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Which ex to date

I've only had these 2 girls in my life that I dated (18 now) and recently I started talking to both of them again. The thing is they're both friends (that's how the break up happened) idk what I did wrong but I dated the other friend as soon as my first one dumped me. I'm kinda interested in both of them equally so I gotta make a move asap but how do I pick one? the first one dumped me because she thought I was messing around with her friend (which wasn't true) but became true after I got dumped lol and when she saw us together she was like I knew u guys had something (but we didn't, we had something after the break up). The second one dumped me because she thought I still had the feelings for the first one..? People told me they had fights but were close friends so how the relationship fell apart is something i dont get cause it want my fault they were assuming random stuff

February 14, 2015

11 Comments • Newest first

natalie

please just stay alone cause they don't need you causing problems again

Reply February 14, 2015
LiliKoby

@ASAPtrilla: @0kevqn is right. You used her as a rebound so you should expect the consequences. Rebounds almost never last.

Reply February 14, 2015
kevqn

[quote=ASAPtrilla]@0kevqn I always saw some people hating u here, I didn't get it at first, but now I see what they mean. Now I'll explain it to you. The 1st gf dumped me because she thought her friend and i had something going on (we didn't) so I got dumped for what? Yeah I dated her friend after we broke up but I didn't do anything while I was still dating her. U get it? Just read what u type and ask yourself how stupid it sounds.[/quote]

Dating your ex-girlfriend's friend is what you did wrong

Reply February 14, 2015
Tashie

Friend code....you do not date the other's ex the 2nd ones at fault because she should have known it wasn't right to even get into a relationship in the 1st place considering they're good friends it will break things apart as fast as it started....and honestly you did break up a friendship even if you think you had no part in it you surely did. Secondly you fully knew they were friends to begin with so why did you still initiate in being in a relationship with the 2nd girl it looks like you're juggling the two of them and in all out honestly....just leave and move the heck on with someone new that has no connection to the two of them =_=

Reply February 14, 2015
ASAPtrilla

@0kevqn I always saw some people hating u here, I didn't get it at first, but now I see what they mean. Now I'll explain it to you. The 1st gf dumped me because she thought her friend and i had something going on (we didn't) so I got dumped for what? Yeah I dated her friend after we broke up but I didn't do anything while I was still dating her. U get it? Just read what u type and ask yourself how stupid it sounds.

Reply February 14, 2015 - edited
betaboi101

Meet someone new?

Reply February 14, 2015 - edited
zigen

Obviously their friendship is stronger than their attachment for you, so you should probably get out of the picture instead of getting into the same mess all over again

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Caeg

Neither, date their sister/mom.

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iDrinkOJ

neither. they deserve better than an indecisive person.

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demonicrack

Honestly, if I were in that situation, I would just back off. It sounds to me there's too much drama that can happen if you date either one. I'm sure you can find another girl to date.

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tiesandbowties

who gave you a better time in bed? pick her

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