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those are the hard ones the ones that are constantly prowling in packs, the trick to that is impress one and you impress them all. hang with her friends when they're alone if you impress her then she'll talk about you in front of her friends then boom you got the whole group to choose from. the problem in this is it can go good or bad

Forget about awkwardness, it doesn't exist for you if you don't think it does.
Talk to her whenever you can, whenever you feel it's the right time. And say whatever comes to mind at the time.
Besides that, DON'T PLAN what to say.

You'll get there eventually...

Talking to her in-class is step one. :o

[quote=BajaBlast]Ask for a pencil while holding one in your hands and if she says "but you have one right there" be like "I know, I just wanted to talk to u~"[/quote]

This guy clearly knows what he's talking about

Ask for a pencil while holding one in your hands and if she says "but you have one right there" be like "I know, I just wanted to talk to u~"

you join their circle jc how hard is this crap

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Damn, is it really so hard to just talk to people nowadays?

When I was in High School (7 or so years ago) if you wanted to talk to someone you just do it.

If you have to plan this shxt out and make it some kind of goal then you got your priorities all kinds of messed up.

Man up, perhaps compliment her, or see something that you know about and be like "Oh hey, I like that too!" (This can be BS, you don't really have to like it, just know about it so you don't look like an ass)

From there, BAM you made a connection, not so hard.

Then it's up to you to be an interesting person, it doesn't matter how you feel about them, it matters how they perceive you and first impressions are ALWAYS important, if you go up to her and is like "Hey, we never spoke before, but I think you're interesting" Her ass is going to pepper spray you and press charges.

You don't have to be suave, just don't be a creep, be funny, women LOVE funny, if you can make a girl laugh then you're on her good side... just don't do things that guys will laugh at.. cause it's kinda obvious, right?

SO! WHAT TO DO!

Be calm (Or be a little nervous, some girls do like it, they think it's cute, others will think you're a bxtch)

Be funny! Laughing is great, just don't make it awkward! Make sure it's not over the top! Don't go talking about male body parts and what not.

Be kind, no woman wants to be around some D-bag (Well some do, but I don't consider them women, they're just stupid)

Dress nice, you can't just be wearing whatever! and you can't just go wear some nice things and look derpy, wear things you feel comfortable in that doesn't make you look like a derp lol

HYGIENE Brush your damn teeth! Don't forget to brush your tongue too! People always wonder why their breath stinks when they always brush! YOUR TONGUE DUDE!

Don't be too forward, can't just rush into things, if you want friendship or a relationship, you need to know enough about the other person so that in the next few years you won't be pressing charges on her for beating your ass cause you snore when you sleep.

Be confident, don't be over the top, that's just annoying. When you say something make sure you know about what you say, no one wants to be friends or anything with someone who just talks out their ass.

But most of all man, just be you, all that ^^^^^^ is just little things, they matter but what matters most is you as a person, I don't know you, and I never will, I can only hope you have the morals of a gentleman and know that opening a door for a girl is something they actually really like, and all the little things you can do, they like, the way you act and the way you are as a man, if you do it right, they'll like it.

It's common sense, honestly. You approach others with respect and you treat them kindly, that's all you need to do. ^^

Now, about the girl, all girls no matter what "clique" or w.e they call it now, no matter what! They all want to be treated the same (Unless you run into one of those kinky ass girls, then good for you -thumbs up-)

They want to be treated right, with respect and damnit if they say they need you or want to talk to you and they say YOU, your ass better be there. They need that trust, you want to get close to a girl? After a while of getting to know one another, you tell her some things you don't tell others, you let her know you, then hopefully she'll let you know about her.

Obviously, this takes time and if you're not willing to put months of time into this, then you just need to move on.

^^ This may or may not have helped (Lol) It's just a good topic to talk about.

But seriously, I hope it helped! I hope you make that connection and make a damn good friend (Or more)

Mwhaha! ^^

This sounds like a thread I would make about 4 months ago

@CharlieAQ Mostly just with awkward girls because then it just becomes a mess.

@luckysausage I guess I could do that. She sits behind me so it's kind of hard to talk to her but whenever our "area"/group of seats start messing around, that's usually when I talk to her. I', sort of friends with people in her circle so I can probably do that.

@TheZigen I mean I barely know her, I'm not just going to randomly ask her out. Once I get to know her more, then maybe.

"so I wanted to know her more (Not just to date her)"
lmao sure.

get into her friend group/meet her in a situation she's comfortable in then most likely she'll be ok 1 on 1 with u (if she ends up liking you)

Idk I just make a lot of eye contact then once you get a good eye lock in one day just go up to her

just randomly compliment, ask for any help in your classes that you have with her and stuff. It builds slowly. Do you guys have assigned seats? Sit next to her, but make sure you dont look too much of a creeper lol. But some talking and "getting closer" will be necessary. Join her circle?