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My ex is my ex because he cheated on me. I was really mean to him and called him a "nothing but a learning experience" in regards to men who are extremely promiscuous. I apologized a couple months later, then he tried to sleep with me again so I just don't talk to him. I find him repulsing.

Definitely dump
If I am not enough to satisfy them, the they should go find someone else

I'd break up with him. I'd forgive him since everyone makes mistakes, but I would no longer trust him.

i probably would give one more chance and if they abuse that one chance too, i wouldn't even consider being friends with them anymore. i do admit that in the past i've given somebody multiple chances just to have him dump me in the end because he couldn't be faithful to me like i was to him. had i just ignored him and moved on the first time he messed up the relationship wouldn't have dragged on for two years. regrets, regrets ...

suicidal b3etches need to be left w0rd.

It depends on a lot of things.

i stab them, in the back.

[quote=CureSword]Break up with them and treat them like they don't exist.[/quote]

This. Exactly this.

I would leave her even if i love her so much, because the thoughts of her been with another man won't disappear.
Just looking at her would remind me.
Even if she sincerely apologize, I'd leave.
Also, can't guarantee that she won't do it again, right?

[quote=zoneflare2]Werent you suicidal and having a whole bunch of mental issues not too long ago?[/quote]

Yeah, do you think that's what drove him away? I don't think it should matter..

I don't deal with cheaters.
She'd be gone mighty quick once I found out she cheated.

It may be hard, but I'd definitely stop talking to them forever.

Of course it does depend on your particular situation.

I'd probably give them a chance to explain themselves and if their answer is not sufficient, then I'd need to learn to forget. Perhaps not forgive, but I'd move on and forget about them completely.

After all, what happens in the past stays in the past. You can move on to better and greater people

[quote=sceneangelx]nope what? you didnt answer the question. im guessing if they were unfaithful, youd replace them?[/quote]
Yes, yes I would.

@sceneangelx: both

In a relationship, power is with the one who cares less. That's why your "guy" doesn't care, because he knows you care a lot more. However, infidelity is unacceptable, notwithstanding the kind of relationship might be.

No one is forced to stay in a relationship, if you wanna go boink someone else then have the decency to end the relationship first.

who cares... oh they slept with someone else? Boo hoo

If he cheats on you, then that means he doesn't appreciate you enough.
If he doesn't appreciate you, then he doesn't deserve you.
Never stay with a cheater.

Its funny that this happened to me recently, my girl of over 2 years cheated on me, and had the nerve to cuss me out and get upset with me when I told her I did not want to be with her anymore. Needless to say, she has been terminated from my life. Some people forgive, but I don't when it comes to cheating. No matter the circumstances if a girl cheats on me I will end the relationship instantly, and that girl will become dead to me. I have absolutely no tolerance for cheating, and it definitely can not be called a mistake.

Well recently 1 of my friends was unfaithful and I was like wtf u cant do that and he was like yea but I had the urge to....
It made me think if it happened to me I would dump her so hard and make his and her life miserable.

[quote=Vannaful]Depends on the scenario and our overall relationship.
I'd probably forgive them if we were in a long-term relationship, but my trust would drop down to 0. And hope eventually they'll raise it back up. People make mistakes. And obviously there must've been something wrong within the relationship that we would need to work on and move past it.
Unless I was only dating them for less than 6months and they pull that; then I'd drop them and never look back.[/quote]
I think this is a very mature response.
I think if you genuinely love someone, the thought of being without them is more painful than the fact that they cheated. I think it's important to talk it out really and see if they're willing to change. Your trust will drop to zero but you'll still have the person you love. If they're not willing to change, then you move on. If they are... Then I think it's fairer to yourself that you do what makes you happy.

That being said, I personally can't practise what I preach here... I'm way too prideful so I'd have to get my revenge in the cruelest way possible. Maybe after that, I could move on with them XD

In the described case, i'd leave them.
If it is REALLY one time slip, i think i could get over it

Leave her and find someone faithful.

Second time?
Ditch the person immediately!

@sceneangelx: Aww sorry to hear that dang I know how you feel though it is always tough at first... but you learn how to deal with it after a while.

[quote=DragonBandit]@sceneangelx it is that easy to let go. I was dating this girl for 2 years and w.e I loved her she "loved me"... but she was a female dog. Lied to me all the time, cheated on me and etc etc. You gotta realize that if they aren't in it 100% they aren't worth your time. -.- Move on its not a big deal. Just stop thinking about them all the time.[/quote]
this is the second time ive been through this.. i feel like im in repeat.

[quote=BoredAF]It depends on how they cheated and with whom. I mean ppl make mistakes and some are so guilt ridden they won't do it again. Others on the other hand, will cheat more than once. I mean no one's perfect, but if you love the person, give them a second chance.[/quote]
Took the words right out of my mouth.

@sceneangelx it is that easy to let go. I was dating this girl for 2 years and w.e I loved her she "loved me"... but she was a female dog. Lied to me all the time, cheated on me and etc etc. You gotta realize that if they aren't in it 100% they aren't worth your time. -.- Move on its not a big deal. Just stop thinking about them all the time.

Break up with them and treat them like they don't exist.

[quote=desimator546]burn the remains.[/quote]

remains of what? the relationship or the body?

burn the remains.

i leave them. i'm usually very forgiving, but given the circumstances, that could change.
i won't ever forget it though.

[quote=ExinityRebirth]Maybe you should stop being

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So Vengeful

YEEEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh No.[/quote]

I hate my Basil ID. I couldn't think of one so I saved a random Mapler's name while in the FM and used it without thinking. Oh well~

if only it were that easy to let go they dropped me like a hot potato when i had emotional issues, had a neck injury, was in hospital after allergy to medication and more. i thought it was mutual, but im starting to believe everything in those 3 years was a lie. like EVERYTHING. they were to this day as i found them >.<

Only a stupid teenager would not immediately break up with someone who cheated on them. Even marriages lasting a long time end because of affairs. So why shouldn't a stupid relationship? I wouldn't hate them I would just move on... however not with out some insulting words thrown there way.

dump them and never keep in contact
if they don't give you the decency to tell you what's on their mind then have the decency yourself to make sure it stays that way

I would first need a girlfriend for that to happen.

[quote=HastyHeist]lol nope. I'd shop for another.[/quote]

nope what? you didnt answer the question. im guessing if they were unfaithful, youd replace them?

Break up immediately.

lol nope. I'd shop for another.