Have you ever
had somebody tell you they haven't loved you in a long time?
I recently had somebody I talked to for about 5 years randomly tell me "I don't like you in the way you want me to anymore"
It was more the shock of him telling me that it had been for a long time that hurt than the fact he didn't love me anymore.
He said that he had dropped hints about it but I couldn't find a single word...eh.
If you've had a similar experience, what was it like for you?
June 15, 2015
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@ZombieOverlord: I can switch to concentrate
[quote=Thiefy996]What use are all the zombies in the world, when not a single one has a beating heart that only beats for ya?[/quote]
That's deep, bro.
@iDrinkOJ
I'm sorry, I can't be with someone who drinks OJ.
I've only had unconditional family love my whole life, so nope.
what is love
can i eat it
@bobloln42: it was complicated but it got to the point where they felt more about us then I did and they couldn't accept that so I had to flat out tell them what was up
[quote=ZombieOverlord]I never had anyone to tell me they loved me.[/quote]
I love you long time
I'd rather hear that than have someone slowly distance themselves, or just cut you off with no explanation
kind of ironic since im the jerk who will vanish from peoples' lives if i dont like them anymore. Im the worst.
[quote=Tranquil]I've been on the opposite side of this.[/quote]
Curious, what was your motive in doing this?
I've been on the opposite side of this.
Oh. My Maple ex always put me through that crap.
One time, she told me that like 3 weeks after I dropped out of college when she told me she'd be there for me.
More recently, she told me in November that she never really had feelings for me. But she was angry when she said this so she obviously didn't mean it. Still, really hurt.
Relationships get hard when you're like a month in and have gotten all the 'firsts' out of the way. But I guess that's why a good relationship is a serious commitment with someone you like more as the days pass and it's all about finding the one who makes you feel like that. They're out there somewhere for all of us. :^)
If that ever happened to me, I would either cry for days or stay mad for days; or both.
I don't get close to people easily... bleh.
I'd take off my rings and pocket them
then punch him in the face.
>.< Jerk.
.. I think i've had someone say something similar like that to me though (via skype, no punching possible). But I ignored almost everything they said at that time, because I was so mad. x:
You know what leaves a bad taste in my mouth? Exes. :c All those "I love yous" wasted on them. All that time. All those feeble "I love yous" received.
Disgusts me. Sigh. ./endrant. lel. :c
My mom said I was adopted jay Kay
Well.. I had a girlfriend and I told her that I didn't love her as much as in the beginning and that it was bothering me.
It hurt her feelings really hard, but it's better to be honest in my opinion. I barely say 'I love you' to my girlfriends tho. I never said it to my ex because I think you should mean it when you say it. My current girlfriend says 'I love you' everytime she goes to bed but if you say it that much, then it isn't special anymore, well... that's my feeling about it anyways.
Back in highschool SWED get lit af off some bottles.That was how we hung out. Going to the beach with a few girls. I kinda just workout 24/7 sleep read and study. While he still drinks and smoke weed every day. I cut off a lot of friends because of this. I couldn't force myself to cut off my dawg doe. Priorities change and friendships are the last part to go. I don't think he could deal with me not being drunk and high all the time. I never went clubbing or any of the usual. I enjoy running at night he enjoyed gaming til the morning. I feel like it was both of us, because we change.
I never had anyone to tell me they loved me.
Nope.
I've certainly felt that way towards my ex, but I didn't tell him that because nobody deserves to hear that.
ouch, i havnt had it happen to me straight up like that. i would imagine its just a straight up version of phasing someone out because you dont want to talk to them anymore