Your opinion on your first love/ex
Like title says and answer if you are okay with it or u regret it
My opinion, I had an good experience and well I kind of think of her every now and then. I honestly feel that I was glad to have met her.
Edit: My experience-She and I were close and we never experienced love in relationship terms. Anyways, we were really fine but then a certain amount of people that I knew that I was close to, wanted me to change cause I sometimes acted negative. I ended getting upset with her cause they criticized rather than supporting me and well she side them criticizing me. Anyways, I ended up losing feelings for her for some time and well I just.. broke down trying to change. Anyways, I felt so bad because I might hurt her or drag her down, and so we broke up and I kind of regretted it, and found out I never needed to change that way, all I needed was to believe more.
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[quote=Wanton]I've never really had an actual first 'love', but rather a crush. How dare he let my age deter him from liking me. He told me this. We were only 3 years apart geebuz.[/quote]
yeah, no actual first "love" either. the one crush i had that actually liked me back though, we're 7 years apart o: (we're both 18+) he felt weird about it at first bc he said i was the youngest (like furthest apart in age) person he's liked.
- it started off by me prank calling him. we have a mutual friend. she and i were joking one day about our ideal guy, and when i said what my ideal guy would be like, she was all 'oh that's like my friend!' and i was joking when i said she should give me his #. she actually did though and she laughed her head off while watching me call him. he didn't pick up so i had to leave a msg. forgot to leave a callback # so texted him the "call me maybe" refrain with my #. he actually called me back. then started texting a couple days a week, then every day. then moved to IMing over skype. i started to like him but didn't say anything until a couple months later cuz then he said he thought he liked me. blah blah blah, figured out we both liked each other.
ended up not doing anything about it. neither of us wanted a relationship at that time of our lives in general...but i'd say we kinda had a thing going on, bc there was a period of time where he'd text good night and good morning and etc. so it was a cutesy nothing. i don't think we were right personality-wise with each other, had a lot of major differences and our fair share of arguments, but we still talk almost every day so it's been okay i'd say neither of us holds romantic feelings for the other anymore though.
I was fourteen, almost fifteen at the time. It was the beginning of high school and I'd say this is where my personality began its maturing process. At this point, I was going from a strong introvert to a moderate extrovert and so I asked her to Homecoming and other such school events and functions. We dated for, I dunno, four months before problems started arising. I wouldn't say I'm a jealous person, but when the person you have feelings for seems to be flirting with someone else, you do get a tad bit paranoid. Anyhow, she started flirting with one of my best friends whom I had known for seven years at the time. He flirted and flirted and flirted; he said he did it to annoy me for fun two years later. They held hands and touched each other a lot, so I got fed up with it and just gave her an ultimatum: the old "him or me" one. She chose him to be her best friend and a month later, started dating a different guy. I can't say she gave the best kisses or anything, to be honest her kissing was subpar, she used way too much saliva and it probably looked like she was eating my face.
My best friend and I went back to being best friends after that, well, until he totally screwed me over and betrayed me two years later for a girl that I was and still am convinced that I loved.
I still miss him and still have strong feelings for him no matter how bad he wronged me since I actually fell in love with him. I have never done so many things in order to save a relationship. I would always think of myself and walkout on people's lives.
But I'm accepting that there's no way that we can be together and moving on day by day.
edit: grammar mistakes bc im talking to someone.
experience-it's a very long story and it doesn't really matter anymore.
My 1st ex is still one of my closest friends today
Not much to say. He was a mildly attractive fool. He was even more foolish for asking me out. I was a fool for getting too attached to him. His father was an fool for accepting a job offer that required them to move away, and I was the biggest fool of all for letting him go...
"Dating is a fool's game" is the impression I got from it. You don't really ever get 'good' at it. You just learn to roll with the punches a little better, but I'm no boxer.
I don't think I've really ever had a first love. There was someone who I had a massive crush on throughout high school and looking back now it was kind of silly, but I wouldn't say I regret it because I really don't care.
We loved each other until the day we broke up... we changed for the better... but was it all worth it? I don't know. I hear sayings like there are better people out there for us or that we will find better things.. but what I had with her was great and I was satisified with it... is it that we find greater things in life.. or were the great things in our life just lose value after we lose them?
I liked her and she liked me. We just never got around to dating because problems arose. A guy, in her circle of friends, started to like her. He became obsessed with her. I was really close with her and everyone knew it. He wanted to beat me up and this was a guy I had never even met before. She had a lot of problems from the past and now her friends began pressuring her to go out with him. She became so stressed with all the bs that everyone was giving her and so I just decided to leave her alone so there would be one less problem to worry about. That was probably extremely stupid on my part. She was stressed and I should have just been there for her. We drifted apart and we just stopped talking at school and texting. I would get an occasional call at like midnight from her every once in a while and we'd just talk till morning, but that was really the only time we talked. Now that I look back, she probably really wanted to talk to me during school too and wanted me to text her. She eventually started dating someone near the end of 8th grade, yes 8th lol, but it wasn't that guy who was obsessing over her. At that point I still liked her but I had given up. She stopped giving me late night calls and we just don't talk as much anymore. We go to the same high school and whenever I see her I regret ignoring her.
TL;DR: I was stupid asf and still like her a bit even after 4 years.
Whenever I think about my ex: "Why was I so stupid?"
I've never really had an actual first 'love', but rather a crush. How dare he let my age deter him from liking me. He told me this. We were only 3 years apart geebuz.
Remember when i first set my eyes on that delicious bowl of ramen. first love lasted about 5-10 min.
Hmm my first love has been my only love. Haven't regretted yet. Sure there are problems now and then (really just small stuff) but what relationship is completely without some friction.
4 years of wasted life.
She gave the best head
well we went strong for about 3 months then she cheated on me, broke up wit me & proceeded screwed her ex. i was pretty heart broken at the time (she said i wasn't giving her enough attention in person) but i eventually moved on and dated new girls & forgot about her. surprisingly i forgave her and we're still friends && we still talk
learned not to be a clingy dk wipe.
love pending
he shattered my heart and i hope that hes crying right now or ever
[quote=TheDStar]I never had a first love
Awkward...[/quote]
Another awkward turtle coming by...
He's better off dead
I have very strong negative feelings for my first love. She had sex with another guy then led me on to make it work then told me what she did. Then I left for good but she would have killed herself for me leaving so fast. So I gave her a chance but was miserable so I kept breaking up and getting back with her. Finally she didn't come back and is now with the guy she betrayed me with and I am just like wow. So much sadness in my heart from being betrayed, lost future, lonliness, and feeling hopeless, etc. She could die for all I care as long as she doesn't go to hell.
I'm just happy she wasn't a hoe lol.
I never had a first love
Awkward...
[quote=iDrinkOJ]I love her for everything she gave to me. I hate her for taking it all away. Now only memories of days passed and a broken heart remain.[/quote]
Yeah im about the same with some hateful words added in
I used to love to watch her get played by every single guy after me and see her get heart broken, I hated her. But then I matured and realized that we were 13 and it was stupid to think that we would grow old together and live happily ever after. I haven't talked to her since we brokeup because I just don't care about her or what she does with her life, but I wouldn't go as far as to say I hope she dies since that's a bit too extreme and harsh in my opinion.
Online relationship. We were both way too dramatic for our own good, but I guess I did grow from the experience.
She cheated on me with a friend of mine. she could die for all i care.
My first love was named righty, but than I cheated on him with lefty.
Not the best experience. I rarely got to hang out with him, his parents were major Bible thumpers, his mom basically thought I was a she-devil, and he ended up pushing me way too much with this whole affection thing (Which I was very new to). I didn't really even like my first kiss.
But I suppose I did enjoy some of it, and he did teach me a lot about relationships. We still talk as friends, and we get along better than we did when we were in a relationship. My first relationship may not have been what I would have preferred, but I certainly wouldn't change it if I could.
i hope she gets hit by a bus
I love her for everything she gave to me. I hate her for taking it all away. Now only memories of days passed and a broken heart remain.