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[quote=halfway]Classic remark made by someone with an inferior vocabulary.

Long Edit: As far as the thread goes I believe you're in the wrong with the dad because you should have never went downstairs to begin with after retreating to your boyfriends room unless it was to go check on your boyfriend. It's the dad's house and if he believes that a drunk girl that can't take care of herself is unable to make it home then I don't see the problem with that. I don't know many teens that want their parents to pick them up and see them in their drunken state. You're currently in your boyfriends room where he is going to sleep! Stop worrying about the drunk girl in the basement, sacrifice your "relationship boundaries" for one night and go to sleep with him. Girls make a lot of things complicated that don't even need to be. You're raining on the birthday party right now. If you believe that after a year and a half of dating your boyfriend he's willing to throw it away on some drunk girl then you need to work on the trust between the two of you or get over your insecurities. As far as the joking insults go for you and the dad you're both in the wrong but that's what happens. You went down drunk and questioning his authority within his own house. That has to be pretty infuriating and I guess he wanted to put you in your place but that was disrespectful and so was your retort. The dad is probably a little butt right now but if he really does not care about your relationship after that fight then an apology to him is in order, show him that at least you care.[/quote]

actually ive read two types of posts
one is where all the big words seem natural. they condense the paragraph and pack it all into less words. its nice

the other one is that first one. seemed like all the big words were crammed in there for no other purpose than to appear sophisticated. totally gratuitous. i could have taken out half the words and the meaning would still have been the same

Why is your post double spaced liek wut

Don't get drunk

what is even happening in this thread

That TLDR though... -_-

You a crazy ho.

Too lazy to read all the comments, but in my opinion you were rude. I DO understand where you're coming from and how you were drunk...but that went a little too far. If you're in a relationship, it's two people, not one. You need to trust each other...plus the girl wasn't even going to sleep in the same room as your boyfriend. It just seems a bit immature (again, I know you were drunk) how you overreacted. It's your bf's dad's house, so his rules. If you really wanted the girl to get out, you could have nicely asked your BF's dad to just give her a ride home or something. No one besides you seemed to think it was a big deal. I mean, it sounds just selfish how your relationship rules > your bf's dad's rules. Maybe when you both move out and get your own place, then you make the rules?

Then again, I come from a suuuper Asian househould where respect means everything. Damn, if someone did that to my dad he'd disown me just for knowing them jkjk but srs tho respect.

your story is so arousing

Basilmarket is the worst forum in the world why do I visit this trash LOL

u jealous gurl. you can't trust your own bf whichsays something about yourself.

Find another relationship
problem solved.
Holy crap.
Did you come here for a solution or for empathy because I can't empathize for circumstances that someone returns to
Btw your BF is a piece of crap it shows in how he facilitated and responded, but oh let me guess. You think you're somehow lucky.

Facepalm.

I mean I understand where you're coming from but if she had to stay at your boyfriend's house, why didn't he just let her sleep in his room alone and him sleep on the couch with you or something.

[quote=0kevqn]@Sezbeth: Why can't you just talk like a human being, stop trying to use sophisticated words on the internet to prove your point further[/quote]

Yeah, okay. Let's just talk nice and simple so people who have trouble arguing their invalid points have a shot too. No.

I guess I just don't see why you found it a problem since it appears you could have easily stayed over as well. Also, isn't it obvious that when stuff like this happens people generally sleep on the couch/floor?

Seems like you're an annoying as hell GF

[quote=halfway]Classic remark made by someone with an inferior vocabulary.

Long Edit: As far as the thread goes I believe you're in the wrong with the dad because you should have never went downstairs to begin with after retreating to your boyfriends room unless it was to go check on your boyfriend. It's the dad's house and if he believes that a drunk girl that can't take care of herself is unable to make it home then I don't see the problem with that. I don't know many teens that want their parents to pick them up and see them in their drunken state. You're currently in your boyfriends room where he is going to sleep! Stop worrying about the drunk girl in the basement, sacrifice your "relationship boundaries" for one night and go to sleep with him. Girls make a lot of things complicated that don't even need to be. You're raining on the birthday party right now. If you believe that after a year and a half of dating your boyfriend he's willing to throw it away on some drunk girl then you need to work on the trust between the two of you or get over your insecurities. As far as the joking insults go for you and the dad you're both in the wrong but that's what happens. You went down drunk and questioning his authority within his own house. That has to be pretty infuriating and I guess he wanted to put you in your place but that was disrespectful and so was your retort. The dad is probably a little butt right now but if he really does not care about your relationship after that fight then an apology to him is in order, show him that at least you care.[/quote]

I don't have inferior vocabulary, you don't need to start using college level vocabulary on the internet

@Sezbeth Your point is valid, OP has a severe case of self-entitlement, and by all means I wouldn't try get between you and your [b]need[/b] to use "moderately complex vocabulary" in a MMORPG forum targeted to 10 year old kids, but if you really want to get your point across on this website, you could use a little dumbed-down vocabulary so the masses can clearly understand you

call the cops on his dad

@Chema: Unnecessary how? I argued a point, and in order to provide evidence for said point, I needed to use moderately complex vocabulary. Frankly, this is actually pretty casual for what I could be using if the discussion was being geared toward something I studied.

Unless English wasn't a first language to someone, I'm not exactly sure how the current vocabulary I'm using could be seen as excessive at all.

Edit: Of course, plenty of people who learn English as a secondary language often have better grasps of it than those who learn it as a first, but that's a topic for another time.

Second Edit: Fair point with the general nature of this site's community, but that isn't really of my concern. My posts primarily serve to spark a discussion with those who can understand. For those who can't, I have little-to-no interest, as they probably view me in the same manner.

[quote=Sezbeth]If I were hypothetically a moderator, I probably wouldn't need to ban anyone to prove a point. The fact that he feels the need to focus on moderately complex vocabulary to detract from the point borders on ad hominem.[/quote]
It was not the banning, it was the unnecessary verbose speak he used type, which is the exact same thing you are doing
If anything, given the nature of this website, your way of wording falls under obfuscation

[quote=0kevqn]@Sezbeth: Why can't you just talk like a human being, stop trying to use sophisticated words on the internet to prove your point further[/quote]

wud u pr3fer if i typ3d lyke dis?

Jokes aside, the goal of using somewhat advanced vocabulary (note that I use somewhat; try reading a published academic journal sometime, this is nothing) is to establish a specific point, rather than a general one.

That said, why complain about it? I understand that there's often an inferiority complex associated with those who try to argue a point, but can't follow a response. However it's not that difficult to understand. Google what you don't understand, or pick up a dictionary.

@Nodiggityx : I would agree with the second point, provided that the father actually insisted on letting the girl sleep in her boyfriend's room. However, as I mentioned in a previous post, it is implied that the father isn't serious about the remark due to him laughing while suggesting it. This is further considered when taking into account that the OP also mentioned the existing relationship being a "joking" one.

@Chema : If I were hypothetically a moderator, I probably wouldn't need to ban anyone to prove a point. The fact that he feels the need to focus on moderately complex vocabulary to detract from the point borders on ad hominem.

[quote=0kevqn]@Sezbeth: Why can't you just talk like a human being, stop trying to use sophisticated words on the internet to prove your point further[/quote]
Sezbeth: Limusocobobo 2: The electric Boogaloo

[quote=0kevqn]@Sezbeth: Why can't you just talk like a human being, stop trying to use sophisticated words on the internet to prove your point further[/quote]

Classic remark made by someone with an inferior vocabulary.

Long Edit: As far as the thread goes I believe you're in the wrong with the dad because you should have never went downstairs to begin with after retreating to your boyfriends room unless it was to go check on your boyfriend. It's the dad's house and if he believes that a drunk girl that can't take care of herself is unable to make it home then I don't see the problem with that. I don't know many teens that want their parents to pick them up and see them in their drunken state. You're currently in your boyfriends room where he is going to sleep! Stop worrying about the drunk girl in the basement, sacrifice your "relationship boundaries" for one night and go to sleep with him. Girls make a lot of things complicated that don't even need to be. You're raining on the birthday party right now. If you believe that after a year and a half of dating your boyfriend he's willing to throw it away on some drunk girl then you need to work on the trust between the two of you or get over your insecurities. As far as the joking insults go for you and the dad you're both in the wrong but that's what happens. You went down drunk and questioning his authority within his own house. That has to be pretty infuriating and I guess he wanted to put you in your place but that was disrespectful and so was your retort. The dad is probably a little butt right now but if he really does not care about your relationship after that fight then an apology to him is in order, show him that at least you care.

Not wrong: Dad letting the girl stay at the house for whatever reason doesn't seem wrong.
Wrong: Dad insisting the girl sleeps on boyfriends bed while the girlfriend is present. (I'm sure there's a friggin couch somewhere she can get comfy on)

It's really not that complicated

@Sezbeth: Why can't you just talk like a human being, stop trying to use sophisticated words on the internet to prove your point further

[quote=0kevqn]That makes no sense at all, having another girl sleeping in the same room as a guy when he has a girlfriend is obviously not right[/quote]

What doesn't make sense is you somehow insinuating that the subjective conditions of a relationship somehow take precedence over the will of the owner of the house. Especially when considering that those involved in said relationship are likely not even contributing to the aforementioned household. No contribution, no say.

The father was extending hospitality in order to prevent the possibility of a likely incident considering the emotional and cognitive state the person happened to be in at that time. Taking further consideration in the situation that the father was likely considering the possibility of the girl sleeping in his son's room in a joking tone (evident when he laughed). You also seem to be operating under the assumption that something else would've likely been worked out. As mentioned in the original post, they also had a thirteen year-old younger sister, thus implying that she could've slept in her room, or even down the obvious path of sleeping on the couch or wherever in similar context.

There's nothing "obviously not right" about this given scenario because it's operating under the presumed context of a bias (notably an intoxicated one, no less).

@xdarkshynobi The ages of the girls at the party weren't specified; also it's evident that they were likely of legal age due to the presence of alcohol and the father's obvious knowledge of said presence.

@AbsymalTorment: That is an awful idea! The TS said there were really young girls there. You know what they say though, if theirs grass play ball?

[quote=xdarkshynobi]You were fine to let your feelings be known. I can say, that I would have cheated and slept with the girl if she got into my bed and started giving me a hj/bj. You know as long as she wasn't a s***.[/quote]

The party should ended with an orgy. Giggady.

You were fine to let your feelings be known. I can say, that I would have cheated and slept with the girl if she got into my bed and started giving me a hj/bj. You know as long as she wasn't a s***.

^ how does it make no sense it's the fathers house w/e goes on in his sons love life isnt his concern for the most part but hosting a party in his house and having guest over he's responsible for everyone's safety so i dont think the father was wrong in his decision it does seem like a paranoid "what if" situation but if the gf was really that worried why couldnt she stay over also

[quote=Sezbeth]Bit egocentric, don't you think?

His house, his rules. It's not his obligation to cater to a relationship that doesn't have a personal base within the house, so there's little reason he should consider the paranoid "what-if" scenarios derived from someone who doesn't even live there.

Simply put, your relationship doesn't take precedence over the hospitality he chooses to offer under the conditions of his house.[/quote]

That makes no sense at all, having another girl sleeping in the same room as a guy when he has a girlfriend is obviously not right

Bit egocentric, don't you think?

His house, his rules. It's not his obligation to cater to a relationship that doesn't have a personal base within the house, so there's little reason he should consider the paranoid "what-if" scenarios derived from someone who doesn't even live there.

Simply put, your relationship doesn't take precedence over the hospitality he chooses to offer under the conditions of his house.