Boyfriend drama
So my boyfriend and I made plans to hang today (its Friday so duh) and then he calls me saying he'd like today to study for exams instead. Fair enough, so we go ourways and then I call back hrs later to check in on him and apparently his friends showed up uninvited and they've been hanging for a few hrs now. Now he's saying its their fault for coming and but he's just as bad as saying yes to hanging. Like honestly I felt like he betrayed me. Guys am I overreacting or was this srsly unfair on my half?
April 10, 2015
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Your BasilID is similar to mine o.o
Logically speaking he basically rejected you but accepted his friends. Coming over "uninvited is no excuse, he still did the deed, and made the decision. To be fair he could have manned up and rejected them sticking to his plans, or invited you over and F studying, or make it up to you somehow, but it doesn't sound like he tried to consider your feelings These are the little things can add up in relationships and turn into major issues later on. I wouldn't break up with him over this, but do pay attention if this is a regular thing. Its give and take~
i think you have the right to be annoyed but feeling "betrayed" is a bit much
just talk it over later, dont make a huge deal about it
Tease him and say that you're really horny and make him regret not being with you rn. Trust me, if you want a guy to feel bad for doing something wrong, play the sex card
flirt with other guys
that'll get his attention.
if he doesn't make you a priority then don't make him one either.
hmm take a picture with another guy. you gotta make him chase for yo
how much hp he got he might not be soloable
cut his jewel off for doing that. youre underreacting not over reacting. he a shady beetch.
@Kirgamel: its a maplestory forum half of these people on here suffer from social awkwardness and are shy so they play maplestory too unleash their fake side, coming here for advice doesn't help lol people here give online dating advice, and are either single or are currently in relationships through the web, Skype etc, lol.
Lol I don't got exams so no?
Who cares ? Go study for your exams, unlike the white ways ...
No Starbucks for you ! Or iphone ! Only math book pro ... No mac book pro !
lol who cares?
I think you're overreacting. It kind of sounds as if you don't trust him tbh. If there's no trust in a relationship, it goes downhill. His friends showed up unannounced, it's kind of rude to just turn them away. He probably wanted them to leave after awhile but it just never happened.
is this the same bf from long time ago cuz i rmmbr u had some crappp wit dat 1..
plz dnt b the same bf
[quote=iPsychedelicss]Who cares? Why does everyone use basil for dating advice is this E-Harmomy? Learn how to deal with your own relationship problems without asking for help if not don't get into a Relationship words of wisdom from a taken man [/quote]
Though, in all fairness it's because people don't want to end up in a broken relationship that they ask these questions. Wisdom from other people in relationships can work wonders in avoiding holes in the road. But I agree that this... Isn't quite the right place to ask for relationship advices.
Who cares? Why does everyone use basil for dating advice is this E-Harmomy? Learn how to deal with your own relationship problems without asking for help if not don't get into a Relationship words of wisdom from a taken man
Lol guys I would love to pop up at his house and see if he would take my surprise the same was as his friends but I can't fully drive yet.
Why didnt you just go over to his house and suprise him too?
dump him, it means he has terrible self control.
Fast forward a few years
You: Hey Honey, have you paid the bills?
Him: Oh sorry LOL, a couple of friends came over and I blew it on gambling with them its k though, I'll go get welfare.
You: ..
Why don't you study for your exams too?
He was wrong and it is okay to feel disappointed. Just talk about it with him and it should be fine. Hopefully it won't happen again the next time. I don't think you are overreacting and why would it be unfair on your half? He wanted to study, which you know it was important, so the date got cancelled, but he ended up hanging out with friends... He should have said no to them as well.
Anyway have a nice weekend
Poor of him to do, over-reactive to feel betrayed over it. I'd settle for disappointed being a better word.
Maybe you learned a trick; pop-up uninvited and ask him to hang out and see what miracle wonders that would do.
Edit: While I don't want to go technical, it could also be related to how often he hangs with you compared to with his friends, sometimes I can sit-up people as well while accepting others because I just want to see other faces for a bit. It's not that odd unless he is seeing another chick.
I dont think your own boyfriend would lie to you? And it is final exams time so of course studying should be first priority.
Yea I know this was made in wrong thread section. My bad, its a mobile issue
create new character, problem solved.
You're overreacting.
You two could possibly have your whole lives together and you're going to feel "betrayed" over something small as this?
If that's so then you're not ready for a relationship, honestly.
If he did not want to hang out with you he should've just said it. That was wrong of him. Slay him.
Dont mean to be that guy but wrong section...