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My friends 18 and never kissed a girl?

am I the only one that thinks this is weird? idk what to tell him

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April 4, 2015

45 Comments • Newest first

glorglo

Oh cmon its not weird, y do u have to kiss a girl before 18? it's only weird if u kissed a girl wen ur like, 12

Reply April 6, 2015
TheKingslayer

@fradddd: I just dont think kissing is that big if a deal personally. If I was his age and still hadnt kissed a girl id be more worried about losing the v than that. Id be more worried about trying to experience more explicit things than simple kissing.

Reply April 6, 2015
Wanton

i dont think its weird at all.
perhaps he just hasn't found someone that he likes enough to kiss yet
simple as that
or maybe he's not into kissing
idk. if you're that curious then you can just ask him? ? ?

Reply April 6, 2015
Killeem

im 17 n virgin

bt if u dtf hmu

Reply April 6, 2015
fradddd

[quote=TheKingslayer]lol kissing a girl is still an accomplishment? We still in the 20th century or something? My first kiss was in kindergarten.. few times in middle school.. highschool ..college... at work.. I never saw it as a big deal, it just happened and meant nothing. What I consider an actual accomplishment is touchy touchy in private places and actually slaying the dragon.. not this kissy stuff.

But to each his own.[/quote]

Well, yes, because it happens early for so many people, it's not really an accomplishment.
But at the same time, that makes it WORSE to go for a long time without your first kiss. I guess you'd never know how unsatisfying it feels unless you're in OP's (or my) position.

Reply April 6, 2015
powerguy121

I never kissed a girl until I was 19.
There's honestly no rush.

Reply April 5, 2015
DjFunky

[quote=Nfeeble]Stop over-analyzing these threads, people. His "friend" is mostly likely himself, but I'll grant him the benefit of the doubt and suppose he's not lying. Very few people that haven't kissed someone by that age haven't because of some romantic reason as others seem to be portraying. 'Waiting to find the girl he likes or the right moment, etc.' Get that crap out of here; he hasn't kissed a girl yet because he's most likely an unattractive, insecure and awkward person.[/quote]

>Isn't unattractive, insecure or awkward irl
>Hasn't ever kissed a girl
>'Waiting to find the girl he likes or the right moment, etc.' Is a legit reason
>Although I kinda get your point. Your opinion is kinda bs tbh. No offense.

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xdarkshynobi

Leave him alone. I hate the fact I lost my virginity to a 14 yr old thot.

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Minarii

Althought it might not seem like it now, 18 is still very young....

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Xreniya

i am 19 and i have kissed 1000000 girls

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CeroFX

How old is too old to have no kissed a girl?

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nindow

meh. people do things at their own pace.

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TrueAtheist

It's more weird that you made a thread about your friend not having a kissed a girl than it is your friend not having kissed a girl.

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fradddd

I'll be 18 in two months and I've never kissed a girl, or had a girlfriend, and I'm a virgin still of course. And yeah it sucks.
I'm trying to work on it though...between the time I get out of school (May 14) and the time I turn 18 and get a full time job, I'm definitely gonna be on a quest to date my crush. Well I already am now, but I'll be able to do more then.

I've gone on two "dates" with two different girls, but the first one was a female friend, and the second one is my crush. But they're really more like hangouts.

Reply April 5, 2015 - edited
WontPostMuch

There's nothing super weird about it tbh.

Reply April 4, 2015 - edited
djho57

i french kiss ya wenus

Reply April 4, 2015 - edited
iDrinkOJ

I like tongue wrestling.

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random87

The only thing I can think of on this topic is that maybe sometime in the future he does get his first kiss, and the person notices he's not all that great at it.
I don't see what's wrong with it, apart from maybe an awkward moment or two somewhere in the future.
Don't worry about it though,
I know enough girls who 18 or older and haven't had their first kiss either, and I bet those who have don't mind teaching

Reply April 4, 2015 - edited
eskmoo

[quote=Nfeeble]Stop over-analyzing these threads, people. His "friend" is mostly likely himself, but I'll grant him the benefit of the doubt and suppose he's not lying. Very few people that haven't kissed someone by that age haven't because of some romantic reason as others seem to be portraying. 'Waiting to find the girl he likes or the right moment, etc.' Get that crap out of here; he hasn't kissed a girl yet because he's most likely an unattractive, insecure and awkward person.[/quote]

I usually agree with a lot that you say, but I gotta state my conflicting view.
I would consider myself to be unattractive, insecure and awkward, yet I had my first kiss around 15 or 16.
The person I kissed wasn't a random either, they were somebody that I was close with, we were never in a real relationship but we were on the right track.
Attraction extends beyond seeing a person and saying "yeah you're hot". Attraction can spawn from loving another person's personality (real talk).
I do agree with you in some way though, in terms of a general hook up that means nothing an hour later, being objectively unattractive will make it very difficult to actually have a general hook up.

Reply April 4, 2015 - edited
TheKingslayer

lol kissing a girl is still an accomplishment? We still in the 20th century or something? My first kiss was in kindergarten.. few times in middle school.. highschool ..college... at work.. I never saw it as a big deal, it just happened and meant nothing. What I consider an actual accomplishment is touchy touchy in private places and actually slaying the dragon.. not this kissy stuff.

But to each his own.

Reply April 4, 2015 - edited
WindowLegs

has he ever had a girlfriend? or perhaps he has kissed many males and you just dont know about it

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Amorous

Thats like saying omg guys @SillyMule. doesnt have 2-2m range on maplestory... isnt he a clown?
everyone grows at their own pace.
youre not really his "friend" for judging him so pathetically.

Reply April 4, 2015 - edited
spireweb

get him a beer

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zigen

ive never kissed a girl either

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GizzyJones

Kissing's not all that great, tbh. Sex on the other hand... Perfectly fine for either to happen later though.

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hyperfire7

I think it's weird. Go be in a relationship. It teaches you a lot.

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DawnEmperor

I'm 19 and never kissed a girl/went on a date.
And I'm not ashamed of it in the slightest.
The ONLY time I would ashamed is when I do kiss someone and I'm 19 and I'm expected to know HOW and I have absolutely no idea, and the girl just looks at me like a weirdo.

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sparkshooter

I'm 18, and same situation.

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Dupants

there are plenty of people 18+ that never kissed someone

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Duzz

I kissed a girl, but I wasn't really down for it.

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krishman

Toxic alpha male social ideals make it seem like its weird. Its really not. Everyone grows up at their own age, everyone has their firsts at different times. Everyone is different and your friend could just be waiting to meet a nice girl who he actually likes rather than a random because his friends are pressuring him into feeling insecure enough to do something about it..

Reply April 4, 2015 - edited
itoldyounoob

Not really weird. Some people just don't get into relationships, and don't really try to.
Took me 6 months in a relationship to do it. I'm pretty sure I'm more weird than your friend.

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kiue

STDs are dangerous these days. Better safe than sorry. Know your partner before anything bad happens

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UAPaladin

Nah, it's not that abnormal

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superswift12

Go study you druglords. Go make your life better.

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jonathansayshi

Didn't know there was an age requirement to kiss someone else.

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AntiSenpai

Eh, to me it's weird but to others, prolly not.

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Bioniclema93

I'm almost 23 and never kissed a girl, and I don't think it'll happen any time soon. I am a heterosexual male.

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marchiris

that friend is you

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Shini

Absolutely not odd. He's probably waiting until he finds someone whom he truly likes. Kissing girls isn't a contest. Noting wrong with being 18 or even older and still haven't kissed anyone. I kissed a girl when i was 14 and really regretted it. I wished i waited.
Also, don't pressure him about this. Real friends don't do this. He'll kiss a girl when he's ready.
Furthermore, the guy above me also has a good point.

Reply April 4, 2015 - edited
flygon123445

girls these days, you dont want to know where their mouths have been.
go single.
dont go for guys, go single.

tell that to your friend.

Reply April 4, 2015 - edited
Torque

general ms questions and answers

no because how 2 kiss pixels

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