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Do you find it difficult to be nice all the time?

Why is it so difficult to be nice to people. ._. I mean 24/7. I don't really notice it, but right now I'm sick and my tolerance level of people has deflated and everything I say just comes out really rude. You can chalk it up to being grumpy, but damn why can't being nice just come naturally to me. It's so exhausting.
I'm jealous of people who can be so genuinly nice all the time just for the sake of being nice as in not driven by religion, fear, ego boost etc., but sometimes they're too nice that you'd think one day they'd snap and murder you.
Is your tolerance of other people really high or low?

April 10, 2015

19 Comments • Newest first

nindow

im not sure, but i think im nice cause people are usually friendly towards me. i do know that i have a high tolerance cause people that are considered to be extreme assholes dont bother me at all unless they really go overboard.

Reply April 11, 2015
fradddd

I never "TRY" to be anything.
I'm usually either laughing or relaxed as hell... at night people think I'm high, cause then I'm a bit tired ya know.

But I guess I come across as nice, cause I don't dislike people either.

Reply April 11, 2015
ClementZ

It doesn't take any extra effort for me to be nice or rude to someone.
So, no I generally don't find it hard to be nice.

Reply April 11, 2015
CureSword

I would say it depends on the person I see.

Reply April 11, 2015
Defaulty

im nice but if u mess wit me ima fok u up

Reply April 10, 2015
tiesandbowties

People usually know where they stand with me
I'm not about that fake niceness BS life

If we're cool, then I'm nice to you which is like 99% of people I meet anyways. But if you rub me the wrong way, I have absolutely no hesitation to tell you otherwise. I would want other people to do the same thing to me anyways

Reply April 10, 2015 - edited
renaflor

I have [b]extremely high[/b] tolerance for people. Like I think it might even be [i]too[/i] high. I think I need to get mad at people more often, or at least when/if I do I need to be more intimidating ._.
People always go, "Aww. " or call me "cute" when I'm angry.. .____."

Reply April 10, 2015 - edited
natalie

i have pretty high tolerance cause i know that i'm not easy to get along with either but there's one guy at work that i can't seem to like no matter what. he slacks off and hides yet he has the nerve to boss people around. i can't not frown whenever he's around even for a second unless it's to smile sarcastically before i deck him out. whenever i dislike somebody it becomes quite obvious but i'm generally okay with most people. you be nice to others and myself, i'll be nice to you

Reply April 10, 2015 - edited
betaboi101

You don't need to be a pushover but being some cynical mental case is obnoxious to be around. Try to be considerate and as yourself as possible while also making somewhat of an effort not to be offensive when around someone that may take something the wrong way. No one wants to be brought down by some debby downer

Reply April 10, 2015 - edited
ApexAlpha

I wake up every morning with a set amount of tolerance. With transportation to college and having to take the bus with high schoolers, I get really grouchy by my first class. Yes it is very hard to be nice 24/7

Reply April 10, 2015 - edited
rixworkwix

i have a high tolerance now but at the same time im never over the top nice. i mix my nice with a level of sarcasm and no one is really bothred by it. i ussualy dont care if people are not nice to me, i know im probably never gonna see them again

Reply April 10, 2015 - edited
Xreniya

people get mad too easily srsly
like
im sorry someone thinks a different way than you and im sorry someone has a different opinion than you
didnt know that that was so disturbing to you

i have a high tolerance for people, except for when those people have a low tolerance for others
i only get mad at people who get mad too easily
and i only judge people who judge too hastily

Reply April 10, 2015 - edited
Rollsback

Very high, but I'll silently judge or mumble the things I'd like to say out loud while ignoring you when you try to talk to me.

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ScrambledEgg

Hang out with people more your speed; doesn't hurt to maybe take a break from seeing certain people as often. If these are work people, find a pastime or hobby where you can hang out with people your speed after work.

Reply April 10, 2015 - edited
enoch129

I'm very selective as to who I even bother talking to/investing time in the first place lol. What's funny is that being nice isn't hard at all.

Reply April 10, 2015 - edited
iDrinkOJ

I'm not sure what I am. I can't see from other peoples perspectives. But I've lost many friends so that must mean I'm not a nice person?
I'm working on being a better person.

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Colour

depends on the person i say t to the i to the eruruhg

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Quasar

Only if someone is being so uncool then it difficult to be nice.

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MateoCl

My tolerance of people fluctuates between really tolerant and if you come near me I'm gonna break your neck.

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