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Things you would do with your significant other

Lets not be dirty and be forreals

Im very bored, trying to write my paper that Ive pushed aside for awhile. This thought came to me, what are some of the things you would do with your bf/gf? If you dont have a gf/bf, things you would do if you had one. And please keep it PG-13. Also, something thats not typical, not like watching a movie. SOMETHING NEW yaknowwhatimean?

As for me, I have a ldr relationship so I have so many in minds.

A drive-in movie
This would be fun but, pick out each other's outfit for that day
He knows how to snowboard and Im not the sport type but I want to learn how to snowboard
Take random videos of us eating, going out and etc for memories (nothing dirty pls)

Yeah I know this is hella corny but i was just wondering

September 28, 2014

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Peachie

I'd just want to live under the same roof as him

Reply September 30, 2014 - edited
WontPostMuch

We're not really a PG-13 couple haha. The tamest thing we've ever done was go out for a picnic but we got a couple of beers and wine and drank in public. Oh well. We're really the "let's go out and drink" type of couple, ya know?

Reply September 30, 2014 - edited
Tellam

Being in a ldr sucks sometimes (in a ldr atm)
I'm not saying that I'm going to break up with him or anything because of distance/time wise, but because I want to see him in person instead of on Skype. I want to feel him underneath the tips of my fingers, to play with his hair when we're cuddling together on the bed, and to memorize his scent. If he were to come over to where I live, I would take him to the most popular places just to experience it (vise versa).
My boyfriend and I are really easily amused. He could play League for hours and I would watch him play, or he could try and attempt to teach me how to play properly without dying from minions, and he would yell at me for being such a loser at league.
Watch TV Series being bums for hours in the dark, or get off our bums and work out together! Talk all day about nothing in particular, holding hands, go on walks, buying groceries and making food for ourselves. Or drink for fun and get drunk off butts and do some r-rated things. idk. he he ehhee.

Reply September 30, 2014 - edited
remembrent

@SomeJello: yesss, i want to travel the country with him, but extend it to like 6 months - year. I figure we could start off with a bit of money and drive to scenic places, and work odd jobs here and there from state to state. cross-country road trip in a camper/trailer type thing!

@Quasar: sword-sparring is pretty fun, I sparred with a few guys last summer, it got pretty intense pretty quickly, but I'm proud to say I was def not in last place

@LeeKwangSoo: K, the stuff you posted was too cute. Your (current/future?) S.O. is very lucky ^^ I'd love to watch leaves fall during fall, and make a game out of stepping on them and hearing them crunch or something

Reply September 29, 2014 - edited
norman897

PM me to fix a time please. I can't be sure who is who here what with it being on the internet what with basically everyone using my typing style.

Reply September 29, 2014 - edited
xFaceIess

uhm..
I wanna read with him, watch kdramas/shows n' stuff together, take care of him when he's sick or hurt, travel with him to far away places, walk on the beach in the fall, play video games with him/watch him play, I wanna be silly and free to be who I am with him, talk to him for hours and hours about anything and everything, make plans about stuff together, bake him something even though I suck at baking/cooking..
I want to help him when he's in difficult situations, go on walks/drives with him with no particular destination in mind.
That's all I can think of right now. >-<

Reply September 29, 2014 - edited
Joiry

[quote=evyxx]as someone whos in a ldr, u can say u'd do all this cute stuff, but (assuming u are not asexual) the first thought on your mind is probably going to be to jump their bones THEN do the cute stuff

anyways after the initial bone jumping, just dumb stuff that i do alone now that would be better w/him here. we watch some tv shows "together" via skype which is really nice and i enjoy it, so we'd probably do more of that.

i would also like to cook for him b/c i eat great food and he eats rice and pasta all the time like cmon man...let me make u some ribs and apple butter.. it'd be nice to learn his favorite foods too 'cause they're mostly pasta/rice dishes that i dont eat much (although i have gotten meals from restaurants that he says he loves and i like them too imjust bitter because carbs..). and also i really like cooking for people. i hardly cook or make food unless someone is there for me to make an extra serving for

i like going on walks and stuff too. not like romantic omg look at the flkcjefn trees walks but just walking a couple miles along roads and seeing where we end up!

there are two farmers markets near me, too, that r pretty cool and have good products. there's a soap shop near me that i LOVE so dearly and some of their mens products smell sooo good and the handmade-in-store soaps are the best soaps ever (seriously like one tiny sliver of a bar will clean EVERYTHING off you nd you'll stil have half left...i love) also a tea shop that im 99% sure he will love because there is pretty much every flavor of looseleaf you can imagine, plus a smoothie bar out back that has cute indie singers at night but also nobody is going to look in and see what a hipster you are because the smoothie bar entrance is an alley behind the shop.

then there's just some monthly events in my area that are cool + great, and the downtown area (albeit pretty small) has a cool artsy section that i think he would like

that is probably it for the socialable stuff. he is a pretty independent person so it will probably turn into him playing league or drawing something or being otherwise lame and nerdy while i get into arguments on the internet. oh yeah and sleep. we are both big fans of sleeping[/quote]

I love your passion. Just from reading this, I know how much you love those things, i dont even have to see your face much love! and trust me jumping their bones would be the first thing too but pg-13

Reply September 29, 2014 - edited
evyxx

as someone whos in a ldr, u can say u'd do all this cute stuff, but (assuming u are not asexual) the first thought on your mind is probably going to be to jump their bones THEN do the cute stuff

anyways after the initial bone jumping, just dumb stuff that i do alone now that would be better w/him here. we watch some tv shows "together" via skype which is really nice and i enjoy it, so we'd probably do more of that.

i would also like to cook for him b/c i eat great food and he eats rice and pasta all the time like cmon man...let me make u some ribs and apple butter.. it'd be nice to learn his favorite foods too 'cause they're mostly pasta/rice dishes that i dont eat much (although i have gotten meals from restaurants that he says he loves and i like them too imjust bitter because carbs..). and also i really like cooking for people. i hardly cook or make food unless someone is there for me to make an extra serving for

i like going on walks and stuff too. not like romantic omg look at the flkcjefn trees walks but just walking a couple miles along roads and seeing where we end up!

there are two farmers markets near me, too, that r pretty cool and have good products. there's a soap shop near me that i LOVE so dearly and some of their mens products smell sooo good and the handmade-in-store soaps are the best soaps ever (seriously like one tiny sliver of a bar will clean EVERYTHING off you nd you'll stil have half left...i love) also a tea shop that im 99% sure he will love because there is pretty much every flavor of looseleaf you can imagine, plus a smoothie bar out back that has cute indie singers at night but also nobody is going to look in and see what a hipster you are because the smoothie bar entrance is an alley behind the shop.

then there's just some monthly events in my area that are cool + great, and the downtown area (albeit pretty small) has a cool artsy section that i think he would like

that is probably it for the socialable stuff. he is a pretty independent person so it will probably turn into him playing league or drawing something or being otherwise lame and nerdy while i get into arguments on the internet. oh yeah and sleep. we are both big fans of sleeping

Reply September 29, 2014 - edited
ox0Shad0w0xo

Hm, well I wouldn't say we do anything out of the ordinary. I've taken her to just about every amusement park near southern Cali. Even made a vacation out of Disneyland and made it a 4 day trip (which was a blast, we had our own hot tub in the hotel room). Most things I can think of, that we've done together, are just typical couply things. Going to parks, beaches (we bike ride along the beach sometimes, even though it gets crowded and people like to try and walk on the "bike only" paths), ice skating (she fell a lot), bowling, musuems, mini golfing, etc.

I can't really think of things that I wouldn't consider typical lol. I guess the time we cuddled up on the couch last winter and watched the fireplace? I don't know lol. Everything I think of, I consider it ordinary.

Reply September 29, 2014 - edited
Defaulty

I lick my bfs pits
thx 4 the dating advice @RitoPls

Reply September 28, 2014 - edited
LeeKwangSoo

-anything she wants to (like shopping, for instance)
-cook together
-eat out at restaurants
-help each other with homework
-go to the park
-play ping pong or pool billiard oyea
-make her handcrafts and buy her cute stuff
-exercise together
-teach each other new things
-learn new things with each other
-share our hobbies
-watch shows on TV or the internet together
-go far away from our city
-watch the leaves fall during the fall
-ride the train together
-sleep together, especially during winter, and wrap ourselves with a huge blanket
-hug each other
-kiss her on the shoulder
-play with her hair
-tickle her
-carry her around
-spend time together
-cry
-laugh
-share our troubles/feelings
-go to Niagara Falls (I felt the loneliest the last time I was there so it was kinda bad memories; when I go there again I want it to be with my significant other)

I actually prefer keeping it PG-13. There's just so much more than just youknowwhat, and I'm not even looking forward to that at all.

What I don't like:
-drive-in movies
-movie theaters in general
-amusement parks (except for Disney World)
-the zoo

Reply September 28, 2014 - edited
Pashmimi

[quote=iTempo]Sex is a very part in relationships. In major relationships at-least. Probably not the case for young High School love[/quote]
What if you're asexual yo
Just because a couple's not into sex doesn't mean their relationship's any less valid.

GO TO THE BOOKSTORE AND LOOK AT BOOKS (and buy them)
Go sing karaoke together
Have lunch together
Talk about stupid things
idk just hanging out together, that's always fun.

Reply September 28, 2014 - edited
iDrinkOJ

don't have one.
talk a walk on the beach at sunrise or sunset
watch asian dramas together wrap in blanket
play board games..monopoly, scrabble or video games together
go shopping for undergarment
go to a computer show/computer game competition or event like blizzcon or comic-con
go out to eat at different places that are not common, like chinese, thai, viet, korean, japanese food
go to vegas...bellagio, chapel get hitch
go fishing, camping, swimming, hiking, biking, rock climbing

Reply September 28, 2014 - edited
Capricious

I was in a ldr relationship for one year and we often discussed this! So many ideas. It's a shame we broke up, though...

Go on "dates" to cafes - she absolutely loved going to cafes in her country, and took pictures every time she went. I spent a great deal of time looking up and going to cafes in my city with my friends, hoping to some day go there with my girlfriend.

Go on long (late night) drives - no specific destination in mind.

Visit a movie house (this is only if we were in her country) and watch a movie together - apparently, they have nice little rooms for couples or small groups! It sounded quite romantic when she described it.

Going for walks in the park - She loves the out doors and taking pictures, but I'm more of an in-doors person. I kinda looked forward to being out with her, haha.

Taking plenty of pictures and recording videos of our time together - As I mentioned, she loved taking pictures and recording videos. She enjoyed adding filters to them and preserving the memories.

Visiting tourist hot-spots in our respective countries - She spent the majority of her summer going to beach resorts, and camping trips up in the mountains and the pictures she shared with me were stunning. I wish I could've gone with her, just once.

Reply September 28, 2014 - edited
Frostozen

[quote=iTempo]Foreplay and [b]safe[/b] sex[/quote]
fixed~
remember children, don't be silly, wrap your willy

OT: Exercising/working out together preferably in a park

Reply September 28, 2014 - edited
Effy

Not sex

Reply September 28, 2014 - edited
zigen

Definitely concerts
the boy I was into kept saying he would take me to them

Reply September 28, 2014 - edited
ErvTheMan

Skydive. We can both fall to our death together.

Reply September 28, 2014 - edited
djhfreak

[quote=HastyHeist]>Things you would do with your significant other
>Lets not be dirty and be forreals

I'm leaving this thread now.[/quote]

This.

Reply September 28, 2014 - edited
Quasar

Sword sparring.

Reply September 28, 2014 - edited
Joiry

[quote=iTempo]Sex is a very part in relationships. In major relationships at-least. Probably not the case for young High School love[/quote]

I never said it wasnt imporant Im just asking anything other than that part of it. Im pretty sure you could think of so many other things that doesnt involve sex in a relationship

Reply September 28, 2014 - edited
Anthorix

A bunch of dorks that can't read the first sentence of the thread starter.^

I say if they like music, go to concerts

like "the outdoors" -> camping

like comics-> comic conventions

food-> eat different foods often-> cooking together

go-kart racing

NOT SHOPPING as a bonding thing, plz no.

Reply September 28, 2014 - edited
NoobCake

[quote=Joiry]Thats the only thing that you could think of? A relationship that involves only sex is not healthy and thats typical.[/quote]

Same could be said about relationships that lack sex.

Reply September 28, 2014 - edited
Joiry

@iTempo: >.< >.< >.< >.< >.< >.< >.< >.<

Reply September 28, 2014 - edited
Joiry

[quote=NoobCake]I guess I'll say it.

Sex.[/quote]

Thats the only thing that you could think of? A relationship that involves only sex is not healthy and thats typical.

Reply September 28, 2014 - edited
HastyHeist

>Things you would do with your significant other
>Lets not be dirty and be forreals

I'm leaving this thread now.

Reply September 28, 2014 - edited
NoobCake

I guess I'll say it.

Sex.

Reply September 28, 2014 - edited
Zoneflare4

[quote=misslime]recording videos of us eating sounds fun
[/quote]
I can imagine that being a horrific sight
OT stuff. That's all I'll say

Reply September 28, 2014 - edited
misslime

recording videos of us eating sounds fun

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