Did you ever have a crush on someone and years later
you asked yourself, why?
It's a funny thing that years later, you would have a chuckle, and try to remember what you liked about someone.
Or
That someone became a really different person than before.
September 21, 2014
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No. If any one of my past crushes were to ask me out (for whatever reason) I'd probably say yes.
My first crush was in 2nd grade, and I then crushed on another girl at the same time.
3rd grade I was still crushing on that second girl.
4th grade I crushed on another girl.
5th grade crushed on like 3 girls at the same I think.
6th grade I still kinda crushed on 1 of those 3 girls.
7th grade I crushed on another girl.
8th grade I crushed on the 7th grade girl and two other girls.
9th to 1st semester of 11th grade I crushed on one of the 8th grade girls.
And now I'm still crushing on another girl who I started to like 2nd semester of 11th grade.
Now that I think about it, the girl from 4th grade is a total dumbass now, so nevermind on that one.
[quote=luckysausage]hey, what does two faced mean?[/quote]
She basically acted differently around me whether we were alone or with her friends.
She was not pleasant to be around when we were with her friends.
Not really? Like I realize that my crush(es) was a product of certain factors and they usually were not for good reasons so as a result I can validate my crush as a Bad Choice. I know why I liked a person and I know why I stopped liking them. My feelings don't just gradually fade into oblivion to a point where I forget why I like someone. That's weird.
Yeah I used to fall for guys way too easily. All they had to do was be nice to me and be decent looking. I take many other things into consideration now.
I was young and naive.
Nothing a little time and maturity won't fix.
I like my men intellectual.
[quote=NoobCake]Some crushes were just infatuation, like in elementary school and high school.
Now the recent crush I had, she ended up being a really ugly two faced person. It hit me hard, but lesson learned and life goes on.[/quote]
hey, what does two faced mean?
it's pretty silly and fun
I cringe when I think about it. Leave the past behind, infatuation sucks.
i used to have a crush on someone before i had corrected vision
the only reason why i think i dated my first girlfriend was because of the sexual frustration.
in my mind, i conceived her as this beautiful goddess and she was absolutely perfect in every way.
but really, a month after i broke up with her, she seemed sort of fat and ugly, with a lot of flaws.
i think i only thought good things about her was because we talked with each other a lot.
I used to think that it was a crush I had on them, but now that I think about it, it's more like really high respect or longing to get closer as friends.
I usually have a crush on someone based on the appearance at first. Once I get to find out more about her, things might change.
[quote=crazypoorer]If you can't remember why you liked someone, it just means you didn't like that person as much as you thought you did. Of course, you could just have bad memory.
It's the sad, cold, and hard truth[/quote]
True. It was probably just the hormones... Maybe.
my crush i had during freshman year of high school. i was like yeah im gonna ask her to semi formal but then for some reason i realized i didnt like her anymore a couple of weeks before semi. idk what it was that turned me off, but it wasn't anything to do with her appearance. i think it was that i got to know her a lot better over the span of 4 months and realized we were polar opposites.
If you can't remember why you liked someone, it just means you didn't like that person as much as you thought you did. Of course, you could just have bad memory.
It's the sad, cold, and hard truth
Some crushes were just infatuation, like in elementary school and high school.
Now the recent crush I had, she ended up being a really ugly two faced person. It hit me hard, but lesson learned and life goes on.