this
[quote=Zoneflare4]you have me
OT is this about the other Travis?[/quote]
wut no, it's about somebody else
you don't know them
[quote=iDrinkOJ]Forget about him and move on, to me lol
I'll never break your heart
I'll never make you cry
I'd rather die than live without you[/quote]
you have me
OT is this about the other Travis?
@RitoPls you're like a year older than me
@Twerkable: I'm 19. Turning 20 on the 26th of December. :^)
@RitoPls it's k dude i thought you were 17 anyways
Forget about him and move on, to me lol
I'll never break your heart
I'll never make you cry
I'd rather die than live without you
@Twerkable: Oh I thought you were like 15. LOL
Ya, I agree with @peterisnoob -- he just doesn't want to talk to you anymore. I know it hurts because it was so sudden, but online relationships are fragile by nature. Everything's gonna be okay. You don't need him anyway.
[quote=Twerkable]@RitoPls i'm turning 19 in june... o.o[/quote]
he probably just wanted to end online things
@RitoPls i'm turning 19 in june... o.o
[quote=RitoPls]Wait.
Are you even 18?[/quote]
are you? ))
heheheh
nam sayin
[quote=Twerkable]he knows how i look like and even asked for nudes shortly after
i gave him my picture, lol but i kindly declined[/quote]
Wait.
Are you even 18?
[quote=trashed]>claiming that neither of you had feelings towards one another
>he asks for nudes
>you say no
>friendship ends soon after
either you're totally oblivious to when people are interested in you, or you're aware of when you're leading people on but have no intentions of ever telling that person how you actually feel... but either way, it's time to move on since he's done with you now.[/quote]
lol read what i said earlier... he asked for nudes in the beginning of our friendship (which lasted a little more than year and
when we first met). i declined because who the hell would give nudes to a guy they barely know... i highly doubt he would
end a friendship that lasted that long over something he most likely forgot he asked. he didn't continuously asked for pictures
and if he did, then i would see why he would stop talking to me
>claiming that neither of you had feelings towards one another
>he asks for nudes
>you say no
>friendship ends soon after
either you're totally oblivious to when people are interested in you, or you're aware of when you're leading people on but have no intentions of ever telling that person how you actually feel... but either way, it's time to move on since he's done with you now.
@imWanda lol thanks for the advice btw
he asked for nudes in the very beginning when
i barely knew him and he never asked for it again
(i think he forgot) but still treated me the same,
even before asking for them
Your first mistake was messaging a guy that ignored you and apologizing for something you don't even know that you did. Desperation right there. You just need to ride this out, get a new friend, or bump up friends on your priority list. See what I like to do is when one friend leaves me, I promote another friend to that friends level, and then I succumb to get a new friend to replace the emptiness that the old friend left. It's a very well oiled machine.
@Twerkable: You didn't give him nudes, that's why he left you. RIP in peace friendship.
[quote=Spiderexe]Did you show him a picture of your self?[/quote]
he knows how i look like and even asked for nudes shortly after
i gave him my picture, lol but i kindly declined
move on. it's his decision, it sucks but youll get over it. he'll probs come back in a few months and you'll have to decide for yourself if you want to try again