Are you mean?
Do you think you're a mean person? When you're mean, did you intend to be?
Just wondering
I like to think I'm a nice person and I'll actually mull over anything I did or said that could be considered mean. I used to hate myself for not being a good person, because sometimes I'd be a little mean to someone without meaning to. But then I got screwed over by anyone who didn't care about being mean, so now I try to be as nice as possible, but assertive when I need to be? I just want to be a good enough person that people don't have anything bad to say about me behind my back.
Update: I just thought of this. I'm not mean until I'm pushed to my limit. Even then, I'll try my hardest to be as kind as I can possibly be.
September 1, 2014
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@iTempo: can u stop quoting me? i will call 911
Ive mean in the past, a lot. It got to the point where I would either keep your knees or your balls. lol but in the past year or so, Ive gotten better mostly bc
i learned to ignore people's crap
Well depends how people treat me but I'm mostly nice.
@katrie: Uh, thanks
Usually not mean. I can be pretty mean if someone does something to me that I don't like. I am an impatient person. I don't like pretending or trying to be nice to people.
Usually I'm not mean and I don't mind anything. I can come off as cold or distant because I'm quiet and introverted. Also I'm bad at small talk.
[quote=BridgeJump]I'm too nice. Got people giving me crap everyday and I just take it politely. Fantasizing the day where I break and punch someone on the nose[/quote]
Stay strong! Never forget kindness because it's something that should always be valued, but stand up for yourself because you deserve the best
I'm too nice. Got people giving me crap everyday and I just take it politely. Fantasizing the day where I break and punch someone on the nose
I thought i was just blunt until i made a girl cry. I was just an asshole; i hate that it took making a sweet girl cry to realize that. I try my best to be as nice as i possibly can.
[quote=iTempo]According to you, yes.[/quote]
Not necessarily. Arrogant, yes. But not quite mean. Just... kind of ignorant and a little stupid if I'm being honest and letting myself be mean.
I know your feelings won't be hurt, though. You're strong enough to take it.
im not mean all the time but i do have a tendency to go over board with jokes that tend to lean towards being an insult.
am only mean when am bored around people who are boring aswell untill i piss them off or something
alot of people say im quiet when they first meet me but when they get to know me im very impish and sarcastic even when im quiet
id like to think that i just make to many jokes but overall i try and be nice to everyone i know
Usually. I hate people who can't get to the point so I'm extremely straightforward and will say something if needed. I do end up feeling bad about it sometimes so I apologize when necessary. I've been told a bunch of times I look like a b anyway haha
I'd consider myself nice because I don't judge people unless I know them well enough ( in which case criticizing others would be for jokes.) If anyone were to hate me it would be because I'm not good at socializing or they think there are smarter people to be friends with that have interests similar to them.
@Wanton "this is the kind of person that bullied me in highschool"
Definitely not. I don't hate anyone, nobody hates me (that I know of. In real life.)
Every time someone complains about other people I just don't understand why. I don't mean to get on a high horse or something but I generally tolerate everyone and I try to be as nice as possible to everyone.
Sometimes I say things that make me sound like a pr*ck, even though that's not my intent at all.
I hate all of you.
i'm a total angel.
i'm very nice when meeting someone for the first time
but once i get comfortable i can be a hell of a jerk lol
I got to a point in my life where I realized that people don't care about me, so I'm mean to everyone since I know I'll get treated in a mean way anyway.
I'm not mean. I'm just really sarcastic.
Depends on who you are/how you treat me/etc.
That being said, I'm usually fairly blunt and don't care to be around people that 1) are constantly complaining, 2) stupid or 3) have a big ego/always have to be right.
I guess you could say I'm a nice person until you annoy me.
I treat everything unequally mean and hateful in a honest way
Closest thing to mean I've been is brutally honest (90% it's just honest though).
I mean I'll talk and joke around with anybody, but if they ask me how I think of them I'll tell them the truth.
Like when somebody says we're best friends I'll just laugh a bit and say we're just friends.
Then I shrug for a bit and move on.
I'm too nice of a person that it really gets to me.
On the internet, i'm more of a mean person.