Girls asking out guys
What do girls have against asking out guys?
Some of the typical responses
[b]i'm too shy[/b]
Fair answer, but guys are just as shy as girls about these things. It almost never gets easier for us. I've seen guys in their 40s hate rejection more than being beaten up.
[b]Its the guy's job[/b]
Unless you're willing to play fair and stay in the kitchen all day because that's a woman's job, this is no excuse.
[b]Guys will think i'm desperate[/b]
If a guy likes you, no he never will. Secondly, if this IS the case with the guy, then it's because he's in the minority of guys and probably has some very weird problems with his ego... ignore guys like this anyways
[b]Other girls will call me desperate[/b]
This is the only fair one, but the way past this is to simply not let other girls know about it. This is easy, seriously because guys don't spread around info as much as girls do.
In conclusion: Girls should ask out guys ways more often.
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Then those cases where both of them stumble awkwardly to ask each other out.
I'll ask a guy out if I have to cause what if we're both shy to do it ? What if we both don't make the first move. Where's that going to go ? NO WHERE.
I'd rather just get it done myself and if a guy says no, then no harsh feelings, time to move on to bigger and better things.
Haha I tried once and it turned out okay, but I had to plan out what I was going to say a week before I actually did it
ya i agree.
I wish i had the courage to ask a person out
kudos to boys! ! !
i guess they don't do it not only because of the reasons you stated, but because its sort of still out of the 'norm'.
like, all this time it has been boys asking girls out and its always in the media too so its sort of feels weird for a girl to ask a boy out? ? ?
[quote=RichAF]Guys can take a harder hit to their confidence than girls can, Girls [b]actually fear rejection[/b] more than guys do. [b]Girls[/b] like the feeling of being valued, no matter how much they say they don't they do.[/quote]
You're a girl, definetly.
Yea that's all I have to say.
[quote=RichAF]Heres how I see it this doesn't allow to all girls just a lot of them. There are many reasons but heres my pov.
Guys can take a harder hit to their confidence than girls can, girls actually fear rejection more than guys do. Girls like the feeling of being valued, no matter how much they say they don't they do.[/quote]
If you're not a guy, you can't know it.
[quote=ThotsRUs]thread reeks beta from a mile away[/quote]
extremely
Heres how I see it this doesn't allow to all girls just a lot of them. There are many reasons but heres my pov.
Guys can take a harder hit to their confidence than girls can, girls actually fear rejection more than guys do. Girls like the feeling of being valued, no matter how much they say they don't they do.
i did, literally it took him a year to accept me and want me to be his girlfriend, so im not going through that again.
The guys I like aren't the type to like it if the girl asked them out.
And they wouldn't like me back.
It would definitely be nice and in the few cases that a girl has asked me out she has gained a lot of my respect but it's just not a thing although I think it's pretty attractive when they have the confidence to do so.
Naw, if I liked a guy, I wouldn't ask him out, b/c there's a high chance he wouldn't like me back.