Basil I need your advice
So I asked this girl I have a crush on whether she wanted to have dinner or see a movie and she responded that "her work hours keep changing and she has to take Gre so she doesn't think she'll have the time to hang out in next few months". So the thing is we've already gotten lunch a few times and compared hw and stuff. Her reply made me really surprisingly sad and it's hard for me to understand how someone can't find time in a single evening to go out to dinner once, since I always find time for those things even when I'm really busy.
However I can see her viewpoint as she comes across as a hard working student and even during finals she pretty much studied all week, so she might actually be that busy.
But I still want to be with her, like even if it's just studying and whatnot. Since how you say something often counts more than how you say it, how do you think I should approach her and what should I say so that we can do something together?
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@Feale: yeah but he can try more than once.
[quote=fradddd]Ikr, how can one possibly be so busy that they can't spare two hours even on the weekend or something.
Just be persistent if you really like her. Maybe suggest studying with her. I was persistent with my crush for two months and that finally landed me a hangout with her, then another, then lunch, and now I need to figure out something else.[/quote]
she doesn't want to spend her time with him. she can make her own choices, and if her plans don't involve him, please respect her decision.
Ikr, how can one possibly be so busy that they can't spare two hours even on the weekend or something.
Just be persistent if you really like her. Maybe suggest studying with her. I was persistent with my crush for two months and that finally landed me a hangout with her, then another, then lunch, and now I need to figure out something else.
If she really wanted to hang out with you, she'd make time no matter how hectic the schedule.
Summarizes the situation well: http://thoughtcatalog.com/heidi-priebe/2014/11/the-truth-about-meeting-someone-at-the-wrong-time/
Might sound hard, but if she was into you, she'd take time out of her schedule for you.
Girls flake a ton. Flake = they leave ya hanging in text convos or leave ya hanging on a scheduled date. I'd suggest finding another chic, after all there's 3 women to every man (that's the ratio right?). Go get em, a new bae errday!
Found this to be helpful in a way http://www.simplepickup.com/forum/become-boss/36060-thijs-texting-guide-elaborate.html
god that saying "im too busy:" annoys tf out of me
she is not into u, there is ALWAYS time, "too busy" is BS BS bs bs bs BS bs BS
I don't think shes into you.
Usually when i text people im "busy" for a while, im not. I just don't want to put effort into something i'm not too interested in.
if she wanted to hang, there's always time, she's either lazy or doesn't really see you as anything
sorry! sounds harsh, im just giving my honest opinion
she doesn't like you like that. Trust me, if a girl is really into you, she'll make time for you.
Either wait it out or find someone who has time for you
i think its:
shes really busy
and
she doesn't want to be with you
she's busy banging her bf
"compared hw"
doesn't like you, only uses you to improve her grades.