letters to gf? yay or nay?
So my girlfriend and I are on college break rn and idk, although I do miss her, i haven't missed her THAT much, but there are times where I do whenever a certain smell/sight/sound/touch/taste comes in contact with me. Whenever I do really miss her, I've been writing like 100 word letters describing the situation and how that relates to her and the quality of her's corresponding to said situation that I miss of hers. So far, its been about 2 weeks and I've had 4 incidents...they were more frequent in the first week and it hasn't really come up lately so the intense longing feeling should be less frequent. But, I am planning on visiting her next week so I was thinking about making like a mailbox and putting these letters in them and giving it to her when we see each other again to let her know of what I've been thinking. One of my friends said that I shouldn't make it too mushy cause I don't want to get too attached to her. But what are your guys's opinions on this?
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[quote=yearn]Society has made people like you cold and disheartened.
If you dont listen to your heart, you will never experience true love.[/quote]
TF? Society didn't do anything lmao
If you listen to your heart you're an infatuated idiot
[quote=Dupants]lel
that's one of the dumbest things someone can do[/quote]
Society has made people like you cold and disheartened.
If you dont listen to your heart, you will never experience true love.
[quote=yearn]Dont listen to your gut.[/quote]
lel
that's one of the dumbest things someone can do
you should deliver them via carrier pigeon
@echan527: oh i was just wondering why others had mentioned love.
@WindowLegs I wouldn't say love, although my affection for her is growing...
do you love her?
The idea of putting them into a box and giving them to her is lovely. If you're worried about being 'too mushy' or not having them well-received, you could always feel out the situation by giving her like two of the letters, and seeing how she responds, before pulling out Le Box of Letters, lol. The other thing to consider: if she's into things like books, antiquated things, libraries and such, they'll definitely be appreciated; if her hobbies run more towards shopping, television, clubbing? I'm sure she'll still like them, but she might not see the true value of your efforts.
Either way, best of luck!
You gotta be cool, cold, distant, and have a don't care attitude. Girls love bad boys.
Source: no gf
So when you miss her you write 100 word letters? Instead when you miss her why don't you just text her.. or call her.. or Skype her?
Personally I wouldn't do something like that unless she specifically told you at one point she would like letters, it has the potential of coming across as too clingy.
[quote=RitoPls]Bruh
You're writing letters and she's out there blowing frat guys on a beach.[/quote]
Do you need hug?
Go for it dude. She might ask for another letter after she's done reading them tho so be prepared and bring condoms.
Every girl is different so no one can say for sure if she'll like that or not. But I think that's pretty darn cute.
Bruh
You're writing letters and she's out there blowing frat guys on a beach.
I don't know how strong the relationship you guys are in but if you love her deeply then express that, she'll probably love you even more and if she doesn't appreciate how passionate you are then she probably isn't worth loving.
Lol. do remember this. What happens in a relationship, what is right and wrong, what pace is suitable should be decided between the two of you. We aren't connected or part of the bond you have, keep that in mind.
[url=http://i.imgur.com/gLhz3.png]lol[/url]
do it! She will love it. She may even have a few letters too....
Do it, man. Screw the stigma of "mushy" being a bad thing. Everyone loves knowing someone cares about them and to materialize it makes it that much easier for her to see and to remember.
Think about it this way: If you were to go to such great lengths for someone and they disliked the effort/feelings put into it (they could still dislike other stuff), are they even worth that very effort/those feelings?
Sure she'll love it.
I think you should collect all your letters, put them in a box or something cute. Give it to her as a present, and tell her to read them whenever she is missing you or feeling down. I think that would really sweet. As a girl, I would appreciate something like that.
Do what your heart says.
Dont listen to your gut.
Your gut causes nothing but doubt and indecisiveness.
Sure it may be right sometimes but thats how you weed out the bad ones from the good hearted souls.
Pretty sure that if you've been writing a few letters, you're very attached. Go for it, bring in some flowers while you're at it like a begonia, they symbolize deep thought.