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of course you like yuki nagato, the expressionless doll of a human being

@upcomingnerd: So funny to see you say that. Just came back to Basil to find something after like four years of being gone and not playing Maplestory. I was just thinking "Wow Basil hasn't changed at all".

What this guy said^ man it was brutal lol

lol I see Basil hasn't changed much, still a bunch of people labeling others to feel better about themselves.

Just talk to people you meet. Eventually you'll find someone you click with. You don't need to look anywhere, let life happen.

@ashleyattacked

You, I like. <3

I still stand by my suggestion of the day care centers, preschool and elementary schools...as well as local playgrounds.

These are all great places to find that cute, impressionable young girl that you can mold and tailor into the girl you desire.

He's 19, he's young, he's got a whole life ahead to be disappointed.

Short Answer: The DMV
Long (and serious) Answer: Just ask girls directly and forget any preconceived image of the "ideal" type or soulmate you have in your mind. If you can't do that, maybe try sorting out some stuff in your life first. (Get some hobbies maybe, pursue some interests, go to places where girls meet?)

Nowhere

main interest in this whole post is that @eternalmemory x @ashleyattacked
heck she just said it herself
beware guys walls are coming

Lol. I love this thread

@mrsatan: Because I'm a great guy to get along with? I'm not thugging out in the streets. I'm not abusive or aggressive. Me and her would have things in common. We both would feel comfortable in each others company.

@xreniya: As what i said with mrsatan, me & her would be similar in many ways. Okay i may come off as a bad person upon writing this thread, but all you guys opinions are completely twisted compared to what people in real life say about me.
The irony that when i was attending college several months ago, i asked a few girls about what do they think of me & how would that relate to me finding a girl, well they said that; I'm sweet, very handsome(NEVER been called ugly a day in my life, thank the lord.), forgot what else they said since this was a long while ago, but basically they said I'd be able to make a woman happy, in which i can. I have relationship experience unlike all of you probably so i know what i want along with the do's & dont's.

@loraket: Just tagging you since what you've said is similar to the other 2 people above that i replied too.

Okay see everyone there's a difference between "objectifying women" & having standards. What i get from you all is that i should settle for less. None of what I said in my original post is asking for to much. Most of the things, if not all of them are things people are not even suppose to be doing. So... honestly. See if i was objectifying women or treating them anything along the lines, I'd be saying; Oh her hair HAS TO BE BROWN, HER BEHIND HAS TO BE A CERTAIN CURVE, HER EYES HAS TO BE BLUE, HER BREAST HAS TO BE C CUPS, SHE HAS TO BE THIS, SHE HAS TO BE THAT, ETC. Now... All of what I listed was a personality & maybe hobby preference. We all have those. It doesn't make me any less of a person for wanting to pursue that. There's just a certain type of woman that I'm the most attracted too. We all have that certain type of people we're into too. Plus when it comes to getting with someone, you're SUPPOSE to be critical of the kind of person they are on the inside assuming you'd wanna spend the rest of your life with that person.

You guys say that i want a particular woman of a certain 'condition' i should say, so i could treat bad... WHERE ON GOD'S GREEN EARTH DID THAT COME INTO perception? I just want someone who'd accept me and be comfortable with who i am and me feeling the same way. IT'S CALLED PERSONALITY COMPATIBILITY. Something I've learned from talking to girls in the past. I've literally had a girl like 8 or 9 months ago that told me that "our personalities don't match" Because she was the talkative social type I'd say & I wasn't. Excuse me for not wanting a situation like that to happen again.

When you're with someone, you should not have to try to be something you're not to be with that person.

@xfallingdreams: That's nonsense I've met several women who more or less fit the category. And I know by default many religious women whether Muslim, Christian, Catholic, etc. would fit that category. I guess I could leave out shyness as a preference. Since I'm still kinda shy but not all that compared to how I was.

@caracal: Okay, yeah I agree. I have nearly 0 experience trying to talk to girls in real life throughout my 19 years of living i always solely depended on meeting girls online. My friendship criteria is muuuch lighter than how my relationship one would be. It's suppose to be that way.

anywhere you frequent, doing things of interest at places of interest. colleges and college towns are the most likely areas due to their large concentrations of similarly-minded young adults. maybe a cafe or church based on your preferences, but going anywhere just to scour for women is creepy. focus more on what you would like to do and where you would like to go. explore new places, try new things.

you seem to project ideas of what specific women are like without having met them, and that perspective limits your prospects. you have to give yourself and others the opportunity to learn about one another. develop a healthier outlook and understand that many girls may not suit your criteria. however, they may still be worth knowing as friends or just as people. every relationship is a process. you won't know everything about another person at first, but you can start by getting to know yourself a little better.

strive for a healthy relationship that pushes towards improvement instead of one that reinforces negative cycles.

@shini

Not that simple. More importantly, you also need to be self-aware in order to make a good image for yourself and improve yourself all the time.

Even if someone fits all those requirements, chances are she's not interested in you anyway.

All the traits you've listed, I really doubt the chance of finding someone that fit EVERY category would be rare. Reality speaking, you'd have to compromise.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Uq9ORLaaos

that girl you're looking for does not exist, especially not today. and if she does, why would this blameless pure petal-girl choose you of all people?

Ask yourself why a young, shy and pretty librarian would want to hang out with an overestimating, egocentric loner who has a crush on an anime character.

@eternalmemory: man, get out of here.
Actually I'm not sure on how to reply to your post, for one i can't imagine any guy who'd be into you. Probably a hopeless sadomasochist if anyone. You're not even my type.
I'm entitled to have a personality preference as anyone would when it comes to finding someone you're into. Or at the very least, a close friend.

I'm not looking to control anyone. I actually learned my lesson from that. (Did it supposedly twice with 2 people)

@ashleyattacked: Arugh the loud-mouth? Why... I think if anyone comes in second... it'd be that busty girl Haruhi drags around dressing up. Me saying this would probably make me sound a whole lot worse. But I'd take the risk.

@dragon11: Actually, I'm returning to online dating briefly since i encountered a girl on this website I really really like.

@verkins: I'm to old for that now I feel. I use to do that when i was much younger. Now Since I'm 18+ I have the option of actually going out & meeting up with girls.

@zigen: Ehhh. I know someone like her exists in real life, just gotta find her.

@xronellx: I'm 19 years old. Said that in my original post. But... i kinda disagree. Ok i don't see what's so unrealistic about my preference. Like... okay. Maybe 1 or 2 things would have to be subtracted. However, i know most of these are things people would agree on by default. Like the non-tattoo's, non-smoking, non-slutty, thing.

@windowlegs: Uhmm... huh.

@09080706l: I see your point actually. However, um. I wonder why if this is why i haven't had much success finding any girl recently.

@joblessjim: Okay I really wanted to reply to this. Now, you're so far off. This hasn't even came to mind when i made this thread. I only included what i did in my original post because i feel these traits would compliment my personality. As in someone i feel the most comfortable with & could connect better with. Most of what i said in my original post, I'm actually like that myself. Honestly, being with someone who's "low-voiced, shy, gentle, introverted, & soft" sounds wonderful to me. I dislike outgoing women because I don't find it attractive or appealing, and I kinda find it annoying sometimes. Plus... outgoing people usually prefer to well, talk a lot in which i don't really do in real life. not to mention the activities they're into that I'm not.
Quiet, introverted, & soft girls have this charm to them which makes me melt.

But really, I'm just looking for compatibility. That's why i list the type of traits i list. My number 1 isn't as important as 2 or 3 would be. Also, I was only using the anime girl as an idea. Nothing more then that.

@dragon11: Those oatmeal raisin cookies aren't half bad

@joblessjim

Give this man a cookie, chocolate chip not raisin.

Sounds to me like you are just trying to find some submissive girl who lacks the ability to be confident and make decisions for her self.
As the others have said, yes, you are looking for someone who is exhibiting forms of mental illness. Sounds to me like you just want to have control over the entire relationship. It would be the only reason someone would be targeting the weak/submissive type. That or you have some fetish for dependency, but you already ruled that out seeing as how you have so many "standards".
You are also trying a little bit too hard to try to customize your match. The way you are approaching things sounds like you are trying to adopt a dog, or buy a car. Women are human beings. Real life isn't some form of anime. Stop objectifying them.

This might be harsh to say going off of the little bit of information you have given, but you don't seem like a good human being at all. You don't seem like the type that should be in any form of relationship. Save some poor girl the suffering she would inevitably endure and give up pursuing a partner.

Short version: life isn't an anime. You aren't gonna find some mentally ill girl whom you can dominate in the relationship. Stop objectifying women and realize your viewpoints are pretty warped. Save any girl you pursue the suffering.

Stop. Setting. Criteria. It's not going to work out.

When you meet someone that has good chemistry, you'll know it.

you sound like you should travel to thailand and play mount you friends with some soft lady boys

Your ideals is too high and nearly impossible to find. When you get older, not sure how old you are, you begin to realize that you get what you get. You can't really be extremely picky on someone, especially when you just want to get to know them. But it isn't all that bad meeting unexpected people. Sure there are the bad bunch, that everyone has a category of, but at the end we of the day we still are forced to live with everyone whether we like it or not. So might as well understand people's story and how they go about living and you might just end of finding that person.

Make friends in MapleStory and hope a girl lives in your state.

go for that 2D waifu

Won't do online dating, no Starbucks nearby, no outgoing women, no older women, no hope for you to breed!

Nature finds a way... (Jurassic Park theme)

@shini: I have to admit - Haruhi Suzumiya is my all time favourite anime. But Haruhi is my crush.

@dragon11: I don't think there is a starbucks in my area. I know there is one over 10 miles away though in downtown in my city. I live in chiraq.

@bajablast: This would have been funnier if i mistakenly posted this thread in general.

@ashleyattacked: Oh hey i have 3 of those things diagnosed. Maybe I should seek out other women with mental illnesses. a least we'd have something in common. Including social anxiety.

Honestly though... I don't like that you HAVE to be outgoing, rough, loud, open, etc. to be 'normal'. I honestly don't like those traits & anyone who aren't that doesn't make them any less of a person. I'd personally be unhappy if i were in an relationship with someone the opposite of me. It seems that all young people ever really prefer or care about is partying, clubbing, etc. Hard to find the kind of girl whom I think I'd be compatible with.

I don't believe shyness & being closed-in to be a negative. Whether you're a grown man or women. That's completely subjective.

@natalie: I wish! Honestly... I've had wet dreams about Yuki Nagato.

try becoming an anime character

@shini: Not trying to sound like an ass, but she's right. What you're describing sounds kind of like someone with mental problems; social anxiety at the very least.

@shini: Depression. Manic Depression. Borderline Personality Disorder. Agoraphobia. Panic Disorder. Generalized Anxiety Disorder. Social Anxiety Disorder. Aspergers Syndrome.

And there are more.

try checking out the henesys market or park
channels 4-10 would be your best bet since youre looking for the quiet type

@ashleyattacked: I'd love to know a least ONE mental illness that'd fit into the traits that i described. if anything, the traits i hate should be categorized as mental illness.

@shini: The behaviours you choose as 'superior' are factually symptoms of mental problems.

Starbucks

Good idea: Ask a girl if a nearby chair is taken to start a convo.
Bad idea: Spill coffee on a girl to start a convo.

@ashleyattacked:
Lmao. Talk about harsh. What made you come to that conclusion? Excuse me for having a preference.
Everyone is different. The type of girls I displayed in my preference doesn't make them any less of women, on the contrary I think the women I talked about in my post are SUPERIOR than any other kind of women that'd be the opposite. In my opinion.

I tend to hang around the playgrounds/day care centers when I'm looking for a young lady.

You seem to like your young girls suffering from lack of self confidence and experiencing various other essentially mental illnesses.

I hope you find that sick, depressed little girl you want to repress further.

I can't insult here without being censored or banned - but - I don't like you as a person. You have a lot to sort out.