Im done with girls
Yes another girl problem thread. This is my first one.
So I've liked this girl for a very long time in school, I then had a pair to ask her out and she said: I don't want to ruin our friendship, so can we still be friends?
Um.
Just to tell you guys that was the very first time I've ever asked out a girl, so you can think she was not like the others (the ones that think they're more important than everybody else) I avoided her since I really didn't want to talk to her anymore, but she always comes up to me and talks to me when moving classes. But It's so close to the end off the school year and all of her friends are telling me to ask her out again, but I just ignore them.
So I am done with girls, going to start dating my pillow now. Seeya
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[quote=nindow]hopefully your pillow wont reject you the same way your friend did.[/quote]
it's happened to me before.
woke up on the floor, packed my things, and left.
That's what happens when you put all your eggs in one basket.
[quote=DietSponge]Well just tell her friends I dont want to ask her out again because you dont want to ruin the friendship. But for real, for real, just ask yourself do you really want to be with her? If yeah, ditch that pillow and go after her. Dude believe it or not, girls are pretty confusing lol. The worst thing that could happen, she say no again and now you know for sure that she is not meant for you and start looking for better, mature girls.[/quote]
doing that still creates some sort of unsolved mystery to him probs...so the most straight forward and appropriate thing you can do is just go up to her in real life and ask, can you ever see us dating? or on a scale of 1/10 how attractive do you think i am, and those will probably sum up whether shes worth it or not..if not, you just have to move on, do others things.
@fradddd: Absolutely. That doesn't mean there isn't an abundance of women to choose from.
@Blackest you do realize that circumstance prevents you from ever meeting the vast majority of those billions of girls? I think you might meet anywhere from 10,000 to 50,000 people in your lifetime, which is nothing compared to 1 billion.
Of those, only a limited few are attractive girls who you'd want to mate with.
hopefully your pillow wont reject you the same way your friend did.
READ THE TITLE
WAS EXPECTING @RitoPls
Well you can give up on girls until marriage when you're older, but don't get so impacted by one rejection. It wasn't really a rejection anyway; it was just a friendzone, and wasn't harsh at all. You can still talk to her, or keep in touch. Maybe someday you can ask her out if you've gotten to know her a lot, or maybe she'll ask you out.
So don't give up, or be grateful that you're still friends with her.
I was hooked on one girl for maybe 2 years, 1/2 a year not realizing. Then I stopped and I am much happier.
Keep on asking.
[quote=tsubasa128]So what do you want us to do? Give you advice? Give us some directions man.[/quote]
Just asking what I should do. Stay with my lovely pillow or ask her out again.
[quote=AugustRain]i swear, franco, u expand my vocabulary everyday[/quote]
ikr okaasan is so proud of him <3
ot: ask her out again, but do it
with confidence and if she rejects
you, move on to the next hoe
Ask her out again. 2nd time's a charm....
Okay well 3rd time's a charm but to get there you need a 2nd time.
So what do you want us to do? Give you advice? Give us some directions man.
Just because you got rejected by one girl doesn't mean much. In fact, I don't think you should take it personal either, why get so worked up about just one girl not having the same feelings for you. After all there are many fish in the sea (yeah I know how cliche). Tbh you should be glad you had the guts to do it, it'll make the next time you flirt with a girl/ask a girl out easier.
[quote=Antisora12]I am planning to do that in the last day of school social crap party[/quote]
Good luck dude. But why not ask her out sooner? Cause if she says yes, it might be hard for you guys to see each other in the summer unless one of u guys drive or something. But the again good luck dude.
Go for boys instead.
if you only like 1 girl then somethings wrong, i hate to admit but even while im dating my current gf, there are other girls i like also. im pretty sure it wont be soon until you see another girl youll like.
[quote=torch15]Seriously? One time, my ex-girlfriend broke up with me literally ONE minute after our first date ended. You gotta just get over it, sir. A lot of people have experienced much worse. If you are completely fixated on this girl, try again. Just don't look desperate or get on her nerves. That'll just end badly. Otherwise I can guarantee you you will eventually find someone else you will love more.[/quote]
Like a pillow?
@RitoPls: xoxo
Seriously? One time, my ex-girlfriend broke up with me literally ONE minute after our first date ended. You gotta just get over it, sir. A lot of people have experienced much worse. If you are completely fixated on this girl, try again. Just don't look desperate or get on her nerves. That'll just end badly. Otherwise I can guarantee you you will eventually find someone else you will love more.
@Psychopathic: You kno it bby.
@AugustRain: What are friends for, right?
[quote=DietSponge]Well just tell her friends I dont want to ask her out again because you dont want to ruin the friendship. But for real, for real, just ask yourself do you really want to be with her? If yeah, ditch that pillow and go after her. Dude believe it or not, girls are pretty confusing lol. The worst thing that could happen, she say no again and now you know for sure that she is not meant for you and start looking for better, mature girls.[/quote]
I am planning to do that in the last day of school social crap party
Well just tell her friends I dont want to ask her out again because you dont want to ruin the friendship. But for real, for real, just ask yourself do you really want to be with her? If yeah, ditch that pillow and go after her. Dude believe it or not, girls are pretty confusing lol. The worst thing that could happen, she say no again and now you know for sure that she is not meant for you and start looking for better, mature girls.
[quote=ObeySWAG]You're done with girls just because of one bad experience? Stop being pathetic and feeling sorry for yourself.[/quote]
wao so sassy
[quote=RitoPls]Excuse me, they're not just anime pillows; they're dakimakuras.[/quote]
i swear, franco, u expand my vocabulary everyday
[quote=AugustRain]just a regular pillow? might as well get an anime one.[/quote]
Excuse me, they're not just anime pillows; they're dakimakuras.
Hey man the worst part about when you ask someone out isn't the rejection ; it's how you take their answer.
Don't give up and just keep trying or you'll never reach based God status
my super close, biffle best friend doesnt talk to me anymore..and you think you're in a bad position?
[quote=AugustRain]just a regular pillow? might as well get an anime one.[/quote]
I decided to get a Nicolas Cage pillow.. Good find?
There are billions of girls, this one girl shouldn't have any influence on how you feel about yourself.
You're done with girls just because of one bad experience? Stop being pathetic and feeling sorry for yourself.
just a regular pillow? might as well get an anime one.