permission to date someone?
Suppose you like someone and want to date them. Do any of you ask for permssion to date someone from the parents?
am i thinking too much?
May 26, 2014
permission to date someone?
Suppose you like someone and want to date them. Do any of you ask for permssion to date someone from the parents?
am i thinking too much?
19 Comments • Newest first
My parents practically [i]want[/i] me to get a date. I'm almost a senior in high school and I've barely made any female friends in my entire life, and I've never had anything close to a girlfriend.
Dating, no. Who you like and who the other person likes is entirely their decision. Parents have NO say in this.
When it's about marrying it's kind of cute to ask the parents for permission, but generally it's solely up to the couple. Parents can't decide or know who makes their child truly happy.
NO. Don't ask. Just do it.
Well her parents asked me to "take care of her" in college before we started dating, so I assumed they approved me?
[quote=Craftinrock]Dating: No
Marriage: Sure[/quote]
exactly this.
lol no why would i ask their parents its just dating am i dating the parents no im not and i probably wont meet them unless the relationship gets serious so no permission needed.
for a date, not exactly. but for a marriage, its a good idea to ask the parents.
I guess I just want some approval, well yea its just a simple movie as two simple people
My parents make them do it lol
never meet a girl that i wanted to meet her parents. except 1 but she moved to japan
[quote=demonicrack]Marriage is when you ask the girl's father. Typically. But it's weird if he says no. What are you supposed to do?[/quote]
That's when you elope.
Marriage is when you ask the girl's father. Typically. But it's weird if he says no. What are you supposed to do?
Maybe if you met their parents beforehand and have some sort of relationship with them, which isn't likely these days
Nah, casually asking someone out to dinner isn't enough
Younger people now a days don't seem to do dates so if you're anywhere between those teen years to undergrad, asking someone to dinner usually isn't so much as appealing since younger people aren't as serious.
Since I can't read minds and can only guess how old you are, if you're not in your 20's yet, now a days before being in a relationship with someone, there is this phase called "talking" where its almost like you're seeing someone but between that time it's not serious and there are no strings attached so either one of the two can start "talking with" or see someone else at the same time.
Most younger people are not going to commit like older people because they are still in that experimental phase and are still finding themselves while a more mature person already knows what they want and tends to want something more so fast paced.
No, it's not as if you're asking to marry them or anything.
no. i have arrange marriage to annoying girl in childhood that turn out to be super good looking as adult.
jk
Lol I meant permission from the other persons parents. I've never done this before so I don't really know.
but this person is extra special.
thanks for the advice.
Seems sort of old fashioned to do that now.
Not really. When I asked out my ex, i didn't ask my parents for permission. They were happy when i was dating but warned me multiple times not to come home with a baby