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Is it wrong to take something you quotdeservequot?

My girlfriend of 9 months cheated on me, and left her stuff at my house.

I'm not enough of a jerk to take all her clothes needlessly and throw 'em away, but I have spent well over $3,000 on her in the past several months.

Do you think taking back the lingerie I bought her and regifting it to the next girl i'm "intimate" with would be inappropriate?

Serious answers only please.

May 4, 2014

15 Comments • Newest first

iHipster

[quote=AugustRain]oh, baby. why dont you admit to having a fetish for ur gf wearing ur ex's lingerie.

pretty harmless, pretty cheap, pretty creepy.[/quote]

Never said it was a fetish

Just said it's better than wasting money on new lingerie for my current gf.

And it's not like it touched any sensetive parts, i'm talking about corsets and thigh highs, not underwear.

wtf

[quote=SilverFoxR]Dude... overlooking the concept of taking something you gave to a previous girlfriend because you two broke up, think about this instead...

You're giving lingere to your new girlfriend that your old girlfriend wore... even if it were clean, it's just plain creepy. Now, if it was never used, that's one thing (it was INTENDED, but not given), but that's just messed up. It'd be like if your girlfriend gave you a pair of silk boxers or a jock strap that her old boyfriend used. Would you really want to wear it?

Also, another thing... $3,000 on a girl in 1 month? Seriously? Maybe you should stop lavishing girls with gifts so much... and they are gifts, so just let the old girl have 'em and move on.[/quote]

9 months*

Reply May 6, 2014
marilanna

Please don't be cheap, you obviously don't care enough about your next potential girlfriend if you think she deserves sloppy seconds.

Reply May 4, 2014
Chowder94

@iHipster: You can always find some perv online who would be more than willing to pay money for a used pair. If you have a friend who won't think it's weird, get her to wear them and make sure that they still smell....worn. Then auction em off.

Trust me on this.

Reply May 4, 2014
AugustRain

oh, baby. why dont you admit to having a fetish for ur gf wearing ur ex's lingerie.

pretty harmless, pretty cheap, pretty creepy.

Reply May 4, 2014
SilverFoxR

Dude... overlooking the concept of taking something you gave to a previous girlfriend because you two broke up, think about this instead...

You're giving lingere to your new girlfriend that your old girlfriend wore... even if it were clean, it's just plain creepy. Now, if it was never used, that's one thing (it was INTENDED, but not given), but that's just messed up. It'd be like if your girlfriend gave you a pair of silk boxers or a jock strap that her old boyfriend used. Would you really want to wear it?

Also, another thing... $3,000 on a girl in 1 month? Seriously? Maybe you should stop lavishing girls with gifts so much... and they are gifts, so just let the old girl have 'em and move on.

Reply May 4, 2014
Nolen

I wish I wasn't so poor cuz that's a lot of money to me

Reply May 4, 2014
xtripled

in this context, yes ... if i was a girl, there's no way in hell i would want a gift you gave to another girl, let alone used underwear ...

Reply May 4, 2014
iDrinkOJ

remember to take it from her while she's wearing it for new boyfriend.

Reply May 4, 2014
iHipster

[quote=Chowder94]Just take it and resell it. All of it.
I'm sure you could get some cash out of it. She cheated, who cares?[/quote]

Don't think the stuff has much resale value.

I'd rather get some use out of it with the next tiny asian girl that comes by

[quote=DawnEmperor]No because you gave it to her. I mean if you gave her like your grand pappy's watch from preschool. Then yeah take that back. But clothes? that you gave her? heck nah.[/quote]

I didn't explicitly give it to her, it was more of a "here, I bought this, you should wear it"

[quote=Capricious]o.o Used underwear? No way...[/quote]

Was more referring to thigh highs, garter belts, corsets, etc

[quote=LowWillpower]That seems pretty weird.

For one thing, no girl wants previously owned lingerie, that's just nasty. Also, it's gonna be pretty weird when your new girl asks why you have all these girl clothes.[/quote]

I think a lot of the girls I talk to wouldn't really care.

Reply May 4, 2014
Chowder94

Just take it and resell it. All of it.
I'm sure you could get some cash out of it. She cheated, who cares?

Reply May 4, 2014
LowWillpower

That seems pretty weird.

For one thing, no girl wants previously owned lingerie, that's just nasty. Also, it's gonna be pretty weird when your new girl asks why you have all these girl clothes.

Reply May 4, 2014
Capricious

o.o Used underwear? No way...

Reply May 4, 2014
Johnnie

if she is the same size, yes its ok

Reply May 4, 2014 - edited
DawnEmperor

No because you gave it to her. I mean if you gave her like your grand pappy's watch from preschool. Then yeah take that back. But clothes? that you gave her? heck nah.

Reply May 4, 2014 - edited