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If it's that important to you, become a tool.

@spring786: Mhm, s owhat goes on?

the little information provided makes it really hard to give you any advice.. why do they say your socially unacceptable? or whats an example or a story of one of the cases they said that?

@Sqoobles: Whooooo? What's your ign?

If you really want to be socially accepted, just seriously do what everyone else does. I am surprised at how many people say "just be yourself" because that's the politically correct answer.

Regardless of what people say, [b]there are[/b] people out there who are naturally weird just for being themselves in public. These people are [b]avoided[/b] by the same hypocrites who tell others that its better to "be yourself" in these situations.

If you care that much, just follow what everyone else does.

-Has girlfriend
-Is socially unaccepted

...What?

you should get out more meet new people and have sex

@NotKelly: Lol. I find it funny that your mad at me for no reason.

[quote=queeeny]@lilaznmage15: [b]a question: [/b]are you happy with what you are?
if yes, then don't you ever change for someone even they don't accept you the way you are.
if no, i suggest you find the thing that bothers you the most and change it[/quote]

I am happy with who I am.
I don't like changing my personality but maybe not do things in front of other people xD

[quote=Sqoobles]Omg hey its FailedRage havent seen you since you were 120 Nightmare was awesome.

Ot:How did you get a girlfriend if you were socially unacceptable?[/quote]

And you are? ;o

Yeah there's a huge difference. Antisocial means you destroy stuff. Perhaps you were looking for "socially awkward?"

By unaccepted, I think he means he doesn't fit in very well or something. He just isn't accepted by the others I guess.

Can you explain a bit more? If everyone's doing drugs and getting high, don't become accepted into that group.

[quote=Starfy3453]I agree with what you said. Because of the media's catastrophic influence on teenagers today, we throw out anything that the media deems "unacceptable", and it generally establishes set "rules" for the new style of fashion, music, etc. In my opinion, most of our generation of teenagers are so absorbed with the current fashion trend and music taste that they probably do not have their own unique lifestyles; it's all redundant and "follows the program of waht's cool and in". For this reason, many people put down the crowd that do not "follow" the media because they look at them as if they are weird, awkward, or just plain "lame" for not joining.

At TS: I do not believe that you are socially unacceptable; The people that you mentioned probably do not understand you right away because you may like completely different things and even think differently from them that may somehow contradict their social status or being. Don't worry about what they said; just be yourself because, come on, I see no point in trying to fit in with the crowd when all you are getting yourself into is a life where you are NOT in control.

And if you do have a personality or lifestyle that somehow contradicts theirs, then you're not alone; I also have a contradicting lifestyle that some girls think I should change.. "for the better" they say. But I like myself just fine becuase if I wasn't like this, then I wouldn't have gone to the school I'm currently in where I have great teachers and an awesome counselor, who both understand why I am the way I am [/quote]

This. I think you just need to be yourself. The nice, awesome 'perverted' person you are. Why would you listen to other people about what they think about you? You would drown in all those negative thoughts. I think you shouldn't care less.

@Crusades: LOl it's ok XDDD Yep.. I like being descriptive so don't bother xD

@Starfy3453: ..I don't feel like reading this. xD Too much words.

[quote=Crusades]@lilaznmage15: You're not socially unacceptable. ^^ You're just you, the rest of the people that you try and takl too are the socially unacceptables because they aren't themselves, their somebody else, they want to follow the crowd. Unlike you and I, we follow our own crowd.<3[/quote]

I agree with what you said. Because of the media's catastrophic influence on teenagers today, we throw out anything that the media deems "unacceptable", and it generally establishes set "rules" for the new style of fashion, music, etc. In my opinion, most of our generation of teenagers are so absorbed with the current fashion trend and music taste that they probably do not have their own unique lifestyles; it's all redundant and "follows the program of waht's cool and in". For this reason, many people put down the crowd that do not "follow" the media because they look at them as if they are weird, awkward, or just plain "lame" for not joining.

At TS: I do not believe that you are socially unacceptable; The people that you mentioned probably do not understand you right away because you may like completely different things and even think differently from them that may somehow contradict their social status or being. Don't worry about what they said; just be yourself because, come on, I see no point in trying to fit in with the crowd when all you are getting yourself into is a life where you are NOT in control.

And if you do have a personality or lifestyle that somehow contradicts theirs, then you're not alone; I also have a contradicting lifestyle that some girls think I should change.. "for the better" they say. But I like myself just fine becuase if I wasn't like this, then I wouldn't have gone to the school I'm currently in where I have great teachers and an awesome counselor, who both understand why I am the way I am

being ugly/awkward.

[quote=KamikazeDes]Girlfriend? Socially unaccepted. Uh-huh, sure.[/quote]

She accepts me for who I am
I know I'm not perfect and I may not be the world's best boyfriend but I love her with all my heart and she loves me with all of hers.

@spring786: People accept me for who I am also<3

find a unique outlet.

Girlfriend? Socially unaccepted. Uh-huh, sure.

If people choose not to accept you socially its their problem for not being understanding of who you are. If I were you I'd explain to your teacher that when it comes to someone's personality its best not to be judgmental. The only person who truely knows you is you.

be yourself my woman
be yourself <3

How you get a girlfriend if you're socially unaccepted? Don't ignore this like you did with people on the first page.

[quote=lilaznmage15]I'm not mean, or ingnore, or flirt with anyone besides my special someone.
I am mean to certain people who don't deserve my kindness.
My girlfriend says I'm outgoing, perverted, funny, caring, affectionate, sweet, intelligent, understanding, helpful, loyal, and much much more.
(Just asked her over the phone xD)[/quote]

You're just like me!
[b]outgoing, perverted, funny, caring, affectionate, sweet, intelligent(I haven't heard anyone say that to me before, I don't think, unless someone has said it to me but didn't pay attention), understanding, helpful, loyal, and much much more.[/b]

There is no such thing as socially unaccepted.

The only people who reject you are the people who tell you so.

[quote=ftng]drugs[/quote]

This.

[quote=lilaznmage15]I'm not mean, or ingnore, or flirt with anyone besides my special someone.
I am mean to certain people who don't deserve my kindness.
My girlfriend says I'm outgoing, perverted, funny, caring, affectionate, sweet, intelligent, understanding, helpful, loyal, and much much more.
(Just asked her over the phone xD)[/quote]

then what's the problem here
you have a girlfriend
you're all of the above
seriously what's wrong

[quote=ibrite]give us examples why you are "socially unacceptable"?
we need to know why. =3
otherwise we can't give tips, cos we don't know what your like

are you mean to people? do you ignore people? do you flirt with everyone?
are you weird in a way?
are you a troll?

yaknw'?[/quote]

I'm not mean, or ingnore, or flirt with anyone besides my special someone.
I am mean to certain people who don't deserve my kindness.
My girlfriend says I'm outgoing, perverted, funny, caring, affectionate, sweet, intelligent, understanding, helpful, loyal, and much much more.
(Just asked her over the phone xD)

I am myself. You are yourself. There are many clowns.
omg, how humorous, there's a guy with a rainbow Afro on top !

I accept you <3

Don't talk about anything from the internet. The biggest rejects from my school are always talking about trolls and memes and such.

@lilaznmage15: I'm a very nice person. ^^

@Crusades: Wow that's probably the nicest thing anyone has said to me on basil. 8D

@lilaznmage15: You're not socially unacceptable. ^^ You're just you, the rest of the people that you try and takl too are the socially unacceptables because they aren't themselves, their somebody else, they want to follow the crowd. Unlike you and I, we follow our own crowd.<3

[quote=Crusades][b]Be yourself.[/b]

I be myself around other people, and they accept me for who I am. If I go up to another person and talk to them randomly, and they don't accept me for being social towards them, then pfft, oh well. Might as well move on, right? ^^[/quote]

I'm pretty sure that's the reason why they call me socially unacceptable.

accept it.

[b]Be yourself.[/b]

I be myself around other people, and they accept me for who I am. If I go up to another person and talk to them randomly, and they don't accept me for being social towards them, then pfft, oh well. Might as well move on, right? ^^

You're trying too hard.