ideal Time
Hello, just a personal question.
What is the ideal time to ask a person out?
For example, how long do you have to know the person to ask out?
In my case, I've known her for 3 years, however, recently became friends with the person through having a same class.
So, around 2 months.
We text a lot and talk during classes. Also, it seems like she flirts with me when texting.
Also, for my birthday, she made me a letter, which was nice! By the way, we're both in Gr. 11
If I were to ask her out, where should that be? Also, how should I do it?
Any actual or evident ways to check if she likes me back?
May 20, 2015
8 Comments • Newest first
Thing is, if you wait too long, she may get the impression that you're not that interested in her. Long enough to get to know her on a personal level, but over a month or two without making a move would be pushing it.
[quote=TrueAtheist]There's literally no point in waiting dude, every day you don't ask her out is another opportunity for another guy to do what you're not doing. Stop thinking so much about the where, when, and how. It can seriously be the most casual thing ever.. Just ask her if she wants to hangout with you and go grab lunch or something. Don't over think it.
@TheZigen Every time I call a girl cute they say they don't like being called cute. From my experience girls prefer being called gorgeous/sexy/beautiful, I guess they see "cute" as too immature/childish. Depends on the girl though I suppose.[/quote]
Yeah. ~2 weeks of knowing her and interacting with her if she's in your circle of friends/small community, ASAP if you just want to hook-up.
There's literally no point in waiting dude, every day you don't ask her out is another opportunity for another guy to do what you're not doing. Stop thinking so much about the where, when, and how. It can seriously be the most casual thing ever.. Just ask her if she wants to hangout with you and go grab lunch or something. Don't over think it.
@TheZigen Every time I call a girl cute they say they don't like being called cute. From my experience girls prefer being called gorgeous/sexy/beautiful, I guess they see "cute" as too immature/childish. Depends on the girl though I suppose.
before she gets a bf
No set time, kind of just when you have a good feeling about it. If you like her just go for it. Best of luck
JUST GO. LOL. Lucky you. I'm in a dilemma right now. I'm a junior who took a senior to prom and we kinda started liking each other, but there's too little time to make a move before the school year ends. You got this man.
U better get on that. Two months is good enough I think, just ask her to hang out n dont forget to tell her shes cute
In order to find out if she likes you back, ask her.