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stomp his dog to death

Im just going to say one thing, break with her, i've been there one time with a crazy a ** , she kept talking to her ex and saying to me "hes stalking me he will not leave me alone look at this text" , then i concentrated like a monk and came to this conclusion: she wants attention, she was teasing him too so they can talk all flirty and pretended to be annoyed, i broke up with her and didn't do a single crap to her ex cuz it wasn't his fault, all men are like this, if a hot girl flirt with you even if she has a boyfriend you'll do her .
Altought , if it was him who stalked her and didn't leave her alone i would have beaten the crap out of him and LOL at kids who say "u go to jail" , we can tell that you've never been in a fight

You might as well have just kept texting him "Fight me IRL kid", because that's essentially the only content in all of your text messages.

I'm not surprised he thinks you're in high-school. Generally by the time you make it to post secondary education, you learn that violence is a terrible first resort and things can usually be dealt with other ways if approached calmly.

@Samla111: ah, okay my apologies good sir.

@DragonBandit: I didn't mean YOUR girlfriend, I was agreeing with you, then mentioning the TS's gf

@Samla111: I'm single?

[quote=BoredAF]@dopeazn: lol You obviously can't understand what you read and then you link non credible sources. I may not be a lawyer but that was horrible.[/quote]

doesn't have to be credible. does your brain even understand my point? it varies by area. and you realize they are ACTUAL lawyers.
im sorry my link was a dud. i dont think you can link https on basil. read it again.
https://legaladvice.rocketlawyer.com/questions/adc8032704/are-invitation-to-mutual-combat-and-mutual-combat-/
dont really care if you believe it. the fact is, he will probably get in trouble regardless of what you think.
no matter what though, the fight will probably overlap with disturbance of peace or disorderly conduct. i'm not making that up.

[quote=BoredAF]Lol, I agree with dragonbait, your gf likes the attention or else she would of blocked his number and/or got him to stop. She can call the cops it is s harassment. I like the way the blue guy thinks, well besides the not fighting part ( I take MT I enjoy a fight). All he has to do now, is show her what you messaged him saying and convince your gf that you are in fact insecure and do not trust her. After that, after he instills that doubt into her mind it's going to be a slippery slope from there. Women like attention, jerk, or not.

You take boxing but yet you don't know the basic rule of any fight. Anyone can lose in a fight.

If she's allowing him to continue to mssg her like that, there is most likely a reason behind it. After 1.5 years you two should be able to communicate like pros. Maybe you're lacking in some department or stopped being as exciting. Good luck.[/quote]

Not true. I'm a female who doesn't like attention from males all the time. Sometimes I catch guys staring at me, but a very small amount of guys actually make a move. I don't like attention from jerks, so your statement does not apply to all females. And I agree with your statement that she can call the cops, but she could also report her harasser to the dean or whoever is in charge.

[quote=BoredAF]@dopeazn: You can't just make up stuff and post it. Especially not after I researched the subject and found answers that differ from yours.

http://en.wikibooks.org/wiki/Canadian_Criminal_Law/Consent

I don't know if you just choose to be ignorant and ignore words I've used such as 'agree' to a fight or what but as I stated unless serious harm is done (hospitalized) that negates the consent, it is legal to participate in a fight.[/quote]
1) you're the ignorant one. I didn't ignore your words, I said this is definitely not a fight. can you read? what you're saying and what he intends to do is completely different. I understand the condition "if he consents." it's just there's no consent at all, genius. what made you come to the conclusion that I didn't read what you said?
2) this is canadian law. what makes you think he's canadian? are you dense? in the link you sent me, it says "Consent can be negated or vitiated where the force causes bodily harm and was intended to be caused." it doesn't say serious harm or hospitalization. that's very broad and can mean anything. now you're the one making up stuff. what makes you think no one will be harmed in this fight? if he's not hurt, why would he stop texting this guy's gf? and it doesn't even matter because, what makes you think he's canadian?
3) yes, a mutual fight still can get you jail time. depends on where you live. I'm sure it's happened to some idiots who fight in bars(like you?), they were just less lucky with it. even if you agree to it, yes. even if you consent, doesn't matter. maybe it didn't happen to you, but you sure deserve it. stop encouraging people to act like jackasses.
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this isn't proof he'll get in trouble. I'm just showing you laws vary by area. he probably will though.

and you can still get arrested for fighting in public. it's called of disturbance of peace. do you expect him to let him into his house and agree to get pummeled? i'm assuming this guy lives in an apartment or dorm, since he's in college. you can't get away with fighting anywhere there, even with consent. and you can't fight in public. no matter how you look at it, this guy isn't getting away with fighting anyone. getting in a real fight WILL cause injuries unless you use safety gear. or you make it a slap fight. obviously no one will do that.
4) don't argue with me, you're some asshat that gets into bar fights, not a lawyer.

@BoredAF: I have a twisted mind, so what are you gonna do about? At least I'm not a selfish suicidal maniac that cares for nothing but his own sorrow.

lol @ basilers claiming he'll go to jail no wonder u guys are on this forum

man straight up go knock his teeth out i had this sh17 happen to me before too and i straight up popped that n1qqa like straight up dropped him and his crew just me vs him and 3 other guys and i was ready to bust a cap already had stuff ready

man dont take no sh17 dont take no bs do me proud and go knock him out

1: Try to irritate him back, by saying he's hopeless, forever alone etc., and laugh about it.
2: Be a bully, and embarrass him in front of his whole school.
3: Intimidate him
4: Tell everyone that knows him what he's doing (not his friends, they'll just join him, mostly), he'll get looked down at and he won't like that. Like they say: if no one knows, it can't hurt him (or something like that)
5: This one might be very weird and stupid: Become friends with him. If you become friends with him, he won't sext the gf of his friend (or else he's just a d..k). This way, you'll also make your gf happy, since she hates fighting, and I think also making someone feel bad for life.
Imagine it like it's war, everyone hates war, groups are against each other and don't want to hang out with each other. But when you get peace, people will live in harmony or whatever.

(sorry for bad english btw)

(btw again, sorry if number 5 irritated you alot when you read it)

I'm not tech savvy, but can't you guys just block him or something?

Really dude, no TLDR.
tldr, fight him

I'm pretty sure that even if you did beat him up, he wouldn't stop doing what he's doing. If he's done it to other girls/couples then don't you think he would of gotten his butt whooped once or twice? I mean he keeps screwing with you after you've told him you'd beat him up. (I didn't read the text messages since the text was small, but I've seen enough High School drama to know how it all goes) You have quite a few options here; you can talk it out with him like civilized human beings and hopefully get him to stop. You can talk with your girlfriend and try to convince her to completely stop talking to him. It doesn't matter how good of a person she is, if she really cares then she can stop things before they escalate any further. She could just be waiting for two guys to fight over here it's what every little High School-er dreams of. You can just ignore it. Or you can blow off some steam by beating the crap out of him and then get pissed off again when he keeps screwing with you.

Give us his cell number man.

You came off way too strong in the first few messages. You simply tell him, stop flirting and talking to my girfriend. If he does not say yes, then sure go on a cussing rant. You should have done it face to face. He can simply call you out behind a phone texting you.

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Idk how this even happens. She has to do her part and ignore everything but school-related, bring it up to her teacher again, etc. Do not fight him. And I repeat, do not fight him. He's already being a douchbag doing this to your girlfriend, [b]don't stoop down to a lower level than him and fight[/b]. Do your part. Now it's going to be more of a problem since you made a him an official 3rd wheel of your relantionship by making it into this.

It's been going on long enough, if she still has not been able to get over this guy's continous pestering with flirty texts than something is wrong. It could be her(like everyone else has been saying else in this thread) or simply that's the way he is. Either way, if she saw this as harrasment, refused his advancements, and blantly rejects him without compassion it shouldn't be going on. She can call it out as harrasment to authorites. Do you know how big of a reaction girls get when they confess harrasment? It will be dealt with it.

IF this has become a big enough issue where it's bothering you constantly, deal with it. Talk to her, bring it up againn, make another deal with her, if she values the relantionship that has been going for 1+ years she can publicly denounce his advances. Harsh. Just my 2 cents... o_o. It's happened to me before, and the first thing you shouldnt have done is be aggresive as you were texting him right off the bat. Even though you're trying to make a point of how much it bothers you, all the douchbag sees is weakness.

@Thiefy996:

#jealousmuch
#memes
#makeuk00ler
#canttouchthis

[quote=BoredAF]@dopeazn: He wants to beat him up via a fight though. As soon as the other guy, agrees to the fight, it becomes different. If he jumps the guy and beats him up, then yeah I agree, he'll probably end up in jail. Honestly, if he wanted to hurt the guy, he shouldn't of stated so anywhere in writing and should of done it in a shady manner. With no proof leading back to himself. Obviously that isn't the case now, so he's going to have to calm down unless he can get the guy to fight him.[/quote]
nope.. even a mutual fight can get you jail time. and this is definitely not a mutual fight.

Maybe he's avoiding you because he's scared you could actually beat him up.
Show him that you play Maplestory, then he'll definitely think he can take you. He'll agree to a fight...

And that's when you beat the sheet outta his punk ass

[quote=BoredAF]Just because you get in a fight doesn't mean you'll end up in jail. Maybe if he hospitalized him or something to that level... I've had to go to court before for getting in a fight at a bar and the judge threw out the case because we were both drunk.[/quote]
a bar fight isn't the same thing as assault. this guy's intention is to beat up the other guy. the other guy clearly wants nothing to do with him. if he causes any injury, i think he'll get jail time.

Best case scenario: You fight him. If you win, you'll do jail time, have a criminal record and pay fines for assault. Your gf will probably break up with you because you acted like a jackass. At least you won the fight.

Worst case scenario: You fight him. He whoops your ass. You look like an idiot now. He still presses charges for assault. Then your gf leaves you for being a whimp and also a jackass.

Rational scenario: You do nothing but he'll still hit on your gf. You feel like a wiener and look like one because you can't do anything about it. Maybe she'll leave you for him in the end either way. Maybe they'll name their kid after you.

release your frustration during intercourse with your gf.

Completely agree with @DragonBandit and @BoredAF. Your gf obviously likes to stir up drama by showing you those texts knowing that they'll make you jealous and so she can have 2 guys fighting over her (whether it be physical or not) like in the movies. If she really want him to stop, she can block his number, delete him from Facebook, or simply IGNORE inappropriate messages and only reply to school-related ones. It's not that hard. It's cute that you're trying to be her knight in shining armour to "save" her but you're just playing into her fantasy.

You know what I'd do if somebody wouldn't leave my wife alone?

I wouldn't send texts back and forth and waste my time.

I'd take him by gunpoint, then make him strip his clothes and jump off suicide bridge at night time. Yep.

Rough him up, if you were in New York I would help you, someone put this thirsty nerd down.

go file a restraining order

he seems like a dumbass. just leave it alone and if your girlfriend goes off with him then she's a cheap attention seeking hoe anyway

you are show that he is a threat, stahp bein' a punk. f%$kin beta cuff yo chick. there should be no issue.

Try to convince your GF more, then kick his ass.
@BoredAF you like the way the blue guy thinks? Like a typical jock d-bag? That's great.

[quote=RitoPls]This but not the last sentence.

Are you really going to risk jail time to just beat up some guy who says things to your girl because she lets him? Tell her to block his number (why she hasn't done this already is beyond me) and move on with your lives.[/quote]
She hasn't stopped talking to him because she still has some classes with him and since she goes to a catholic school classes are small and she often gets grouped in with him for projects ect so she needs to talk to him sometimes outside of school. She's going to ask the teacher to not be with him anymore though. As for the attention, she's actually quite the opposite. She likes to do the work behind the scenes and doesn't care to be recognized all the time. She honestly doesn't like talking to him at all but she has to until they aren't in the same class together. I've talked to her about how to solve this before but he won't stop. And I doubt I'd get any jail time, if for whatever reason the cops do show up to my door I have aliases who would vouch for me saying I didn't do it. I'm willing to take the risk though to shut his cocky mouth up.

As for the people not contributing to the situation, thanks for the free bumps.

If your girlfriend cares anything about how you feel, she could just easily stop texting the guy back or just ignore/block him completely since he won't stop. As mentioned by @DragonBandit, I also think your girlfriend likes this attention.

[quote=DragonBandit]I think your gf likes the attention. She would stop it other wise. He continues cause she hasn't firmly planted her foot down. I would kick his ass and then break up with her.[/quote]

This but not the last sentence.

Are you really going to risk jail time to just beat up some guy who says things to your girl because she lets him? Tell her to block his number (why she hasn't done this already is beyond me) and move on with your lives.

Break up with the woman, she seems like she would sleep around

Kool storee, needs moar dragoons

I think your gf likes the attention. She would stop it other wise. He continues cause she hasn't firmly planted her foot down. I would kick his ass and then break up with her.