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don't listen to Dreams and then Power Trip by cole.

Just jack off tonight.

@collee: not like I'm getting any of the $ lol

[quote=zetradedd]@ritopls: dude this girl was so rich & sexy[/quote]

gold digger </3

Wow awkward

@flushphantom:

[quote=zetradedd]We didn't break up........ Awkward...[/quote]

Explain yourself

We didn't break up........ Awkward...

Just change focus, it's easier once you know the 8 stages you'll go through. (http://jonmillward.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/Wounded-How-To-Get-Over-a-Breakup.jpg)
My advice to you are leave her in your mind as a person, not someone you hate. - It might come back biting you in the ass.

Someone else mentioned getting a hobby and put focus on that, I've had luck with exercise, since it also boosts your confidence and makes you feel better about yourself.
Hang in there mate , you can add me on Maple if you'd like to just get your mind off things. - RoedGroed

Sucks to suck

[quote=fradddd]I don't think you should've expected for it to last.
I hope you find a girlfriend as much as I hope I find one.[/quote]

Thank you fradd.

I don't think it's going to be that rough for me to be honest, I think the worst of it is over. I appreciate all of the kind words everyone, they mean a lot. basil is dying but it's still a great community. People talk poorly of it a lot but I've been a member for years now and I can't let go lol

I've got my head on tight for school and business. Along the way I will meet another soulmate.

I don't think you should've expected for it to last.
I hope you find a girlfriend as much as I hope I find one.

Based on my experience after my four year relationship ended, I tried to think about all the negative things possible. Thinking about the positives will only make your heart feel worse. When focusing on the negative events, you justify why the relationship is no longer working. And time will heal.

I hope you get through it dude. In the meantime, find some hobbies and occupy yourself with it! You will find that one girl someday. Just wait for it. @ritopls is actually pretty accurate.

@zetradedd: Hey man, if it's meant to be, then it'll happen.

But if not, oh well.

Personally, I believe that everyone has a soulmate, and sometimes it takes more than one try to find that soulmate.

Just keep doing you and try to stay positive.

@ritopls: dude this girl was so rich & sexy, honestly it's going to take a lot of time and work to find someone better.

When we were together it was the happiest, most romantic relationship but it went really downhill when I moved.

@zetradedd: Don't worry bud. You're young. There will be others.

Losing my first love was rough, but at least I learned some things from it.

nah, you'll find someone. trust.
really the only advice I can give is just hang in there, pick up a hobby and start concentrating on that. and just cry a lot that helps

[quote=ritopls]I went through a rough heartbreak that didn't get slightly better until I met two other girls who were better than her.

Then it really ended once I got back together with her and realized I deserved better than her.

And now I'm great. :^)[/quote]

Thanks man, she was my first love.

I'm either never going to love anyone again or I'm going to find someone better. I am extremely picky so it'll take a very long time. I also need to work on myself more before I can even find anyone so.

I went through a rough heartbreak that didn't get slightly better until I met two other girls who were better than her.

Then it really ended once I got back together with her and realized I deserved better than her.

And now I'm great. :^)