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Is it okay for the girl to ask the guy out?

Like on one hand it's supposed to look confident and sexy, and on the other you look desperate as hell

edit: And when it's okay, will it make them think less of you?

November 4, 2013

28 Comments • Newest first

Reflexes

[quote=TehRaygunicorn]I've never made the first move

So yeah, I like it hahaha[/quote]

What a playaaaaa

Reply November 6, 2013
Ningy

Just do it, guys are so much more laidback then girls are with relationships.

Reply November 6, 2013
sonic4532

I think it's alright : It relieves the pressure from the guy, and is quite surprising! There is a dance called MORP, (prom backwards) where the girl asks the guy (duh). The amount of desperation noticed when you ask him out, depends on [b]how[/b] you ask the guy out. As long as you present yourself in a confident manner, you're gonna' be fine! Plus, girls (for the most part) are much more creative than guys.

P.s. Hi pro

Reply November 4, 2013
Ness

[quote=Helbrim]I think its fine. But a proposal should always be the male[/quote]

What if the couple is composed of two homosexual women.

[b]Who proposes to whom.[/b]

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PurpleWaffles

I read/watched something before that said if a girl asked a guy out, there is a 91% chance he will accept. If a guy asks a girl out, he only has a 63% chance she will accept.

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singsangsong

There are guys who are really shy, girls asking out boys are not weird at all.

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onigiri123

Haven't played in ages, your hair looks nice. Royal?

OT: current gf asked me out.

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CrayonScribble

It's a good display of confidence.

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randomAussie

There is nothing wrong with it But to me a proposal should be done by the male

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thedylan

[quote=ZuaDrago]Is it different if an older woman dates a younger guy?[/quote]
My girlfriend is older than me.
So no.

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ZuaDrago

Is it different if an older woman dates a younger guy?

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MapleFlow

Since when asking a girl asking a guy out considered desperate? Lol, wait nvm...society is stupid anyways.

And sure, why not.
Personally if a girl asked me out, it wouldn't be as different as me asking a girl out.

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tsumikis

it's perfectly fine for the girl to ask! either way seems great and as long as you feel like everythings mutual and stuff go for it! <3

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TheseNips

If the guy is a girl and the girl is a guy, sure.

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AveryMBII

@DragonAge What he said. I've been the one that said no before and boy did that turn out ugly.

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UAPaladin

That's perfectly fine, I'd prefer if a girl asked me out, lol.

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sparkshooter

Asking out is okay, proposing is kinda weird.

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DragonAge

Be casual, make sure it is in a place where you're ALONE, and if he says no, take it easy. Trust me, saying no to a girl who asks you out is like telling someone in a burning building to calm down.
If he says no, which, I really hope he doesn't, just kind of laugh off as he tries to explain his "no". it'll make things almost 100x easier.

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Wanton

no. Have you seen the anime girls confessing to the anime boys its perfectly normal bro

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BBD

If you like someone go for it.
If you don't you will might miss out.

I dated a lot of people and I sure had girls ask me out.

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yongyong139

Do it, it would be a nice surprise.

Anyway gl.

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Dorks

Desperate is only if she's begging and crying/obsessed, same for guys.

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dimo

Nothing wrong with it, my current girlfriend asked me out.

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NoobCake

I dunno, when girls asked me out I always thought they were joking cause it's so unusual and uncommon.

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TehRaygunicorn

I've never made the first move

So yeah, I like it hahaha

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Liam

it's preferred i can always admire a girl who can step out of the gender norms

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RitoPls

Ya ask him out. Nothing gets me going like a dominant and assertive girl.

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prestigechef

mmmm o yes pls

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