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How long to wait?

This girl I'm interested in recently broke up with her boyfriend and I'm chatting her up and whatnot. How long should I wait to ask her out so I'm not considered a rebound?

February 19, 2015

17 Comments • Newest first

NoobCake

[quote=Reticent]*Deletes my fanfiction of noobcake and bae1 filled with lots of sexual scenes* Oh. Okay... That's. Fine. Go get em'. :S[/quote]

Just replace bae1 with bae2

Reply February 20, 2015
Reticent

@NoobCake: *Deletes my fanfiction of noobcake and bae1 filled with lots of sexual scenes* Oh. Okay... That's. Fine. Go get em'. :S

Reply February 19, 2015
NoobCake

[quote=Reticent]What happened to bae1?[/quote]

I decided that I like bae2 better.

Reply February 19, 2015
Collee

@NoobCake: just whatever you do don't be a shoulder for her to cry on, because then she'll see you as more of a friend.

Reply February 19, 2015
Reticent

What happened to bae1?

Reply February 19, 2015
iDrinkOJ

when she's ready, give her hints that you're interested but don't force her cuz she might be sensitive
source: no girlfriend

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NoobCake

[quote=Collee]give it 3 weeks from her breakup date. feel free to flirt a little bit with her until the 3 week mark[/quote]

Sounds good to me! I also had 3 weeks in mind

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Collee

@NoobCake: give it 3 weeks from her breakup date. feel free to flirt a little bit with her until the 3 week mark

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fradddd

If you're attractive enough, you only have to wait a few days.
Even really nice girls are quite shallow like that.

Nice girl I knew had a LDR boyfriend for over 2 years, got dumped, then started dating this guy who could supposedly get any girl, and they've been going out for half a year.

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NoobCake

[quote=Collee]how long was their relationship?[/quote]

Let's say it was for like 3 months?
Her previous one before that was like a year or two.

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Collee

how long was their relationship?

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WindowLegs

you seem young. ask her out immediately.

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Wanton

after a month.

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Aeon128

lol these people

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zigen

@NoobCake: shh, it's ok. The first marriage is always the hardest one to get over

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NoobCake

[quote=TheZigen]is she ur rebound girl after our divorce. Rebound each other[/quote]

Bby every girl is a rebound after you broke my heart

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zigen

is she ur rebound girl after our divorce. Rebound each other

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