How to not care?
How to not care about what people say or talk about you. The negativity makes me hate high school. I'm now very insecure, but I'm working on it, but it seems like everytime I work on it, it comes back and I'm in square one again. How do i not care what people think of me or say to me. It's only been 4 days since school started, and wow I'm looking at a long negative high school year. How do I not care? I'm tired
September 6, 2014
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To be real though, time is the best remedy
i have this problem too honestly... like it's hard for me to forget what someone says about me. it's always hurtful to me. the best option to forget something is by making new memories. try to forget everything that people say about you. if you're still in high school, don't let rude people say things to you! because in reality, they don't know who you are, or what you do, or what you're worth. make sure you don't give in to them.
being a human being you can't always please everyone you meet. like... there will always be someone who doesn't agree or is upset with what you do. that's life. just move on. if you fall down, get back up. don't show your weakness to the enemy, either, that will only make them feel more encouraged to throw their insults at you. good luck!
Try asking yourself why you should care what others think when no one else is thinking about you. And then tell yourself everyone else is too busy thinking about they're own problems and how they look to other people. Say to yourself that whatever other people think or say about you is meaningless and ignorant. (This is pretty much self talk.) Also try your best not keep yourself from doing things just because you look a certain way. (Do self talk everyday)
Besides this try doing strength workouts and cardio or some type of physical activity. It improves your mood.
Bring a music player or phone to school, plug in some in-ear headphones and listen away.
Don't blast away on it and make yourself deaf, just have it at a reasonable volume and focus on the music instead.
Find out what makes you, you. From that, you'll realize you're unique and that you shouldn't cater to what anyone wants of/from you as a person.
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I'm not sure what year in high school you are in, but as long as you get along with friends and have fun at school, then I don't feel like it would be an issue at all.
Who cares about what other people think. People call me short, ugly, but I really don't care... Neither should you o_o
I used to be extremely insecure too (Most because I'm 17 and I'm only 5'7, not to mention I'm asian and I'm not very good looking) but once you're distracted with friends and studying it really doesn't matter.
the truth is that we don't care about your problems, like most people
Why should you care what people, who literally know nothing about you, think of you? You should only care about what your own friends and loved ones think of you. Everyone grows up differently so there will always be people who will think you're freaking weird. So why bother? >.>
Self-esteem breeds emotional security.
literally just dont care
why is this in fun chat?
Vent it out on a site.