Girl advice
another advice thread. So we were texting and asking each other questions and stuff and so I answer and ask her back in the back and forth that's been going on for a while and she stops responding mid text. We've know each other for a while and convo seemed pretty normal, she seemed interested, so what should I do? It's been 4 days and I have no idea what happened cause it's text, yet I'm interested in her so I wanna ask something, what should I ask?
July 28, 2015
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The more you talk about relationship issues, the more you make yourself seem like a boring person.
@onlinemusic: I called her but it went straight to voicemail
[quote=fradddd]@mountainjew: well at the time I didn't know. I had no idea what I was doing or where it would lead. She said yes to hanging out and who knows if she would've said yes to a straight up date? I'm glad we've stayed in contact and hung out from then up to the present, and I don't know if asking her on a date would've prevented that or not. But I'm gonna take the chance and "confess" to her next time we hang out.[/quote]
thought you asked her out/to hang out today...
@mountainjew: well at the time I didn't know. I had no idea what I was doing or where it would lead. She said yes to hanging out and who knows if she would've said yes to a straight up date? I'm glad we've stayed in contact and hung out from then up to the present, and I don't know if asking her on a date would've prevented that or not. But I'm gonna take the chance and "confess" to her next time we hang out.
[quote=fradddd]@mountainjew: yeah I did several months ago dude.[/quote]
Asking to "hang out" is not the same and you know it.
@mountainjew: yeah I did several months ago dude.
[quote=fradddd]Happens all the time with my crush.
Call her and ask her out.[/quote]
Is that what you did, Fradddd? Call and ask your crush out?
Happens all the time with my crush.
Call her and ask her out.
text her again and ask to go out.
She's probably not into you, or got distracted by someone else. At this point you should try asking her out because it's now or never.
Maybe text her again and ask how she's doing? She possibly didn't receive the message or got distracted for awhile and realized she didn't text back hours later and doesn't want to seem rude by responding so late (what happens with me LOL). Another way to definitely get her to text back is to ask if she wants to hang out? Like watch a movie or go out to eat? Because she will have to respond by agreeing or rejecting.
ask her if she wants to go to starbucks and order a frap or latte
If you haven't already, I'd advise meeting up with her when she's free and just chill. Personally I don't think texting is intimate enough if you're trying to go to the next step in your friendship/relationship. And like the above posts said, her day doesn't have to solely revolve around you. If she doesn't reply back, just casually go about with your day and don't think too much about it.
she texting her other man
J-just text her back! Personally, I get distracted when I'm texting someone and forget to reply all the time, and waiting for a response doesn't seem to be doing you any favors. The worse thing she can say to you is she's not interested in you. Just casually ask her how she's doing, or tell her how you've been.
Sorry man but if she can live 4 days without you, then you know it's not gonna work out. Sorry to break it to you man.
Text her again
If she doesnnt reply well its over
Or she is expecting you to ask her out
just not responding. I didn't double text and the convo was pretty normal, so...
Has she blocked you or just not responding?