Should I ask this girl out?
So I've been going to college with this one girl (I'm in high school doing running start btw), and we get to the college at 9 but don't have classes until 10 so we like to hang out together. We've been doing it pretty much every day this first quarter. The thing is I don't like her that much, and I've been talking with her about other girls I've liked, so she probably thinks I friendzoned her. Although I don't think she's 10/10 pretty, there are a lot of dudes that think otherwise. Like we'd be hanging out and dudes just come up and ask for her number. I'm checking IG and she gets 100+ likes on her selfies. Recently on twitter, she turned down some thirsty guys from high school trying to get with her. Should I try to date her before someone else does? If so, how should I ask her out?
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" The thing is I don't like her that much, and I've been talking with her about other girls I've liked, so she probably thinks I friendzoned her. Although I don't think she's 10/10 pretty, there are a lot of dudes that think otherwise. "
There is SO much wrong with this. From what I understood from your paragraph, its like you want to date the girl simply because OTHER people think she's gorgeous. YOU don't even think she's all that pretty. You don't even LIKE her MUCH. What the heck? :s Why would you consider dating her?
Bruh...YOU DATE PEOPLE IF YOU LIKE THEM A LOT AND FIND THEM TO BE ATTRACTIVE
or well, thats what I think when it comes to dating someone, in a nutshell.
.. o.o </3 o.o >.< >.< >.< >.< Sigh.
@Ecarina I giggled.
You shouldn't date if you don't like.
Unless you just wanna tap it.
please just stop.
you got no chance, man.
No. Dont.
you know her the best, so I think you are the best person to answer that question. But you should fully love her, not casually.
If you only partially like her then save HER the trouble.
This post gave me cancer.
In the form of buckets full of cancerous cells delivered to my door. They're dying of course, but still.
"Smh" is all I can say.
ask her bf first
Sounds like snatching a good meal just too look at it. I'd say no.
There's someone that will like her more than you. Save it for them, and go for the girl you actually like.
How would you feel if the girl you are obsessed with is with another guy that only treats her in a half-assed manner?
So what I'm saying is, if you have good morals, don't do it. Go for someone you really want to love and care for.
"The thing is I don't like her that much, and I've been talking with her about other girls I've liked.." Bruh.
I don't think you should date her if you only partially like her, you also said, "Should I try to date her before someone else does?" Why don't you both spare yourselves by saving yourselves for someone you really like. Also, what makes you think she'll say yes to you if you even ask her ? Maybe she just chills with you because you're her friend. It's just, when guys ask girls out, girls expect it to be because you really like them, not partially like them. I think you just need to re-evaluate what you like about her, cause she hangs with you in the mornings, cause she's a '10/10' in other guy's books ?
Don't get in a relationship half-heartedly. Sorry if it sounded too serious, but I just personally take things like this seriously. If she says yes, hopefully you guys work it out &are serious with each other !
"The thing is I don't like her that much"
Why are you even asking this question?
are you serious
[quote=AbsymalTorment]Pictures.[/quote]
How do I know you're not her
Go for it you might end up liking her and if you don't just break up. You're in highschool shoot the ball and see what happens
Pictures.