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@silkym39: I mean in his context clearly (that was a good one though)

@rythendevil Actually gay also means happy. Look it up.

Gay is not a feeling

you can't really put a label on ones gender identity/sexual orientation.

idk man i would think that its something you just know like i grew up knowing that i was straight idk how to explain it but i just knew and i guess its the same for le gays or when they find out that they're gay in their later life like maybe in teen years then i guess its when they're suddenly like "i feel like scking a male genital" yknow i guess its like that idk.

@Ecyz: It's more of an "emotional" thing
I know quite a lot of females who have experimented with other girls and they are not gay. Not even in denial--they did it purely out of experimenting. I know plenty of males who have admitted that they have thought about homosexual tendencies--still not gay. Far from it, actually. Wanting/thinking about having sex with the same gender is actually very common and conventional. People just don't like talking/are uncomfortable about it. Sexuality is not black and white.

[quote=Fallflowers]@Rtyu: Wanting to have sex with the same gender does not necessarily make you gay, contrary to popular belief[/quote]
Yes it does
That is the textbook definition of gay
If being gay doesn't mean you're gay, what exactly makes somebody gay then?

EDIT: I know about the sexuality spectrum and all that, but honestly you'd have to be even a little bit gay to, as a man, want to have sex with the male form.

@xtripled yeah, i was just talking about men I personally find attractive

It's more accurate to represent homosexuality on a spectrum like the Kinsey scale, then apply statistics to quantify it.
For example, if I see twenty people and half of them are dudes, I will most likely find 6-8/10 of the chicks attractive, and 0-2/10 of the dudes attractive, and so I have enough homos and enough lack of heteros in me to consider myself a lesbian.

[quote=Twerkable]except when you're a girl lmao
ot: i will and always will like the opposite gender, sorry but men are too
attractive <3[/quote]
i could say the same thing about women, but not all women
just like not all men

[quote=Rtyu]If you'd like to have sex with a man, you're gay.[/quote]

except when you're a girl lmao
ot: i will and always will like the opposite gender, sorry but men are too
attractive <3

If you look at a Male (if you're male) and think... "Wow, I wonder how he is in bed"
if You look at a Female (If you're female) and think... "I wonder how she tastes"

When you have romantic feelings for the same sex, generally

But only [i]you[/i] can determine what you are; no one knows who you truly are, no matter how cliche that sounds

@Rtyu: Wanting to have sex with the same gender does not necessarily make you gay, contrary to popular belief

You know it when you see a hot dog & you feel aroused.

only if you want a bondage party

I thought this was about the Rudy Gay trade for a sec

you know when you want the D trust me im gay.

You know when you know.

you know you're gay if the opposite gender's reproductive organs gross you out

@xtripled: haha alright. im not gay but thats funny

@TheseNips: denial is the 1st stage

[quote=xtripled]we always knew[/quote]
haha. no im not gay im just curious about what people think

we always knew that you were gay

depends how accepting you are of yourself.

some people know/accept quickly, but others know/accept when they are 40

[quote=CouponGoddess]ur such a kid smh[/quote]
im not but i appreciate the advice

Watch your dad find this

i don't think you should label yourself and make a stereotype for yourself

if you like someone or w/e just go for it

ur such a kid smh